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...I really dig her. She wants to be friends, but still wants to mess around too. You see, she's polygamous / polyamorous / whichever term is appropriate. I just want to be her friend too, because I've known her forever. It's good to have her back, because I've been lonely during the days and now I have someone to hang out with who enjoys writing, music, and art as much as I do. I dunno. I can't help getting jealous sometimes, when she's around other guys. I know it's completely unfounded, but I can't help it. I do enjoy the "friends with benefits" thing but I don't enjoy these dark feelings and jealousy I have now and again. So.... jeez.... why am I bitching? I guess I should just enjoy the benefits but keep my eyes open. Right? |
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as long as you don't fall in love with her, you should be okay. the being jealous thing does kind of indicate the opposite, though. |
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y'know what makes it better? doing the same thing. |
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sexual tension |
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haha! you're right! alex, good advice from you, sir. i do need to lose the jealousy. |
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leave it. my mate is now "dating" someone i've shagged. it's all gonna end it tears i tell you. and it won't be mine. |
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just nevermind it. if you get benefits if you just stay friends, and she wants it that way, that's probably the best. in most of those cases (though I've only encountered two), if you get more involved than just friends, it gets fuckery, and I don't mean that in a good way. for some reason, chicks know what works and what doesn't. |
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i dunno, id say back off a bit before you end up just hating her |
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Yeah, someone always gets more attached in situations like this and then gets hurt/ fucked over........ step away, step away..... |
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Post pics. |
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thanks for listening, all. i'll think hard on this. |
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8 responces without a request for pics? How disappointing.. |
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you're better than this |
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if she makes you unhappy and doesn't care, that doesn't sound like much of a friend to me. if she doesn't know you are unhappy then you have some communicating to do. |
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fuck man, just go for it. |
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stop the "benefits", just be her friend, other way you will be really sad later |
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so what if someone gets hurt? you'll always get hurt in any relationship. if you're afraid of getting hurt don't see any other woman ever. |
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oh just boink her and then, you know, go do something else. |
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I agree with you there. |
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"she's polygamous / polyamorous / whichever term is appropriate." Actually I think whore is the term you are looking for here. |
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Don't write yourself into a corner. |
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PICS DUDE |
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sounds like you're already in love with her, anyway so, enjoy while it lasts :) |
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bang her,bang her,bang her some more-wipe yourself on her knickers-then hit the pubs with your mates-never giving it another thought. |
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ohh bad situation you'rre in. it's going to end badly. honestly, if you feel like this now it'll only get worrse. |
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sounds bad : ( i wish i had some advice to give you... maybe you should just stop seeing her if you feel bad about it, it will probably only get worse, like people said. it makes me wonder why most of us need to have one love and to be the loved only one by the way... |
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if this was me "and a girl" i wouldn't trust anyone's advice but my own |
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does anybody trust their own judgement anymore? |
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i think we're going to be just friends now. which is fine by me. you guys are great for listening. thanks. i appreciate the concern, honestly. |
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no thank You! : D |
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