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offline Dozer on 2006-02-28 12:08 [#01850344]
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I've been dumped last week.... :'(
Any solutions to avoid sadness/depression?



 

offline Phobiazero from the next Xltronic (Sweden) on 2006-02-28 12:09 [#01850345]
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just let it out


 

offline Phobiazero from the next Xltronic (Sweden) on 2006-02-28 12:11 [#01850346]
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you will get over it - sooner or later... that's for
sure.... :-/


 

offline Dozer on 2006-02-28 12:13 [#01850347]
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Yeah I'll get over her lol


 

offline Dozer on 2006-02-28 12:13 [#01850348]
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1000

woot, happy me.


 

offline hanal from k_maty only (United Kingdom) on 2006-02-28 12:14 [#01850349]
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book yourself in a brothel,once a day for 2 weeks.
should clear up fine.


 

offline IronLung from the 91fwy in soCAL (United States) on 2006-02-28 12:17 [#01850352]
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Just listen to track 13 from Pink Floyds The Wall DISC 1
on repeat for 8 hours with a bottle of Jack Daniels.

Therapy indeed.
;)


 

offline Dozer on 2006-02-28 12:17 [#01850353]
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Hey I'm student I don't have enough money for this
I prefer to buy CD's


 

offline hanal from k_maty only (United Kingdom) on 2006-02-28 12:21 [#01850356]
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then you must find some really good porn,should work allmost
as good.


 

offline recycle from Where is Phobiazero (Lincoln) (United States) on 2006-02-28 12:23 [#01850359]
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*now i can date you ?

You dont mind that im married and about to have a baby do
you ?

_exercise to great loud music!


 

offline Dozer on 2006-02-28 12:24 [#01850362]
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I've just been exercise to drum'n'bass
Pretty refreshing indeed :D


 

offline recycle from Where is Phobiazero (Lincoln) (United States) on 2006-02-28 12:25 [#01850364]
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Wjat d&b were you jammin to ?

22ish is young, you'll live peacefuly now


 

offline Dozer on 2006-02-28 12:31 [#01850370]
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Porn is boring



 

offline Dozer on 2006-02-28 12:32 [#01850371]
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DrumandbassTv webradio
Pretty fat selection


 

offline Dannn_ from United Kingdom on 2006-02-28 12:34 [#01850373]
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have a nice sit down and a cup of tea, call up your boyz and
go out for a pint


 

offline somejerk from south florida, US (United States) on 2006-02-28 12:43 [#01850379]
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get some whiskey, a gun, and some porn. you'll figure it out
from there.


 

offline goDel from ɐpʎǝx (Seychelles) on 2006-02-28 12:46 [#01850382]
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yes, get ANOTHER gf

it's just like a hangover. drink more beer.


 

offline Dozer on 2006-02-28 12:51 [#01850384]
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mmmh where? I'm in the middle of nowhere



 

offline euphonicfilter from illadelphia (United States) on 2006-02-28 12:59 [#01850386]
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start to forget about her, get rid of all traces of her

focus on yourself and your friends

get hammered whenever you want

and eventually, youll wake up one day and realize you were /
are better off without her


 

offline Dozer on 2006-02-28 13:01 [#01850388]
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Hey but the problem is that she wants that we stay good
friends
That chick is weird lol


 

offline euphonicfilter from illadelphia (United States) on 2006-02-28 13:02 [#01850390]
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dont bother

she wants to make sure you wont move on

its a bullshit ploy

fuck one of her friends and forget about her

people are ex's for a reason, and usually a damn clear one


 

offline Taxidermist from Black Grass on 2006-02-28 13:06 [#01850393]
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Naw. The good friends thing is a backup in case her next guy
decides he doesn't like her. But it also leaves the booty
call door wide open. I would suggest wait a month, hit the
booty call card, and look for something else.


 

offline euphonicfilter from illadelphia (United States) on 2006-02-28 13:08 [#01850395]
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fuck one of her friends...

she'll hate you, but realize youre a man

and so will you !


 

offline euphonicfilter from illadelphia (United States) on 2006-02-28 13:09 [#01850396]
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ps - fucking one of your ex-gfriends is about one degree
better than masturbation...

why bother climbing the same mountain twice?


 

offline Dozer on 2006-02-28 13:10 [#01850397]
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Even if she have only ugly ones?


 

offline euphonicfilter from illadelphia (United States) on 2006-02-28 13:11 [#01850399]
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hmmm...

nope...

find a new flock of birds...


 

offline uzim on 2006-02-28 13:16 [#01850403]
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*checks to see which track it is*

...
erf, you bastard. : p


stick with the drum'n'bass Dozer : )
or other uplifting music...

i can't really give any advice for this situation you're in,
but - good luck. get over it, it's the past now.


 

offline euphonicfilter from illadelphia (United States) on 2006-02-28 13:17 [#01850405]
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yeah, very sound advice !


 

offline Dozer on 2006-02-28 13:20 [#01850407]
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thanks ^_^


 

offline Dozer on 2006-02-28 13:23 [#01850408]
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cHiptunes+Tea is a pretty good solution also....


 

offline Taxidermist from Black Grass on 2006-02-28 13:23 [#01850409]
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Youv never fucked an ex before, have you...

First off after you haven't seen eachother for a month, its
like you fucked her for the first time. Secondly, you get to
do all the things she wouldn't let you do when you guys were
together. Third, you can be as rough as you want, and as
demanding. Its actually quite good fun.


 

offline euphonicfilter from illadelphia (United States) on 2006-02-28 13:26 [#01850411]
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hahaha

ok i see your point

however...theres no sense of accomplishment...she just caves
in...

thats depressing to me


 

offline Dannn_ from United Kingdom on 2006-02-28 14:32 [#01850443]
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if thats depressing you must cry while you are wanking


 

offline euphonicfilter from illadelphia (United States) on 2006-02-28 14:38 [#01850445]
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my advice is forget about any and all ex's

go to a bar and pick up a slut if you need a poke


 

offline anon from ^_^ (United Kingdom) on 2006-02-28 14:42 [#01850449]
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I Just broke up from a girl friend and a boy friend at the
same time...I've been ''dealing'' with it by pretending
nothing ever happend between any of us...they're just normal
people..

and then occaisonaly going insane and breaking down whilst
listening to sad things...

But then im fine again...

Try it ...Just pretend she's anyone else..and you don't
care.

-A-


 

offline euphonicfilter from illadelphia (United States) on 2006-02-28 14:44 [#01850451]
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that's sounds pretty unstable and pretty near my exgfriend

dont pretend everything is ok if it isnt

be honest...youll end up in a MUCH better place mentally and
emotionally


 

offline Taxidermist from Black Grass on 2006-03-01 00:31 [#01850615]
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That was reasonably sound advice coming from you.


 

offline uviol from United States on 2006-03-01 01:05 [#01850617]
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Did you have any misgivings/regrets/reservations when you
were in the relationship? Focus on those, and realize you're
now free.

If not, just think of all the time, money, and heartache
you'll save by ending it now and being able to focus on more
fun and useful stuff.

If she wants to be friends, there's nothing wrong with that.
But this way you get to play by your rules because there's
nothing to lose.


 


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