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offline swift_jams from big sky on 2006-07-21 19:46 [#01941388]
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I've been thinking about how I treat people in the "real
life", and I think I could be a lot nicer. There's a fine
line between being funny and being a jerk. I cross it often.


 

offline staz on 2006-07-21 19:50 [#01941393]
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that's deep


 

offline i_x_ten from arsemuncher on 2006-07-21 19:50 [#01941394]
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to my closest mates i am a complete jerk. i try to push them
as much as i can, because they do the same. its about
pushing the boundary. it makes a night much more
interesting. with other people, i tend to bite my lip and
sit on my hands.


 

offline staz on 2006-07-21 19:51 [#01941395]
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that sounds like a terrible relationship


 

offline B123 from The wicked underbelly (Australia) on 2006-07-21 19:51 [#01941396]
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its imposible to really know how others percieve you, but if
you start being nicer to people when you normally wouldn't,
isn't that not being yourself?
we need all sorts.


 

offline swift_jams from big sky on 2006-07-21 19:58 [#01941398]
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That's exactly how I feel.


 

offline i_x_ten from arsemuncher on 2006-07-21 20:04 [#01941399]
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no its good fun. we all get a kick out of it. we all know
what the limit is and when its gone too far, and when its
time to be serious. the last time i was with my close mates,
we threw one of them in a ditch. it was all in good fun :)


 

offline qrter from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2006-07-21 20:50 [#01941404]
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how would you know if you never try, though?

the not-being-nice-to-people-attitude is just another
choice, probably something you pick up from your family
and/or friends.

it can help a lot to just relax around people, to not try so
hard.


 

offline bogala from NYC (United States) on 2006-07-21 22:52 [#01941411]
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I had a friend who was a total off the handle asshole. He
would be really nice one minute and expose and make fun of
me in my deepest insecurities the next ina very aggresive
vile manner. He was really funny and smart, but it was a bad
friendship. Abusive. I decided it was best never talking to
him again. Poking fun at your friends is fun as long as you
don't cross the line too often or pick on one passive
individual of the group too much.


 


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