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Do/did anyone elses parents argue *all* the time when they were younger? Mine argue about the stupidest things and just this morning they had one about something really small and my dad went apeshit (more so than I've ever seem him go before) and first threw a mug across the room at other plates and stuff, then proceeded to walk round the house shouring profanities. He then got in his car and has gone AWOL. It it usually his fault cos my mum has a really peaceful nature and they just clash when she acts calm about everything. He's gone missing before and stayed out all night and stuff, but what irritates me the most is my mums got a lot on her plate at the moment without him acting like a dick. Then there's me, kinda on my own just whistling or flicking through a tv page like it not happening. Sometimes I wish they'd split up (which I think will eventually happen, even if for a short amount of time). Can't wait till uni, no wonder I picked one as far aay as I could get. |
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i know what you mean... believe me |
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I know EXACTLY what you mean,bah :( |
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They are probably arguing about you, B3N... Why not leave home and let your parents get on with their lives... |
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They most certainly aren't |
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hehe yeah my parents used too be at each other all the time |
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I also know what you mean b3.... unfortunately.... Just keep cool man, everything gets better.....=) |
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she is a woman iron |
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I reckon its all down to capitalist ideals |
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my apologies....The PIC threw me off.... Either way....I feel ya.... |
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WTF, I'm MALE! Why am I female?!?!? |
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Capitalist ideals? |
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b-b-b-but it says male in B3n profile? *blinks* |
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Ah,I was all O_o for a moment..lol |
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no one knows me here, inm 28 and my parents got divorced last year, the day after i got married they told me. Now my dad doesnt talk to me and my mum has a new man, shit happens?!?* |
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ahhh ha..... now I do not feel so bad.... Nac, you half asleep man?...;) |
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oops its true sorry b3n sorry iron lung i dont know why i thought that really sorry b3n |
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Yeah, like pressure on people to be able to afford material possessions, *especially* when my dad is out of work and we live in a rich area |
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They'd be able to afford more stuff if you moved out... |
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You could always look at it this way....You still HAVE both parents and they are ALIVE.... Things could be worse man.... (I hope that didnt sound cynical, it wasnt at all).....=) |
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Sorry, I am a bastard today... |
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im bored, bored, bored, bored, breod, deorb, hmmm.... |
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I've only got to finish my exams in a few months and then I'll leave. Otherwise, I'm not risking my entire future |
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Sure IronLung, I've thought about that many times, but it shouldn't stop the rest of out lives |
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Agreed..... =) |
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Yep, the pressure upon individuals to accumulate the symbols of material wealth do fuck people's lives up. Its all bullshit. But then how would the rich get rich if we didn't work like dogs and then pay them vast sums of money for the goods and services we actually produce? If you're going to uni then that's a good thing. You can start a life for yourself, meet new people, start up new relationships. All you can do is be there for your parents when they need you. However you must carve out a life for yourself. Its THEIR problem and THEIR life. They've made their choices, its time to make yours without the pressure of your parents difficulties. Sorry man. I'm being really patronising. Its just my girlfriend has gone through it over the past few years. Its sometimes harder at this age as your parents don't try and hide what's going on like they may have when you were younger. I'll stop babbling now. |
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Nah, I completely agree, they are adults and its up to them but its still pretty upsetting, especially when you've lived with them for so long. Check this out, its scary shit - http://news.bbc.co.uk/hi/english/business/newsid_1841000/18 41057.stm |
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Whats worse is that when I try to talk to my brother about it (who lives on the other side of the world) he acts like its some kind of joke and nothing serious, which really annoys me |
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Yeah I see your point. Its always upsetting, no matter what. Your bro doesn't live with it like you so probably doesn't realise how bad it is. |
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stop being so understanding, jonesy... you're only being nice so no-one goes on about your head... |
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:/ |
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O_o |
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next time an argument starts go out side and proceed to burn the house down (a bit) when they see you tackling the flames out side say with a glass of water they will realise what a wonderfull son they have and that by saving there lives you have kept the family in one piece? |
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Ow shut up Jand. Yew jast fink yor well cewl coz yor from Essex. Get back in yor Escort XR3 and wait outside the high school for the young girlies |
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big head... |
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My parents have generally been fine, but I've seen a lot of my friends parents in shitty relationships. Hope things get better for you one way or the other. |
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swimmyfishy - love yer icon b3n - man, i cant say i know what u mean, but you got my sympathy dude |
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that sux b3n i feel lucky that my parents got along so well. this is why my music has no angst i guess. |
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