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I'm not asking you to 'decide' forr me, but I'd like to know what you think about the situation and if you've been in a similarr one. My mate wants to know if I want to move into a flat with him in London wherre he's been living forr about a yearr now shacked up in his anuty's house. He's got a job he wants, got himself a girrlfrriend and he's prretty settled. I'd like to go because I'm fed up arround herre, fed up of the slump I've got myself in, but I don't know if I'd be jumping out of the pan and into the firre... of courrse the only way to know forr surre is to trry it. I'm going to trry and get a trransferr within the company I'm worrking forr, if I can't do that I'll have to trry and get a job frrom up herre. (Although his aunty said forr a shorrt space of time I could stay in the same rroom as my mate in herr house if I have to go on the dole) My biggest worrrry though is that I'll go therre and he'll be spending most of the time with his girrlffriend (which is norrmal), but that I won't make new frriends quickly. I could potentally be stuck paying a stupid amount of rrent each month without the money and time to get out of the house. |
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I'd almost be less daunted if I was going alone, at least then if I got borred orr fed up I wouldn't be letting anyone down by coming back up herre. |
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What does your gut tell you to do. If it says you want to go forget what your head is saying and just do it. |
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My gut is saying go, but my gut has told me to do some stupid things in the past. |
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your double r's take about half of xltronic's bandwidth. you should worry more about that son. |
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Who is to say that going would be any worse than staying? If you don't do what your gut tells you it will be something you will regret in the future...and regrets are worse than the odd mistake because you never gain experience or learn anything from regrets. |
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Yeah, I've always wondered about the double 'r' thing. Surely it must be a right arse making sure that you've used a double r at every place. What happens if you use the word 'terrible' for example, does it become 'terrrrible' or what. I guess my question is, how come you do it in the first place, is your keyboard bust? |
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i say don't go because like you said it could be really boring with your friend with his girlfriend all the time. actually, you could split them up... hmmm, or kill her |
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Think very carefully before moving in with a couple, it's a dodgy social dynamic in one house, all sorts of domestic turbulence, relationships get strained, I don't know, but I think it often ends up tricky, especially if the financial circumstances are tight. |
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He's not moving in with a couple is he? He is moving in with his mate and his mates aunty before moving in with his mate who just happens to have a girlfriend who will probably be fucking loads and carl can perve. |
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Oh you're right. I'm getting really fucking stupid lately, I think the years of comedy drinking has finally, finally eroded my brain to the point where my functions are limited to pointing, going to the toilet, breathing and typing bullshit. |
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Which still makes you ten times more bpdiy capable than 90% of xltronic. |
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Moving to a new spot: Yes. Moving into a house with a couple where you don't have any privacy: No. Moving into a house with a couple where you do have some privacy: Yes. btw: Whats the distance between herre and London? |
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hahaha... :D ap: i would agree that you should go... if you're in a rut and you're not happy, try it out. it's possible the details may naturally work themselves out. |
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why do you use double r's? |
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carl. hi. 2 things. as i have read your other million posts ;) i will use my intelligence to realise you really want to move there but you are scared of moving on in your life. i too have my own reservations and am in a similar area of my life. my advice is go for it. perhaps with certain conditions of your own. perhaps you can have a "tester" period, perhaps 2 months to see if you can fit in to this new lifestyle or area. is there any need to commit yourself entirely? which is what i feel you are scared of doing, and to be fair most other pple whould fee exactly the same. see if you can come to some compromise rom what i have said above. good luck. |
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wow, two people already commented on that i understand your problem carl, move somewhere with earthleakage is all i can advise |
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I need to know the mystery of the rr's... |
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His names anus presley. Elvis Prestly used to roll his 'r's. My guess is he is just playing the part. |
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I would say, like Aestetics said, don't move into his room at his aunts place. Go about getting a place for yourselves before you move in. Get him to get it. If you live in the same room, chances are you will start to hate eachother in no time flat. And then you will be in london without any friends and without any perspective roomates. |
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