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My girlfriends mom wont let me see her... or talk to her for that matter... im not sure why... shes very over pretective. But im in love with the girl!!! im going crazy over here!!! I went to her house and talked with her mom. Told her that Im not sorry for loving her daughter and that she can be against if she wants.. but it would just make it harder on all of us... i dont know what to do.. Her mom made me tell my girlfriend that I cant talk to her or see here anymore... that maybe we shouldnt see eachother... wtf do i do... im soo sad! |
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fuck the parents. if you're in love go see her. just be discreet. |
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What do you mean she made you tell your girlfriend? BTW - I'm so sorry! |
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I wish it were that easy... I dont want to screw things up for later... Maybe if i just listen to her mom for acouple of months she will see that i love her... and let me see her.... but i dont know if i can wait that long. |
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Why exactly does your girlfriend's mom not want you two together? Are you the devil? There must be a reason. Or maybe she's just EXTREMELY overprotective and doesn't want ANYone at all with her? |
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She told me to tell that to her... she said it would make it easyer on her... i beleaved her at the time.. but now that i think about it. I probably cushed her... and i cant tell her that... im going nutz! |
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I have been in an all too familiar situation my friend......I think your bets route to take would be to sit down with her mom, or have your gf sit down with her and find out exactly why she feels this way. No doubt there is something behind her sudden over-protection, and see what you can do to resolve it. The last thing you want to do is be hostile, b/c at your age (I'm assuming you're a teen) moms have a very tight lock on their son's/daughter's social life, so try not to make any enemies....good luck! |
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Maybe her mom wants to jump your bones. Maybe you could convince them to participate in some crazy threesome action. Seriously tho. Her mom can't make you do what you don't want to do. Appologize to tha chick for listening to her mom, and try to kick that shit up again. I know how tough it can be to find a 'Keeper' in edmonton, so when you do find one, don't let her go. Of corse, if the girl isn't interested, don't make an ass/stalker out of yourself. |
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Is there anything that happened that you can think of, that may have happened to cause this situation. Sometimes understanding how these situations happen is half the battle. |
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Ophecks: shes kind of an overportective crazy... that and im 3 years older than this girl... I dont think thats that much... but for an over protective mother.... i guess its alot. |
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Has your girlfriend got a mobile phone you can phone her on? |
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There is sumthing... she skipped school to come with me for coffie... i had no idea... I guess the school called her mom and she went on a rampage looking for us... she was even contemplating calling the police. And i did sit down with her mom and her... I told her mom i was irisponsible to take her out for coffie well she was at school and i was sorry (even not i had know idea that she had skipped). All she did is glare at me with this look of dissaprovle and hatred... i dont know what to do..... the girl is e-mailing me... but i dont know if i should reply... if i dont honour her mom.. i dont know if theres a chance of us being together. Oh and just to clear things up... shes in love with me too.... which makes things even harder.... |
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Jedi Chris: No she dosnt... i wish she had. and just so everyone knows.. im 19 and shes 16 |
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If a mother is not going to be tollerant of how you two want to carry on a relationship, why do you really need to be tollerant of how she chooses to deal with her daughter. Tell the mother the full story (including the part about you not knowing she had skipped) and then tell her that if you had known she wasn't in school when she should have been you would have advised her to go back. Tell her you value her daughters education, and that her wellbeing is important to you. Then talk to your gf. |
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You weren't irresponsible for her skipping school! |
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I think you both need to find a way to see each other without the mother finding out! Have you told your girlfriend that you didn't mean all those things that her mother made you say....because if you haven't I think you should! |
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Hm, you might be in that scary zone where you are over the age of consent and she is under. |
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I have told her that i didnt mean all that... where just kinda e-mailing eachother right now.. I dont know if its a good idea to see eachother right now... if her mom found out right now... it would only make things even harder. |
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19 and 16 is cutting it wrather close... but i went out w/ a a 17 y/o when i was 20, so i really can't say anything, but i'd say fuck her mom, and don't listen to her mom- they try to fuck w/ your head and especially when you're in a fucked up relationship, it's easy to do- |
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move on brother |
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I dont wanna move on... im in love with the girl man... it not that easy! |
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then do whatever you want, man- no point in taking advice from others anyways, you were just justifying your original intentions, if i'm not mistaken (not that i'm offended by this, or that i think there's something wrong w/ you) |
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i will man... i dont care what her mom thinks... im not going to stop talking to her.. thanx everyone!! This board is very sapportive!! |
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give it time.... Act the gentleman for a while... You'll be forgiven in the end... believe me... Good Lcuk, my friend - You love her & she feels the same...and her mother will soon recognise this... |
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That's tough... I've never been in love, but I can imagine it must be hell not being able to be with her... if indeed you really ARE in love, and this isn't some puppy love... Then again, even in THAT case, it would be tough. :-/ |
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I had a similar problem... except it was the girl that didn't want to see me... :) |
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but seriously, if you're really in love give a bit of time... let things simer down... but, again if you're really in love don't quit... true love will prevail!!! :) |
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cry. time to turn on the water works. that'll do the trick. |
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