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offline Key_Secret from Sverige (Sweden) on 2003-10-21 15:44 [#00912532]
Points: 9325 Status: Regular



The walls aren't very solid in the dormhall that I live in,
and each time my neighbour, who is real nice, tells me to
lower the volume (when he has to study or it's getting too
late) I do it.
Yet I feel ashamed each time he tells me to lower the moosic
(usually over ICQ)...

I feel ashamed now. =/
It's like he souldn't have to tell me (atleast not this
ofthen), I feel like I should know him enough... =/
Also, sometimes he tells me I play interesting music, but
e.g. tonight he complained that it was too boring (I played
some old gabber)...
that also makes me sad, as I'd rather have him appriciate
the music that I like and play a lot.
This problem didn't come up until I got a new set of
speakers (earlier this autumn)...

He usually plays music real loud to, and I guess the problem
is I'm not used to the new speakers I have.
I will do what I can to improve myself, Frank (my
neighbour)!

If you have something to say, please do.

peace.


 

offline aphextriplet from your mothers bedroom (United Kingdom) on 2003-10-21 15:46 [#00912535]
Points: 4731 Status: Lurker



oh my god. Gayest topic of the year award has just got a new
contender


 

offline nlogax from oh, you must be the brains (Norway) on 2003-10-21 15:46 [#00912537]
Points: 4653 Status: Regular



maybe he's a sensitive boy.


 

offline REFLEX from Edmonton, Alberta (Canada) on 2003-10-21 15:47 [#00912538]
Points: 8864 Status: Regular



man, who fucking cares what other people think, holy shit.


 

offline nlogax from oh, you must be the brains (Norway) on 2003-10-21 15:47 [#00912540]
Points: 4653 Status: Regular | Followup to aphextriplet: #00912535



yeah, and you're stuck right in the middle of this gay
sandwich you gay boy you


 

offline Monoid from one source all things depend on 2003-10-21 15:49 [#00912545]
Points: 11010 Status: Lurker | Followup to Key_Secret: #00912532



Kill yourself....I bet that would make him feel sorry, for
being mean to yuo over ICQ ;)


 

offline deepspace9mm from filth on 2003-10-21 15:50 [#00912547]
Points: 6846 Status: Addict



I know what solves all problems:

Huuuuuuugs.


 

offline aphextriplet from your mothers bedroom (United Kingdom) on 2003-10-21 15:50 [#00912550]
Points: 4731 Status: Lurker | Followup to nlogax: #00912540



if thats right, then i'd be wedged pretty far up your
asshole right now loverboy.


 

offline Inverted Whale from United States Minor Outlying Islands on 2003-10-21 15:50 [#00912551]
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There are these things called headphones and you should
check them out.


 

offline nlogax from oh, you must be the brains (Norway) on 2003-10-21 15:52 [#00912557]
Points: 4653 Status: Regular | Followup to aphextriplet: #00912550



yeah, you'd love that huh, slamming my tight asshole?

stay away from me and my anal virginity, which I plan on
keeping for the rest of my stupid little life.


 

offline Key_Secret from Sverige (Sweden) on 2003-10-21 15:53 [#00912559]
Points: 9325 Status: Regular | Followup to Inverted Whale: #00912551



yeah I have a nice pair, and I use them at night... But at
other times... I like my base (though I usually lower the
base not to disturb him too much).

thanks for the tip though.


 

offline deepspace9mm from filth on 2003-10-21 15:53 [#00912560]
Points: 6846 Status: Addict



Seriously tho, if he's a nice guy and you don't mind turning
it down then there's probably no problem, you can't
appreciate everything equally. I wouldn't stress on it too
much key. And if problems do arise:

Huuuuuuugs.


 

offline tragedy from Gloucester (United States) on 2003-10-21 15:56 [#00912564]
Points: 4423 Status: Lurker



shut up aphex!, jeez some people are so insensitive...
key... i fel the sam way, like... you know when you're being
yelled at and you're only wearing a t-shirt and you feel
reallly small and naked.... i hate that feeling (at least i
do anyways)and it's sort of what you wre discribing... i'm
sorry, maybe if you used head phones after a certain time of
day it would help?


 

offline qrter from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2003-10-21 15:56 [#00912565]
Points: 47414 Status: Moderator



you can make a problem out of everything, if you are so
inclined.


 

offline aphextriplet from your mothers bedroom (United Kingdom) on 2003-10-21 15:56 [#00912566]
Points: 4731 Status: Lurker | Followup to nlogax: #00912557



you definately are a tight ass. I think the hamster must've
locked himself in.
Night night schnucumbs xxx
Key_secret, 'thanks for the tip though'?! ... sigh, i cant
even be bothered commenting anymore.


 

offline REFLEX from Edmonton, Alberta (Canada) on 2003-10-21 15:57 [#00912570]
Points: 8864 Status: Regular



what the big fuckin' deal? keep your music up and on all
night, tell that pussy to shut the fuck up and do something
about it if he wants you to turn the tunes down.


 

offline REFLEX from Edmonton, Alberta (Canada) on 2003-10-21 15:58 [#00912572]
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women: natures punching bag


 

offline Key_Secret from Sverige (Sweden) on 2003-10-21 15:58 [#00912574]
Points: 9325 Status: Regular | Followup to deepspace9mm: #00912560



yeah.
I agree with you.
It's just that he has to tell me a couple of times each
week,
and I guess I'm getting used to turning down the volume, but
then *BAM* he sneaks up on my with an ICQ message, asking me
to please lower the volume.
but I guess I have a solution, and all I need to do is to
get used to it, and surprise him *BAM* by lowering the
volume before it's too late, and by *BAM* giving him a hug.
But I guess another reason is requiered for the hug. I mean
he's really a great guy, but he'd be thinking "something
else" is going on but me thinking he's nice.

thanks everybody for posting :)



 

offline k_maty on 2003-10-21 15:59 [#00912575]
Points: 2362 Status: Regular



you are a nice guy, keysecret.


 

offline Key_Secret from Sverige (Sweden) on 2003-10-21 16:00 [#00912578]
Points: 9325 Status: Regular | Followup to Key_Secret: #00912574



and I guess I'm getting used to turning down the volume,
but
then *BAM* he sneaks up on my with an ICQ message, asking
me
to please lower the volume.


what I meant was:

and I guess I'm getting used to turning down the volume,
but
then *BAM* he sneaks up on my with an ICQ message, asking
me
to please lower the volume (at an earlier time than
usually).


 

offline aphextriplet from your mothers bedroom (United Kingdom) on 2003-10-21 16:00 [#00912580]
Points: 4731 Status: Lurker



it amazes me how pussified some people are on this board.
With all your fucking 'ooh ooh a man called me a nasty name
today and im scared to leave the house' posts and 'my
girlfriend kissed me last night and now i think things are
moving too fast, should i break up with her?' I thought you
guys aspired to be musicians. Arent musicians supposed to be
sex drugs and rock and roll [idm in your case], not nappies,
prams and rattles... im going to bed.


 

offline REFLEX from Edmonton, Alberta (Canada) on 2003-10-21 16:02 [#00912587]
Points: 8864 Status: Regular



aphextriplet: awsome reply dude! lots of fuckin pussies and
little boys here, grow the FUCK UP ALREADY.


 

offline Key_Secret from Sverige (Sweden) on 2003-10-21 16:03 [#00912591]
Points: 9325 Status: Regular | Followup to REFLEX: #00912587



hehe...
It's not about growing up I think...


 

offline zaphod from the metaverse on 2003-10-21 16:04 [#00912592]
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grow the fuck up? riiiiiight. coming from people who take
time to insult practically any message they see on this
board.


 

offline zaphod from the metaverse on 2003-10-21 16:04 [#00912593]
Points: 4428 Status: Addict



although, thats really directed at aphextriplet, not you


 

offline REFLEX from Edmonton, Alberta (Canada) on 2003-10-21 16:06 [#00912596]
Points: 8864 Status: Regular



its about something, a difference between me and you, i
would have never started this type of thread, or even
thought like you about it this way, I mean... who cares? Its
just some dood, so what if hes nice, lots of people are.


 

offline tragedy from Gloucester (United States) on 2003-10-21 16:09 [#00912598]
Points: 4423 Status: Lurker



wow... boys are friggin ruthless...


 

offline telica from london/york on 2003-10-21 16:09 [#00912600]
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why post in it then? why not start one about something
you're interested in instead?
that would suit eveyone :-)


 

offline Key_Secret from Sverige (Sweden) on 2003-10-21 16:12 [#00912604]
Points: 9325 Status: Regular | Followup to REFLEX: #00912596



Sometimes I just get caught up in the moment... And I wanted
to know if other members have had similar
experiences...

I had a good time reading your posts in this thread, some
made me laugh, some made me think.

There was only one solution to the problem from the begning,
and only one person who could do something about it, and I
was more into discussing the feeling than the actual
solution.


 

offline REFLEX from Edmonton, Alberta (Canada) on 2003-10-21 16:12 [#00912606]
Points: 8864 Status: Regular



well this is a public forum for us members here and anyone
who wants to be a member here at this site, which is great
isnt it? Yet.... the fact remains that this is a
insignificant problem, and the person who posted it should
have thought it over before posting it here, I mean there
are lots of threads on this place about stuff like this or
girls or something stupid and assanine. Jesus fuckin' christ
what are we nerdy little boys who havent ever fucked or been
in a fight?


 

offline Monoid from one source all things depend on 2003-10-21 16:12 [#00912607]
Points: 11010 Status: Lurker



aphextriplet, I wish I was as hardcore as you :(


 

offline REFLEX from Edmonton, Alberta (Canada) on 2003-10-21 16:13 [#00912610]
Points: 8864 Status: Regular



Key_Secret: theres no problem here really, I mean dont get
me wrong, your cool (well as cool as one can think someone
else is over the net at a MB such as this) but really, Im
not trying to call you down, just the post. Im happy.


 

offline horsefactory from 💠 (United Kingdom) on 2003-10-21 16:15 [#00912614]
Points: 14867 Status: Regular



I have to admit i find this topic absolutely compelling,
feelings and all that, fascinating stuff.


 

offline REFLEX from Edmonton, Alberta (Canada) on 2003-10-21 16:18 [#00912617]
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arent they


 

offline tragedy from Gloucester (United States) on 2003-10-21 16:18 [#00912618]
Points: 4423 Status: Lurker



MOnoid, I wish I was as hardcore as you :(



 

offline nlogax from oh, you must be the brains (Norway) on 2003-10-21 16:27 [#00912626]
Points: 4653 Status: Regular | Followup to aphextriplet: #00912566



is that the best you can do?
*punches nose and yawns simultaneously*


 

offline anon from ^_^ (United Kingdom) on 2003-10-21 16:34 [#00912635]
Points: 1828 Status: Lurker



*hugs key*

People are too mean to nice people...

Grumpy people are just too inseccure to be sensitive.

yes i know i'm being very general.



 

offline Key_Secret from Sverige (Sweden) on 2003-10-21 16:37 [#00912640]
Points: 9325 Status: Regular | Followup to anon: #00912635



Sometimes I feel my arms were created to make it possible
for me to hug wonderful people like you, anon.

you're a great person :)
Hope your newfound love lasts.


 

offline anon from ^_^ (United Kingdom) on 2003-10-21 16:39 [#00912646]
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lol thank-you :D i hope so too!! and wish you luck with that
girl you mentiond a while back *hug*
I'm off to sleep now

Nighty night

-A-


 

offline k_maty on 2003-10-21 16:41 [#00912649]
Points: 2362 Status: Regular | Followup to tragedy: #00912598



yes they are. they should make a unisex.


 

offline DJ Xammax from not America on 2003-10-21 16:44 [#00912653]
Points: 11512 Status: Lurker



Where was I?

Oh yeah

FUCK


 

offline Key_Secret from Sverige (Sweden) on 2003-10-21 16:45 [#00912654]
Points: 9325 Status: Regular | Followup to k_maty: #00912649



hehe.
that would be crazy.

You know after reading the posts in this thread, I actually
feel a bit better. Don't know why, I just do.
This hasn't been my kind of day really, but now I feel
atleast it ends very mellow and pleasant :)

thank you.


 

offline tragedy from Gloucester (United States) on 2003-10-21 17:06 [#00912681]
Points: 4423 Status: Lurker



yayyy! <3


 


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