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I love you |
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word. bob : yes, thanks, i can ejaculate normally again, didn't u see my last post in my "a serious problem" thread ? |
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my condolences... welcome to hell. how you'll deal with it in the future is up to you, wether you choose "fuck the pain away"-mode or do it the jean paul-way "if you don't hold still after fate or a bee stings you, in both cases the prick'll rip off and stay longer in your flesh"... but like alot of the people here said it right before: most rational move would be to break down contacts with that girl, the sooner the better. you'll MOST likely end up full of bitterness towards her anyway, at least that's my experience... good luck. |
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"...mmh ...ma.... h.. ...IT'S AMOREEEE" |
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it's hard to be patient sometimes, true. i just recently realised i burst with anger too often. that's bad for relationship. if you really feel and think she's the one - don't let her go. crying and hoping won't make it happen, it won't make her come back. prove her that you can be "emotionally stable". take care |
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...you can also click on the bottom page ads... |
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<3 |
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Is rape an acceptable option ? |
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So long as it's not little boys. |
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Ive never had a girlfriend. My advice is to masturbate and to drink alot of DXM |
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Word but what is DXM ? |
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j198 new girlfriend |
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lucky boy |
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We seek refuge in love as fantasy. The culture industry- Hollywood, the fashion industry etc hold out the hope that we might turn ourselves into loved objects and the opportunities to do so are on offer partly through an array of consumer goods and products and partly also through the opportunities to fantasise our identification with the celebrity objects who appear ad nauseam in the media. A culture of narcissism is an institutional norm in a consumer society |
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I dont know if youre ready for this yet, but here goes. This is my advice: Shut the fuck up, and stop whining. Wah wah wah. The culture you and i have been brought up with, makes us all feel like its absolutely necessary to have a girlfriend, to meet the love of our lives, and live happily ever after. Its bullshit! No relationship can end happily! I know, that its a terrible thing to go trough, and i feel sorry for you for that, but we might as well realise that having a relationship is never going to end out well (in the last instance, one of the people involved has to die) The sun is shining. Youre not dying of AIDS or cancer. Snap out of it. |
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DXM ? |
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we know our mother will die at some point - shouldn't we be allowed to mourn the fact if and when it occurs anyway? |
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classic Monoid! good to have you back in form! |
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bla bla bla, i bet you were bullied as a kid |
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It's not Monoid, it's just Seneque. |
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I'm sorry to hear this Jeroen.. I can say a lot of things but I only would repeat what has been said in this thread. Hold up your head, you are a good guy and I'm sure you'll beat this situation. 'dont know what you got till its gone' A few years ago when I went through almost the same situation and I heard this song on the radio and suddenly realized the real meaning of this song... it seems that I infected you with it this time.. didn't I? |
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BOO FUCKING HOO |
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Theres a difference between mourning and letting it depress you for the rest of your life. Usually people can't get it through their heads that we all die sometime and we think that everyone will live forever. Not saying you do or anyone else here, but there are a lot of people who just can't handle death. You should celebrate death like you celebrate life. Have a big fucking party. I don't want people crying and shit at my funeral. |
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I agree with Dirty Priest but at the same time I know it can be hard to brake up with someone. You should feel fine after 2 weeks. If not then it's time to grow some balls. |
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me and my girl had a huge fight and were about to break up. instead we got married. today is our 3 year aniversary and we are still fighting. it's great! |
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amen mister priest. |
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god what a shit comment. i was in a bad shape yesterday, posted without thinking. sorry |
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I know it sounds harsh what i said, but the reason i say it is because i spent way to much time thinking about shit like that in my life so far. I only just realised in the last couple of years that its a complete waste of time. |
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yeah, that's what i mean. he's at his best when using his CTRL-key while typing... |
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dirtypriest: i'll agree i cry too much, but it was the first fucking day, my first fucking girlfriend and my first fucking breakup, so at least give me a few hours of hardcore misery. thanks. For the record, i always despised people who acted like you're weird if you aren't in a relationship. I'm thankful that i got together with this girl just by getting to know her better and better (we met on a west coast usa tour), instead of going to some stupid club to buy a girl drinks and take her home. It's not the fact that i couldnt deal with being alone anymore (only too easily) but that something i was still building (a relationship, intimacy, communication skills etc. all new things for me to learn) just crashed down in a matter of minutes. aesthetics: it was just after i made this thread that i checked your mix, still a nice coincidence if i may call it that. I've yet to check it out with a clear head but i've no doubt it will rock the house. monoid: i'm sure you remember out talk after my not so pleasant dxm experience. Dxm cannot solve anything. If any drug can, it would be a powerful hallucinogenic. I realise the friendzone would be a a dangerous place for me but i am not giving up yet. I will do my very best to get her back, and i am going to change. Hope this isnt sounding too sentimental but well at work today i noticed a book by the Dalai Lama and what he says about anger is so spot on, i think i am going to have to convert to buddhism.. |
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i've hit the 'so what' stage. |
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in your life, or in this thread? in case its the latter: i'm quite overwhelmed by the amount of replies here. I really am deeply moved by it but i wasnt planning on keeping this updated daily or anything, so no worries. |
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It's cool. Ofcourse you need time to get it out of your system. Hey, heres an actually serious suggestion, watch the movie "Swingers". Its a crap title, but quite a nice movie, that sort of fits your situation. |
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or even "Sideways" depending on how pathetic he is. |
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Thats a good observation, i always thought about how those two movies are so similar. Theyre both really good as well. |
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i was single for about a week after my last girlfriend of three years |
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Shes gonna fuck other guys, no need to be her safety blanket for that. She is going to call you up and use you for everything (emotional support, mental support, social support). FORGET HER. If she hooks you again your fucked. Throw out all your pictures of her, completely wipe her out of your life in every way you can . It's sounds nuts, but it works. FORGET HER. START GOING TO THE GYM. Take better care of yourself, it's hard to explain but at some point it will hit you that you are looking great and your EX isn't the only girl on the planet you have a chance with. Be proud of yourself and what you do. If you ain't proud of yourself why the fuck should any girl waste their time on a loser like you? Get some hobbies and excel at them! It's hard for most nerds/dorks to find good girls but they are out there. GO FIND THEM BROTHER! We all support you! |
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Nah you guys aren't romantic. She was the one and only love for him and he has the one and only love for her. Now that everything is broken, both are gonna be alone for the rest of their lifes, regretting what happened and being sad. Read Shakespear. |
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Shakespear? never heard of him. Shakespeare is pretty good tho. I agree with oxygenfad. Don't try and win her back, completely pointless. Your only real chance of winning her back, if is you completely ignore her, and even then, i wouldnt reccomend taking her back, if she comes crawling. |
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Can we have an update on your situation? |
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um yeah.. we're back together :s i feel almost guilty saying this, but it's going really well so i dont think the breakup was meant to happen. it was the fights that bothered her too much and i told her how i feel when we get in argument and that she needs to respect my opinion a bit more. i bet you all think i'm weak. and you're right. i love this girl though so thats got to be worth something. |
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no no no you are right dont worry,love and sex will make you good |
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well... congratulations, I suppose... |
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Falito is right. Good for you! |
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"i bet you all think i'm weak." it seems you ain't weak since you told her what you think, without just waving your tail at her sight etc. good for you indeed. good luck and ....take care of her. |
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> i feel almost guilty saying this, but it's going really well > so i dont think the breakup was meant to happen. maybe it was, you've grown to a better understanding of eachother right? im very happy for ya. |
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I hope that this situation helps you two grow stronger together :) I am happy that you are back in the and that things are going well for you :) Best of luck! |
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Don't feel quilty, enjoy! Nice to read that you're back together man! |
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The healthy thing would be not to give a shit what we think! |
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