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What communication model do you recommand? |
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C# depends on what you want to get out of your model. do you really need a model? or do you see it as some sort of metaphysical necessity? |
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A bit more clarity of course. This model would not be 'necessary' but it would help me and the person i am talking to, a lot. It would also be a bridge to more convidence, if you could change/advance your personality in restructuring the way you talk. |
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a mouth and some ears |
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read neil strauss' the game. i think i've told you before, but i'll just do it again. because you clearly haven't followed my instructions. bad monoid! bad! |
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The world's most legendary Pick-Up Artist? Hahahaha |
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probably tweets (twitter) maybe? |
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:-) everything comes from and leads to sex! WOOHOOOO |
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i thought it was poop? |
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I admit that sex is my goal, however i am not only having problems with the other gender, but basically...with the whole humanity |
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consider it as a good inbetweener for all those "deep" philosophy books you read. you might actually have a new insight that'd actually help you forward in the real world of communication. instead of the profound abstractions which will only draw you further away from the actual world. |
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I think such books are worthless, after you read them, you will probably be same loser as you were before, so you buy even more books |
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that book ruined my game, which was the no game game, now i have zero game. it's too late to expand on that atm. if any of that even makes sense? |
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How did it ruin your game...? |
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so what i guess you're trying to say is that you went from unconscious incompetence to conscious incompetence. and failed to follow through to go to conscious competence. and somehow the book is to blame? sounds like a good book to me. ish |
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so instead you wind up asking for a communication model on a forum? well, at least it's free. Has someone told you you generalize too much? |
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Do you think i do that? Sorry dude, didnt mean to anger you |
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Please take a look at this. And tell me what you think. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Four_sides_model |
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first: i'm not angry second: science probably doesn't get you laid third: who cares what people think? if it helps you, it helps you. |
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forth: sounds like a lame model for pointing out there are different subtexts to communication. and that all those subtexts can be summed into 4 categories. if it helps you, feel free to use it. to me, it looks like just another psychological model for something the scientist doesn't know how to handle. and i suspect some psychologists to be the aspergers of this world. go figure. |
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Getting laid is not my primary goal, tho it is a goal of course. What that wikipedia page describes is not the full theory, but only a tiny part of it. I know after you read it sounds lame, but try to apply it in real life, i think it helps. I was also interested if there is something 'newer' out there, because those books were written in the 80s. I also wanted to show it to, cuz i like you guys. |
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The question is, do you want to waste all your energy with manipulating people, or do you have to wish to personally grow and give the other person the chance to do it with you! |
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hey monoid, do you use any instant messagin thingy? you seem to be a nice fellow and Id like to talk to you over the keyboard |
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No, sorry I am posting this from my mobile phone cuz i dont have (want) a computer at home anymore. |
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pee to pee |
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nah, more like, unconscious competence to conscious incompetence. |
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pear to pear |
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I want to rehabilitate this book by Neil Strauss cuz 'my professor' told me so and i am convinced. I am going to read it with the stuff i read so far about this subject matter in the back of my head. So, thank you |
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I want to rehabilitate this DUBturbo |
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