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cygnus
from nowhere and everyplace on 2005-08-19 23:01 [#01700899]
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everyone tells me my 20s will be a blur, they will go by so fast
what can i do to probably prevent this and have the most fulfilling and dynamic 20's? i am 20 right now,turning 21 in december.
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qrter
from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2005-08-19 23:03 [#01700901]
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turn 30.
suddenly everything slows down enough for you to be able to appreciate anything.
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qrter
from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2005-08-19 23:03 [#01700902]
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or: not worry about it and just GET ON WITH IT GODDAMNIT!
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cygnus
from nowhere and everyplace on 2005-08-19 23:09 [#01700906]
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no matter what i can't help but have this feeling that i got to have a purpose, its weird. guess ill go with it and laugh at it later on.
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Taffmonster
from dog_belch (Japan) on 2005-08-19 23:12 [#01700908]
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when in december? im 22 in december
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Ophecks
from Nova Scotia (Canada) on 2005-08-19 23:20 [#01700914]
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And I'm 23 in December. You guys Sagittarius or you lame-a-zoid Capricorns?
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qrter
from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2005-08-19 23:29 [#01700917]
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I'm not even 30 yet, I'm 27.
but even I feel old. well, not really - just older.
the thing you describe of feeling you have to have a purpose
isn't that strange - I think most of us have it. and not just when you're 20. it's because every film, book and/or person tells you you should make something of your life, not
waste it, etc. etc. etc.
thing is: how do you know you're using your life usefully? how do you know you're wasting your life?
it's all pretty much bullshit, really. you change with age,
so your priorities change, your dreams and wishes change. just as long as you watch out for comprosing too much and adjusting your 'dreams' too much to conform to reality, you'll be doing okay.
until you hit 40, that is. then you'll ask yourself: "what is my purpose? what was my purpose?" etc. etc.
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mimi
on 2005-08-19 23:40 [#01700921]
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im worried that im going to wake up and be 30 and doing the same shit im doing now
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Taffmonster
from dog_belch (Japan) on 2005-08-19 23:48 [#01700924]
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dec 8 proper sagitarian
aint the zodiac great wurd
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r40f
from qrters tea party on 2005-08-20 00:06 [#01700940]
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here's the worst: you live in the present. things aren't going to happen one day in the far future, you have to make them happen yourself right now. you can't just go, "hey, now i'm 23, now i have accomplished this thing i wanted to do." you have to actually start doing it today to make it happen.
also, apparently the years just keep going by faster and faster until you die.
and becoming an "adult" for 99% of the population means becoming wiser, then cynical, then you give up on things, then you become complacent and either hate your life or don't even realize that it has happened to you.
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r40f
from qrters tea party on 2005-08-20 00:08 [#01700941]
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god damn, i wish i was 20 again. there is not one fucking thing good about getting older. don't do it if possible.
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Taffmonster
from dog_belch (Japan) on 2005-08-20 00:11 [#01700942]
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im actually getting younger i was aborn a 40 year old, which is kinda said i ahd an early birth
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thecurbcreeper
from United States on 2005-08-20 00:11 [#01700944]
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i'll be 21 at the end of this month. i actually haven't really given it much thought.
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thecurbcreeper
from United States on 2005-08-20 00:12 [#01700945]
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that last sentence was a bit awkward
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mimi
on 2005-08-20 00:20 [#01700948]
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you can work on your sentence structure in your 30s
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hanal
from k_maty only (United Kingdom) on 2005-08-20 00:21 [#01700952]
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ha ha,phil enjoy the moment-im 34 and lovin it.alltho you need to speak up a bit:)
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thecurbcreeper
from United States on 2005-08-20 00:32 [#01700957]
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i think that is a reasonable goal
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rAWs
from new jersey (United States) on 2005-08-20 00:33 [#01700958]
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and you don't wear jerseys when you're 30+ you'll wear a crisp pair of jeans nigga button ups
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cygnus
from nowhere and everyplace on 2005-08-20 01:16 [#01700964]
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im deck 7th sagitarion yo
FUCKING DRUNKA RIGH TNOW ON XLT , WHTS UP TO U NIGGAS
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cygnus
from nowhere and everyplace on 2005-08-20 01:18 [#01700966]
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haanal i hear u dogg
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cygnus
from nowhere and everyplace on 2005-08-20 01:19 [#01700967]
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you knwo what i figure,,
you die one day anway. you can spend a whole life wodnerging about that... or you can just go with it u know
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cygnus
from nowhere and everyplace on 2005-08-20 01:19 [#01700968]
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deck 7 though, ever1 share yoru bday in this thread
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nacmat
on 2005-08-20 01:46 [#01700973]
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21????
you are already dead man
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bogala
from NYC (United States) on 2005-08-20 02:53 [#01700987]
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Just enjoy yourself as much as you can, but prepare for the future so you don't feel like a loser when you are in your 30's. Try to get rich and have a personal jester. And have as much sex as possible.
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bogala
from NYC (United States) on 2005-08-20 03:19 [#01701001]
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My real advice? Become a buddhist. Or something like one. You will never do it all. The carnal flesh will always dissapoint you. Accept life for what it is and maybe even more amazing things will happen to you than you expected. Don't try to force life. Unexpected things come along and if you aren't strong or you put too much value in what you were expecting it will destroy you. Go with the river.
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recycle
from Where is Phobiazero (Lincoln) (United States) on 2005-08-20 05:14 [#01701061]
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I HATE OLD PEOPLE :) ILL BE 31 IN NOV.
if you care what my opinion is read post [#01700917] in this thread
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Phobiazero
from the next Xltronic (Sweden) on 2005-08-20 05:58 [#01701094]
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i'm 30
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Anus_Presley
on 2005-08-20 06:02 [#01701096]
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we'rre all doomed.
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pf
from Finland on 2005-08-20 06:07 [#01701100]
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30 aint bad, some of my frieds are 30, and they arent that old. age is just a number. it's all about your mind
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pf
from Finland on 2005-08-20 06:08 [#01701101]
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30 aint bad, some of my frieds are 30, and they arent that old. age is just a number. it's all about your mind
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pf
from Finland on 2005-08-20 06:09 [#01701102]
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Double Dragon
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Anus_Presley
on 2005-08-20 06:11 [#01701103]
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WE GET IT
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Anus_Presley
on 2005-08-20 06:12 [#01701104]
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Everry birrthday makes you questions yourrself etc... forr me at least. The answerrs arre often negative.
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Anus_Presley
on 2005-08-20 06:17 [#01701107]
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That's what I hate about my life, although I'm generrally not doing the same job and doing the same things I'm always in the same place. I hate that. It frrightens me, too, that one day I'll be in the same place with even less chance to change it orr no chance of changing it at all.
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patman
from Liverpool, England on 2005-08-20 06:25 [#01701109]
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Older people tell me to enjoy my twenties (I'm 23) but, I'm such a sad, ugly geek I might as well be middle aged.
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Anus_Presley
on 2005-08-20 06:47 [#01701113]
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dog_belch
from Netherlands, The on 2005-08-20 06:58 [#01701118]
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Age isn't what it used to be, even time is subject to fashion, 30 is the new 25, 40 the new 30 , 50 the new 40 etc. I'm glad to be a bit older, I like watching the kids fannying about on eBay paying $$$$$$s for records I bought at their normal price when they came out. It makes me LOLZ0r0id hard.
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patman
from Liverpool, England on 2005-08-20 07:01 [#01701120]
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It just pisses me off when my dad says things like "Why aren't you out at you age shagging girls?" Ermm...because they cross the street to avoid me?
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colani
from Retarded (France) on 2005-08-20 07:24 [#01701132]
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I find it pretty disturbing when my age decade's number switches to +1. It's a bit of a traumatic event. My dad told me he got depressed when he reached 30. He even changed of headdress, thanks to permanent wave. (new hairdo = new life I guess).
I'm 20 and I wonder why people sometimes say : oh, I wish I was 20. For me, it's the worst year of my life so far. I wish I was 10 again, instead.
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bob
from Nottingham (United Kingdom) on 2005-08-20 07:36 [#01701141]
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i'm 28, the worst age for me was when i reached 26, cos it made me closer to 30 than 20. which meant i was officially old.
forget all the people saying you'll regret your life if you do this blah blah blah. just do what you want and be happy now - we all die in the end, so who gives a fuck?
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virginpusher
from County Clare on 2005-08-20 07:41 [#01701143]
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Listen to bob. I like those words.
I am gonna hit 23 next month
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colani
from Retarded (France) on 2005-08-20 08:09 [#01701162]
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Yeah, the good thing is that we all die in the end.
It's a bit hard to figure, but despite the thousands years of human activity, the entire planet is just now composed of max 60-70 years old aged still active people. All previous people are dead, together with their (mostly outdated) ideas. That's a comforting fact for me.
I mean, fortunately the world changes fast.
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Drunken Mastah
from OPPERKLASSESVIN!!! (Norway) on 2005-08-20 11:42 [#01701302]
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baluba!!!
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