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offline acrid milk hall from United Kingdom on 2004-03-03 10:11 [#01097333]
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i graduated from the university of nottingham last year.
got a 2:1 in a sociology/film dual discipline degree
(before you get too excited it was an academic film course,
not a practical one)..
ive been working for the family for about 6months now (dads
a professional photographer).. this isnt what i want to be
doing long term though.
and now that ive finished what ive been working on for the
last couple of months, i thnk this is the right time to move
on. i want to move away. start fresh. when my girlfriend's
finished studying maybe she can come + live with me in our
own place.
trouble is.. i dont know what i want to be doing as a job.
all suggestions are welcome as i know that those of you who
do work have a wide spectrum of careers/jobs. thanks for
your help.. this is really getting me down at the moment.


 

online recycle from Where is Phobiazero (Lincoln) (United States) on 2004-03-03 10:12 [#01097334]
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richie hawtins stalker


 

offline acrid milk hall from United Kingdom on 2004-03-03 10:15 [#01097336]
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naaah.. i dont really like his music much. and i hear he has
dubious personal hygiene


 

offline acrid milk hall from United Kingdom on 2004-03-03 11:09 [#01097436]
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*bump*


 

offline tolstoyed from the ocean on 2004-03-03 11:17 [#01097444]
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i bet most of us don't know what we want to do. it's either
you go for good money or something you love doing. ofcourse
the perfect job would be getting paid well for doing work
you like, but you must be extremly lucky to find a job like
that. i think.
i wen't for a well paid job and that is also why im very
unhappy. doing work i hate (boring office job), nothing
creative...on top of it all it takes a lot of my time.

if i could pick again (im currently in a very shitty
situation so i can't change anything at the moment), i would
definitely go for something i enjoy doing...


 

offline Jazembo from The Earth ball on 2004-03-03 11:17 [#01097445]
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Are you looking for a job in the media or what? You must
have some sense of direction that you want to go in. If I
were in your position and I had a bit of cash to spare I
would travel around a bit to get ideas.


 

offline acrid milk hall from United Kingdom on 2004-03-03 11:28 [#01097471]
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yeah.. no cash spare, unfortunately.. else id be somewhere
else in the world right now.
i dont have a definite sense of direction really.. else i
wouldnt have started this thread. i like the idea of being
involved in working for a record label/music magazine - but
im not interested in trying to break into the highly
competitive world of large long established labels + mags.
id want to be involved in something i was really passionate
about.
i guess the priority right now is to go for something that
will allow me to rent a flat of my own, pay the bills + not
leave me too drained/depressed to go + spend time with my
friends, listen to music, see my girlfriend + go to
clubs/gigs.
a simple life really. a job i dont hate..
thats what im asking for suggestions for.. i think..


 

offline Zephyr Twin from ΔΔΔ on 2004-03-03 11:42 [#01097485]
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So you're no longer considered a student at your university?
I think your best bet would be to speak with an
advisor/counselor as these people can usually help you
figure out what kind of career you'd enjoy the most.. It's
possible that you never had any service like this wherever
you went to school, but if you did have it and missed out,
then that would kind of suck... Maybe you could still go
back there and talk with one?


 

offline acrid milk hall from United Kingdom on 2004-03-03 11:52 [#01097502]
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yeah - cheers. im actually still in touch with my head tutor
from uni + he said he's happy to chat through this stuff
with me. the uni has a careers (god, i hate that word)
advisory service.. but its all about finding the right time
to go, you know?


 

offline Zephyr Twin from ΔΔΔ on 2004-03-03 11:58 [#01097508]
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well if finding the right time is your only concern then you
are doing good :) Just put down the crackpipe for a day and
go have yourself a chat. I think the sooner you get this
figured out (at least in terms of narrowing shit down a
little), the happier you'll be. :]

(j/k about the crackrock)


 

offline acrid milk hall from United Kingdom on 2004-03-03 12:04 [#01097526]
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nah, its true..
living in the grip of a serious crack problem isn't doing my
job prospects any good.
youre right about the other stuff though. just hope my tutor
can find the time to see me.
i appreciate all the ideas you guys have thrown at me. im
giving up on this thread now. the answers to lifes problems
will not be found here on xlt.
just nice to get a sounding board to make sure the trees im
going to start barking up are the right ones.
thanks again.
that is all.


 

offline Zephyr Twin from ΔΔΔ on 2004-03-03 12:06 [#01097531]
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:)


 

offline acrid milk hall from United Kingdom on 2004-03-03 12:06 [#01097533]
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if youd said stephen hawking, youd have been closer to the
mark.
richie's good. but so are lots of other artists/musicians.
condoning stalking makes me concerned for your stability.
seek help.. now.


 

offline aphextriplet from your mothers bedroom (United Kingdom) on 2004-03-03 12:09 [#01097540]
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im a teacher. Its great. Andy has been converted. He starts
training in september. Even if you dont want to do it
forever, which i dont, its a great thing to do for the here
and now, and its a great qualification that you can take
anywhere and you'll always find a job.

My music is where its at though. FOREAL HOMIE.


 

offline acrid milk hall from United Kingdom on 2004-03-03 12:15 [#01097558]
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yeah, tom told me you were teaching.
what scheme are you training with?


 


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