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Opto
on 2005-04-28 04:07 [#01578488]
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after 6 years. she thinks about leaving me.
i really want to dissapear.
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-crazone
from smashing acid over and over on 2005-04-28 04:08 [#01578489]
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sorry to hear that..why?
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Taxidermist
from Black Grass on 2005-04-28 04:08 [#01578490]
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That sucks dude. I had a relationship end at four years, but it was just waiting to die for the year and a half leading up to the end anyway.
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Opto
on 2005-04-28 04:10 [#01578491]
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i dunno really. she says i was too nervous and my opinions were weeird. she thinks that if she will look for someone else she will be happy. i let her go from flat already.just because i love her so much i wanted her to see what im capable of.
i said if shes coming back, i will forget. were young. we have time.
she wants to run away from problems.
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-crazone
from smashing acid over and over on 2005-04-28 04:15 [#01578492]
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if you really love her dont let her go..there are probably a lot off people who want your girl..so huury and tell her you want her
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-crazone
from smashing acid over and over on 2005-04-28 04:16 [#01578493]
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huury=hurry
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Exaph
from United Kingdom on 2005-04-28 04:20 [#01578495]
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I disagree... if she really loves YOU (which is what's important here) then she WILL come back eventually... if not then you can at least console yourself with the fact that you are free to meet someone else that you may fall IN love with.
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AlbertoBalsalm
from ReykjavÃk (Iceland) on 2005-04-28 04:41 [#01578503]
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fuck bitches
wow ..this advice works on so many levels
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ecnadniarb
on 2005-04-28 04:42 [#01578504]
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Big changes are often coupled with self reevaluation. Let her sort her head out and I am sure that if it is right she will be back.
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Drunken Mastah
from OPPERKLASSESVIN!!! (Norway) on 2005-04-28 04:45 [#01578509]
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sorry to hear that, man!
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Exaph
from United Kingdom on 2005-04-28 04:47 [#01578510]
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Initially, I fort this post was about that weepy film..
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Opto
on 2005-04-28 04:48 [#01578513]
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i know everything now. just phoned her for talk. she left me coz of the other guy that shes working with.
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bill_hicks
from my city is amazing it is calle on 2005-04-28 04:49 [#01578515]
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I'm amazed that she stayed with you as long as she did. You sound like a right prize twat. Send her my way and i'll give her some of the bill_hicks cock. Put a smile on her face.
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Taxidermist
from Black Grass on 2005-04-28 04:51 [#01578517]
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Advice you probly don't want to hear (don't read if you don't want to hear it);
Women rarely make snap decisions when it comes to where they live and relationships. Things like this usually come from planning, and they usually leave thousands of hints lying around for you to pick up on (unless they are ubercrazy). Chances are, if she left, she left for a reason, and with a plan, or a backup.
What is best for you to do, is act like a shithead to make it easier for both of you. Chances are, if you do continue talking, it won't be possible for you to be the nice guy and the asshole (which is the position she is writing for you if the relationship is about to end, just to make things easier for herself) at the same time.
Anyways, there are my two cents. Generally if she is just becoming a psycho, then its probly better to leave her alone and ignore her. I hope that didn't sound incensitive or anything. Just trying to be frank.
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bill_hicks
from my city is amazing it is calle on 2005-04-28 04:53 [#01578523]
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FUCK HER THEN KILL HER! NO....KILL HER THEN FUCK HER! YEAH!
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Exaph
from United Kingdom on 2005-04-28 05:01 [#01578527]
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Does anyone know of a couple that have sustained a happy loving relationship over a long period of time? I'm not being depressing.. just wondering..
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Bob Mcbob
on 2005-04-28 05:01 [#01578528]
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cook her some bacon.
girls cant resist the great taste of bacon.
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Ceri JC
from Jefferson City (United States) on 2005-04-28 05:04 [#01578529]
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Yes, my parents. One of the few long term couples I know that don't seem to get on each others nerves.
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ecnadniarb
on 2005-04-28 05:09 [#01578530]
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My dads parents where together from the age of 14 until my grandad died. They were married for over 50 years, and the only time they spent apart was early on in their relationship when my grandad went to fight in the second world war.
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big
from lsg on 2005-04-28 05:11 [#01578533]
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can i have her?
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big
from lsg on 2005-04-28 05:11 [#01578534]
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sorry
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big
from lsg on 2005-04-28 05:12 [#01578535]
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gosh my avatar is horrible
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Exaph
from United Kingdom on 2005-04-28 05:12 [#01578536]
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it's nice to know it happens
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Opto
on 2005-04-28 05:24 [#01578549]
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that bitch. that fuckin bitch. oh i will fuckin smack her, stupid bitch.
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qrter
from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2005-04-28 05:27 [#01578551]
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yes it is horrible.
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darkpromenade
from Australia on 2005-04-28 05:35 [#01578558]
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I was in a 9 year relationship that ended when left me for my (then) best friend. My advice is to have nothing to do with her from this moment on........ don't call her, talk to her, see her...... nothing at all....she dosn't deserve your energy.. she's been planning this for a while (as taxidermist said), and she didn't have the guts or the common decency to talk to you about it (i guess i'm assuming that bit)............ anyway, fuck her off and start again....... you don't need that shit in your life..........
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Opto
on 2005-04-28 06:11 [#01578569]
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i just want to ask that piece of two legged vaginal shit why she didnt have the fuckin courage to tell me this straight. im just gonna spit in her fuckin lyer face.
no offence, butfrom now on - tits = piece of shit.
now i will fuck and drink, as i am free men.no remorse. no fuckin remorse.
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obara
from Utrecht on 2005-04-28 06:16 [#01578570]
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women come and go, xltronic remains.
stay strong, Opto. we are with you.
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Opto
on 2005-04-28 06:16 [#01578571]
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haah im strong like never before. after those lies, nothing can hurt me.
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obara
from Utrecht on 2005-04-28 06:20 [#01578573]
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;) tridenti style
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ecnadniarb
on 2005-04-28 06:29 [#01578582]
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A bullet could still hurt you. I know what you are going through though and nothing anyone says is going to alter the way you feel. I still don't feel angry at my ex, she did what she wanted...the rejection, lies etc. hurt but that just proves she is as far from perfect as the rest of the world.
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AlbertoBalsalm
from ReykjavÃk (Iceland) on 2005-04-28 06:31 [#01578584]
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:D
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tridenti
from Milano (Italy) on 2005-04-28 06:32 [#01578585]
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hey!
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tridenti
from Milano (Italy) on 2005-04-28 06:33 [#01578586]
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what do you want from me??
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epohs
from )C: on 2005-04-28 06:39 [#01578590]
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ouch! damn that sucks. i really feel for you man.
don't do anything brash though. trying to get some sort of revenge will not make you feel better for long, and in the end it'll make you feel worse.
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epohs
from )C: on 2005-04-28 06:42 [#01578594]
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Lee's advice is as sound as oak.
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Opto
on 2005-04-28 06:57 [#01578610]
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fuck her, i just said to her she was not worthy the hassle. and that someday shee will be sad sad person and then i wil smack the doors in front of her saying "fuck off". and of course, no hard feelings, coz "its just the way it happened" hahaha lol
HEY EVERYONE ! GRAB THIS ::
8===========> !!!!!
LOLOL
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oyvinto
on 2005-04-28 07:03 [#01578616]
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haha
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obara
from Utrecht on 2005-04-28 07:12 [#01578625]
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nothing ! :) dear tridenti ! :) i just mean the way you blink : ;)
no offense intended
;)
lots of love and hugs
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big
from lsg on 2005-04-28 07:14 [#01578628]
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aw, tnx (everything comes out wrong with this av)
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Bob Mcbob
on 2005-04-28 07:16 [#01578632]
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i loved that little mammal, why did you change it for a doctor baby? :(
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obara
from Utrecht on 2005-04-28 07:18 [#01578635]
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my next thread will be "hula tiger should return"
i miss that av
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cuntychuck
from Copenhagen (Denmark) on 2005-04-28 07:24 [#01578645]
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fuck no we aint with him, what a twat.
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weatheredstoner
from same shit babes. (United States) on 2005-04-28 07:30 [#01578654]
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*takes notes*
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Opto
on 2005-04-28 07:31 [#01578655]
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fuck of you lazy pisswankcuntyspermchuck.cheap skate.
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Matvey
from Kiev (Ukraine) on 2005-04-28 07:35 [#01578663]
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that was like a part of a novel by Sorokin. siamese twins with one vagina, and one of them fallen in luv with a guy and they married in church, having drugged the second twin who hated the guy, so that she remained silent during the ceremony.
sophisticated.
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Lust Incarnate
from the edge of the deep green sea (United States) on 2005-04-28 08:03 [#01578693]
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I couldnt imagine leaving a relationship and not staying friends--like Jerry and Elaine on Seinfeld haha. When you love someone so much for so long, I would think that certain emotions would keep you from completely breaking the relationship 100%.
But maybe Im just really idealistic. Im a professional optimist.
ps I too thought this was about the movie, My Girl (which makes me cry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) ;(
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Opto
on 2005-04-28 08:10 [#01578699]
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probably we will stay as friends. its me who know her better than anyone.
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Bob Mcbob
on 2005-04-28 08:11 [#01578703]
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my girrrrrrl, talkin bout myyyyyy girrrrrrl.
there isnt an ocean too deep, a mountain so high it cant keep, keep me awayyyyyy!
bah why is it every time i try to sing the 'my girl' song it always turns into the 'sister act' song?
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Lust Incarnate
from the edge of the deep green sea (United States) on 2005-04-28 08:25 [#01578717]
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GOOD! Its proably harder when she left you for someone else, but that friendship is important. :D
Here is a copy of my card. I am a professional optimist, specializing in mirth and merriment. I have my Masters in Optimism. Talk to me anytime :]
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