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...and not your typical girl trouble. I need some advice :( I have been with my girlfriend for 5 1/2 - 6 years. I love her, but am no longer 'in' love with her. I want to end it and I know she will be incredibly upset. But I still want to be friends, I still want to be able to call her all the time, hang out, etc. Has anyone been in this situation? please help. |
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aww the poor girl i'm not too sure you'll be able to stay friends after being together for almost 6 years. just think about it, you will eventually start meeting other girls, and that's just gonna make her jealous and hurt. the same way if she start dating guys, are you going to feel ok about that? shit could end badly. think about this |
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tell her your cock has fell off and all all be well |
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absence makes the heart go yonder. ... do it. end it. NOW |
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just tell her about your doubts |
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no no no.. end it .. NOW. |
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if that's how you feel.... then get the balls to fucking end it. That's the way you feel, so ... make the decision... Could be the best decision you've made in your life my friend... the BEST. Such a long time makes the decision hard, but if you feel like this, than your lover must feel the same way. Do yourself and her a favour, and end it, regardless of all the bullshit "we can make it better" bleah bleah bleah... Both of you know the truth, so perpetuate it... and make it the reality that you both want. |
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Stop bathing, she will eventually break up with you... |
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hahahaha nice message-avatar combo you got there |
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forget the av. listen to my words. seriously, i've been there... i just see this person slaving himself to something that he could be MORE than... |
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all love. my friend. |
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ok. well we have been out drinking... now she is back at my house :( i don't know what to do.... we have this big family function/gathering tomorrow... it's 1am... i think i will sleep on it :( |
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try and get in love again.. |
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if you feel like breaking up, do it. prolonging it leads to suffering just tell her about it. maybe the 2 of you just need a break. if you're not sure, do that. just get out of it for a moment, see what happens. |
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"Such a long time makes the decision hard, but if you feel like this, than your lover must feel the same way." that sounds like bullshit, right thurre. |
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continue going out with her. this way you won't have to break up with her and destroy her life. |
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haha :) |
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True, see how many you keep on the go. It's a right Larf! 4 is my best and I couldn't remember what I'd said to whom. |
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just tell her about your boyfriend. it worked for jivvers 4 |
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don't talk to them. problem solved. |
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Ha Ha! Boys? kissing and cuddling? Hi dave, kiss? there is no such thing as boys together. |
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I was 19, I'm 74 now. I still can't remember who was where and what would be appropriate to do. |
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hahaha that's made my ribs hurt. i love it when that happens. |
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What is it though? MMwah, I like your beard? Rubbish! |
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you could have lots of fun shaving eachothers backs. |
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Two men shaving each others backs? Ha Ha Ha! |
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Lover boys with smooth backs...sounds kind of gay. |
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how many girlseses backs have you shaved..? |
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Lee likes his lads nice 'n hairy. |
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Not true. I like my beer cold, my TV loud and my homosexuals flaming. Homer is cool. |
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About time to give another consideration. |
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interesting. |
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I was being honest! I had four girls on the go and I couldn't remember who was who. It was funny but now I'm really studious as the IDM world demands. |
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did you have one unifying nickname for all of them? couldn't you have colour-coded them? |
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lifes about choices, isnt it ? you may not be in love with her, we met at nin show, feb13,1995, did the long distance thing (3 hours) for 1 1/2 years, she moved down here, did the shack up thing for 4 years, been married 4 1/2+ years "i cant live with or without you" u2, someitmes but shes rad, and Lily rules |
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