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DeleriousWeasel
from Guam on 2005-07-04 04:30 [#01651961]
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I'm feeling really low at the moment and have taken some time off the site for reflection, bit of karma etc.
this girl who is a friend of my mums has really liked me for ages but she wasn't anything particularly special and we used to chat at parties and stuff. Now my parents have a new friend who attends our latin american gatherings/parties and this girl and this new couple's son have gotten really close and I feel terrible...almost heartbroken and I can't understand why my stupid psyche realises I had feelings for her all along but only saw it now...when it's too late.
anyone else been in my situation before? I wouldn't wish it upon anyone. I feel depressed and the book I'm reading ('Heart of Darkness' by Joseph Conrad) isn't helping. *sigh*
I've also really gotten into classical music as a result which is perhaps the one good thing I can take from this experience.
argh.
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-crazone
from smashing acid over and over on 2005-07-04 04:32 [#01651965]
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isn't it that you just want to protect the girl from boys as a friend?
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DeleriousWeasel
from Guam on 2005-07-04 04:34 [#01651969]
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maybe....I don't know. I never felt anything for her until she was with someone else. Now I can't stop and I feel like a total twat.
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redrum
from the allman brothers band (Ireland) on 2005-07-04 04:36 [#01651974]
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yes, this has happened me and i've still not gotten over her.
sucks, doesn't it? *hysterical laughter* :/
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-crazone
from smashing acid over and over on 2005-07-04 04:40 [#01651975]
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you're making this to hard on yourself..go read funnie comicbooks and listen to some funnie music instead
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DeleriousWeasel
from Guam on 2005-07-04 04:41 [#01651979]
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I'm sorry to hear that, it really is one of the worst feelings one can have. The moment you see the person who has liked you for so long suddenly switch their attentions to some new guy and it dawns on you that deep down you actually had very strong repressed feelings for them all along, it is something that I've never felt before. Just like a sudden darkness over you and the willingness to just cease existing (not in a suicidal way, just in a metaphysical evaporation of life)
*sigh* I cant see myself getting over this one
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nacmat
on 2005-07-04 04:51 [#01651990]
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you dont like yourself
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DeleriousWeasel
from Guam on 2005-07-04 04:55 [#01651998]
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I don't? in what way?
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Exaph
from United Kingdom on 2005-07-04 05:10 [#01652021]
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how do you know she likes you in that way? and if you are sure that she did then im pretty certain she will still feel the same about you, so maybe you should call her and explain..?
at least you would have peace of mind.
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_gvarek_
from next to you (Poland) on 2005-07-04 05:16 [#01652032]
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Let me quote hanal: "think porn".
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zero-cool
on 2005-07-04 06:01 [#01652067]
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AND HOW OLD ARE YOU , ARE YOU OLD ENOUGH....24 HOUR PARTY PEOPLE, BLASTED FACE CAN SMILE
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zero-cool
on 2005-07-04 06:02 [#01652069]
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YEAH DEPREEESSSIONNNNN.....DEEEETROIIIIT
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CS2x
from London (United Kingdom) on 2005-07-04 06:50 [#01652123]
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Hahaha!
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plaidzebra
from so long, xlt on 2005-07-04 10:02 [#01652354]
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i wonder if what you really miss is relishing the situation in which you know that a girl is interested in you, even though you're not interested in her. it's not surprising that you are more attracted to her now that she's unavailable. you're looking to fill the emotional void that was filled by her interest in you, and the result is a surge of desire for the girl you can't have. chances are, if she did end up ditching her current interest for you, you'd lose interest in her pretty quickly.
take some time to try to understand your true motivations, ask yourself why you feel the way you do. if you're sincere and honest, you'll get useful feedback. best wishes, weasel...
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Xeron
from London (United Kingdom) on 2005-07-04 10:59 [#01652417]
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I can't believe your all so gullible.
oh and if it is true it serves you right for hesitating.
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hanal
from k_maty only (United Kingdom) on 2005-07-04 11:06 [#01652423]
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yes yes,to throw one of once a day solves everything,twice a day makes you a GOD
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Anus_Presley
on 2005-07-04 11:18 [#01652434]
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It's because therre is no God.
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Anus_Presley
on 2005-07-04 11:19 [#01652435]
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hanal
from k_maty only (United Kingdom) on 2005-07-04 11:25 [#01652442]
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you forgot internet
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Anus_Presley
on 2005-07-04 11:27 [#01652445]
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Oh yeah
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DeleriousWeasel
from Guam on 2005-07-04 11:28 [#01652447]
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yeah....maybe you're right there. I;m just getting the cold shoulder now :/
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Anus_Presley
on 2005-07-04 11:29 [#01652449]
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plaidzebra is neverr rright, don't be fooled.
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Anus_Presley
on 2005-07-04 11:33 [#01652455]
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The only way to feel betterr is to take a gun, put it to yourr head, pull the trriggerr and blast everry last conscious bit of sponge that's in therre all overr a wall orr piece of furrniturre. Otherrwise you have to get on with it and accept this is going to happen again and again and again... and that no one carres because it's happening to them. That's the harrdest lesson to learrn... no one gives a damn.
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Snakejuice
from Eastern (Western Sahara) on 2005-07-04 11:33 [#01652456]
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Most people can't deal with complete honesty in combination with and ability to express your opinions with logic. The truth is, unfortunately boring and more difficult to maintain. If you can appreciate the challenge, you will see other people trying to do the same thing. To say what they truly mean and the way it was meant to be said. This eliminates 95.242% of all potential idiotic pissheads that will come your way because they don't know how to do it and it's blatantly obvious.
In summary, mind over matter. Shitty people don't matter.
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outpt
on 2005-07-04 12:07 [#01652476]
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it's the classic child like "want you can't have" syndrome but it's just that when you are an adult you allow yourself to dwell on something. self pity and depression are very different things, just get on with your life and stop being pathetic.
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i_x_ten
from arsemuncher on 2005-07-04 12:12 [#01652477]
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exception 646 bread
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outpt
on 2005-07-04 12:14 [#01652479]
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i mean "want what you can't have"
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DeleriousWeasel
from Guam on 2005-07-04 12:36 [#01652482]
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plaidzebra appaears to be right for once :)
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scup_bucket
from bloated exploding piss pockets on 2005-07-04 12:37 [#01652483]
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it is not the worst feeling one can have, not by a long shot
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DeleriousWeasel
from Guam on 2005-07-04 12:39 [#01652487]
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yeah I'm sure it's not....it just damn near feels like it. -_-
you know any worse feelings off the top of your head?
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outpt
on 2005-07-04 12:56 [#01652495]
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being told you are terminally ill and have 7 months to live on the week you find out your girlfriend is 1 month pregnant? i think that would be a pretty shitty feeling.
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i_x_ten
from arsemuncher on 2005-07-04 13:15 [#01652521]
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join a cult.
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DeleriousWeasel
from Guam on 2005-07-04 14:34 [#01652575]
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good idea....maybe the freemasons is the one for me.
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_gvarek_
from next to you (Poland) on 2005-07-04 14:39 [#01652579]
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Worship Krishna man. Shave your head, get a flute, think karma-yoga.
HARE-HARE-RAMA-RAMA-KRISHNA-KRISHNA-RAMA-RAMA
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_gvarek_
from next to you (Poland) on 2005-07-04 14:41 [#01652580]
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Harry Rama
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CS2x
from London (United Kingdom) on 2005-07-04 15:23 [#01652615]
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I went to the outside Hyde park during the live8 event to catch some of the buzz, and I saw a group of Krishna worshippers walking around ringing bells, singing chants, and playing drums. They looked quite frightening, and there was a random drunk anarchist shouting over them through a megaphone which made it even more exciting.
I saw a man with an Aphex Twin t-shirt and got quite excited.
A happy day.
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_gvarek_
from next to you (Poland) on 2005-07-04 15:38 [#01652629]
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Yep, the streets are full of them. I had some encounters with those maniacs too. They`re mostly mad and obsessed, talk a lot of bullshit about India and "Vedic culture", but their knowlege is mostly very superficial.
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CS2x
from London (United Kingdom) on 2005-07-04 16:10 [#01652653]
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The chant is addictive though. I've still got it stuck in my head.
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bill_hicks
from my city is amazing it is calle on 2005-07-04 16:55 [#01652666]
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i am that the latin american couples son.
I fucked your little friend on the first night. I knew you liked her but were too much of a pussy to ask out. so i moved in. i don't really like her that much either. the whore wasn't even that good. she cried afterwards. said she wished her first time had been with someone else, but she wouldn't say who. you can have her mate. i've got another three on the go anyway.
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plaidzebra
from so long, xlt on 2005-07-04 17:00 [#01652670]
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om namah shivaya.
this could help anyone...
and for anus presley, there's preparation h.
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k_maty
on 2005-07-04 17:01 [#01652671]
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why is your homepage non public anymore
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CS2x
from London (United Kingdom) on 2005-07-04 17:01 [#01652672]
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So, what is her name?
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bill_hicks
from my city is amazing it is calle on 2005-07-04 17:03 [#01652673]
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it died. we all die in the end.
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bogala
from NYC (United States) on 2005-07-04 23:08 [#01652770]
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Im buessing you liked the attention. You are a narcissist.
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bogala
from NYC (United States) on 2005-07-04 23:08 [#01652771]
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guessing
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DeleriousWeasel
from Guam on 2005-07-05 03:35 [#01652876]
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damn you bill you fiend.
Bogola : yes, I am CS2x : Brunhilda _gvarek_ : I'm shaved already, but not on my head.
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Xeron
from London (United Kingdom) on 2005-07-05 03:43 [#01652885]
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I knew it, you're such a liar! there is no latino in their right minds who would call their little girl Brunhilda.
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giginger
from Milky Beans (United Kingdom) on 2005-07-05 03:46 [#01652890]
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Have a wank.
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DeleriousWeasel
from Guam on 2005-07-05 05:28 [#01652986]
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that was a joke Xeron, her name is Graciela and she's from Bolivian origin, much like me.
giginger your ease of solving problems never ceases to amaze me. Thanks.
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CS2x
from London (United Kingdom) on 2005-07-05 05:30 [#01652987]
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Everyone: This entire thread is a steaming pile of shit. It's all made up.
Shame on you, DW. Pathetic.
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