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outpt
on 2005-06-20 16:38 [#01638877]
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i had this one girl who i really really liked for about 2 years. we got on really well but she did everything she could while we were out to make me feel bad, eg she would flirt heavily with other men and generally ignore me when she had drank a few. anyway I have got this new girlfriend who i really like etc. but the one I really liked in the past is suddenly interested. how do i politely tell her where to go? ps i would like to remains friends with this girl because i do adore her but i could never trust her in a relationship.
is this the right place to ask for this sort od advise? I guess maybe not :-)
Also what is your favourite autechre album. i only started listening to them about 2 months back, but i think i much prefer their early work incunabula and amber to their most recent album untilted.
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k_maty
on 2005-06-20 16:40 [#01638878]
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post nudez
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qrter
from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2005-06-20 16:42 [#01638882]
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"is this the right place to ask for this sort od advise? I guess maybe not :-)
Also what is your favourite autechre album."
smoooooth...
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r40f
from qrters tea party on 2005-06-20 16:44 [#01638883]
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tell her you've got a SEXUAL DISEASE.
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isnieZot
from pooptown (Belgium) on 2005-06-20 16:44 [#01638884]
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how do i politely tell her where to go?
you don't. she just became interested because she sees that other women are attracted to you that's the only reason she's interested. she's jeleous. you tell her she had her chance and stick with the girl you are with now.
I like Tri Repetae the most.
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010101
from Vancouver (Canada) on 2005-06-20 16:46 [#01638887]
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Don't tell her anything, don't answer your phone to her, if she sees you tell her that you have something more important to do. The ignorant boyfriend trick is the best way to deal with this sort of situation. Soon enough she will do the lets be friends thing, it works every time.
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cygnus
from nowhere and everyplace on 2005-06-20 16:47 [#01638890]
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1) tell her you'd be interested in a relationship if you weren't already in one. tell her that in your own way
2) you can ask that sort of stuff here, its cool really
3) ep7
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tolstoyed
from the ocean on 2005-06-20 16:47 [#01638891]
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confield. girls are crap.
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outpt
on 2005-06-20 16:49 [#01638892]
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r40f i have tried telling the truth in the past and it has never worked
isnieZot i know that is the only reason she is interested now but she even tried it on with my mate (on here whoever it is) to get me mad (it worked). six months ago i would have jumped at the chance and think it might be because i was too shy to really force the issue with her.
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swift_jams
from big sky on 2005-06-20 16:54 [#01638898]
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1) tell her you would like to remain friends with her because you do adore her but you could never trust her in a
relationship.
2) my fav. is autechre
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big
from lsg on 2005-06-20 17:00 [#01638906]
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i guess that's the right answer
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outpt
on 2005-06-20 17:04 [#01638913]
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its not that simple. this girls has troubles in her life and needs friends. she always said to me nothing would happen betwen us because she needed to keep me as just a friend. she confuses me, i suppose i think of her as like a sister i want to protect more than anything now.
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big
from lsg on 2005-06-20 17:06 [#01638916]
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why cant you tell her to fuck off politely, it's shitty of her to get interested now
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cygnus
from nowhere and everyplace on 2005-06-20 17:07 [#01638918]
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well then shes got problems if she needs friends so badly but treats them like crap. keep your distance.
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outpt
on 2005-06-20 17:08 [#01638920]
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i suppose i will just have to see how it works out. im off for a shower and sleep, see you all again soon.
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010101
from Vancouver (Canada) on 2005-06-20 17:09 [#01638922]
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The fact that she has problems and needs freinds isn't your fault, at least I hope not. You should be honest with her. It is plain to see that she is using you as an emotional crutch.
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big
from lsg on 2005-06-20 17:09 [#01638924]
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goodnight !
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cygnus
from nowhere and everyplace on 2005-06-20 17:12 [#01638926]
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you know what?
she's smart.
cause chances are, she's got 10 or 15 other guys just like you who she'd love to have wrapped around her finger.
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cie jiks mawp
from motion to descend (Australia) on 2005-06-20 17:14 [#01638928]
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i like the ciastic slide. sp? tell her she acts dumb when she has had a few.
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big
from lsg on 2005-06-20 17:39 [#01638942]
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cum in her face
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AlbertoBalsalm
from ReykjavÃk (Iceland) on 2005-06-20 17:48 [#01638945]
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check out their eps, that's where most of the good stuff is: garbage, peel sessions, anvil vapre, envane.
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qrter
from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2005-06-20 17:51 [#01638947]
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that's just the best!
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r40f
from qrters tea party on 2005-06-20 17:56 [#01638949]
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you've really got to use caps lock when you say it. like this: "SEXUAL DISEASE". did you use caps when you were speaking to her?
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CS2x
from London (United Kingdom) on 2005-06-20 17:58 [#01638950]
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Give her Draft 7.30 as a present.
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AlbertoBalsalm
from ReykjavÃk (Iceland) on 2005-06-20 17:59 [#01638952]
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:D
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i_x_ten
from arsemuncher on 2005-06-20 18:13 [#01638959]
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kick her in the fanny.
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b6662966
from ? on 2005-06-20 18:16 [#01638961]
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heres a simple solution...invite her over to your place, sit next to her and quietly pull your cock out without saying a word. she will either A) reach for the cock and proceed to suck you off B) be disgusted and never talk to you again. In either case after you are done kick her out of your house and call her slut.
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cygnus
from nowhere and everyplace on 2005-06-20 18:17 [#01638963]
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LOL
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bogala
from NYC (United States) on 2005-06-20 19:37 [#01639038]
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fuck her, too. You are too young to have an honest relationship. We all know that all men are more attractive to girls when they are in a relationship. It's about pheramones or competition or something. I really don't know, but it's a fact. Besides, when you break up w/ the one you are currently w/ you'll wish you cheated on her. So, why don't we walk down son and fuck'em all.
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glyttrbugg
from Tucson (United States) on 2005-06-21 00:52 [#01639101]
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...Not a l l girls are after the guys who are in a relationship.
Stay clear of the one that has eff'd you about before. She doesn't deserve you. (Seems like she's definitely not ready for a relationship -- trying to keep you at her disposal/convenience. That's not right.)
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Taxidermist
from Black Grass on 2005-06-21 02:14 [#01639123]
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Dude, she is a bitch. You may be head over heels with her or whatever, and she may have issues, but the fact is, she likes to play games that you are not comfortable with. As long as you remain friends with her, it will be the same. Look at the issues she has, and try to pinpoint how many could have been brought upon by situations that she developed. Get her gone, and then talk to her in a few months when you both have had your head cleared.
EP7 followed closely by Cichle Suite.
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hyakusen
from 8=============> on 2005-06-21 02:29 [#01639129]
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you are being too obvious man
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pOgO
from behind your belly button fluff on 2005-06-21 02:35 [#01639133]
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She's missed her chance dude
This girl sounds like a bit of a bitch tbh, your typical self centerd female (there's hundreds of them.... trust me), and if you ended up back with her it would probably be exactly the same as it was before you broke up
Think about it and ask yourself which situation you'd rather be in.
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maphive
from 3% step and 54foot-slide on 2005-06-21 03:58 [#01639194]
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>> did you use caps when you were speaking to her?
lol
whatever you do , dont bone her now cause your new girlie will find out [they always do] and you will lose both of them
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Raz0rBlade_uk
on 2005-06-21 04:02 [#01639196]
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Have them both.
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laniatus
from United States on 2005-06-21 12:17 [#01639585]
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Yeah, I'm a girl so I know how we are. She only wants you because she can't have you. Don't give her attention, it's what she wants. Focus on your new relationship, and make the most of it. Don't answer your phone to her, and don't talk to her. Don't be cold, be civil, but deal with her as little as possible and have a great time with your new girl.
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r40f
from qrters tea party on 2005-06-21 12:21 [#01639589]
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She only wants you because she can't have you.
ugh. i swear i don't fucking understand that shit at all. utterly pathetic behavior.
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laniatus
from United States on 2005-06-21 12:23 [#01639591]
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Well girls are bitches. I've accepted it. You should too. Either that or date men. I wouldn't advise the latter.
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AlbertoBalsalm
from ReykjavÃk (Iceland) on 2005-06-21 12:30 [#01639592]
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finally a girl with some sense. marry me
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AlbertoBalsalm
from ReykjavÃk (Iceland) on 2005-06-21 12:32 [#01639594]
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erhhm i mean "i don't want anything to do with you, fuck off" ;)
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Taxidermist
from Black Grass on 2005-06-21 12:52 [#01639619]
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Heh... your wrong. All girls aren't bitches. Only the ones who have sold themselves on the lifestyle of being a bitch are.
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laniatus
from United States on 2005-06-21 12:53 [#01639622]
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Hahahaha I'm all yours.
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-crazone
from smashing acid over and over on 2005-06-21 12:55 [#01639627]
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tnx i needed this advice too.
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laniatus
from United States on 2005-06-21 12:56 [#01639629]
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No problem, I'm glad I could help
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-crazone
from smashing acid over and over on 2005-06-21 12:57 [#01639633]
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you are a good girl: not a bitch :-)
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laniatus
from United States on 2005-06-21 12:58 [#01639635]
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Woot! Score one for the good girls!
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weatheredstoner
from same shit babes. (United States) on 2005-06-21 13:02 [#01639652]
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it seems pretty obvious, your ex is a total whore who thrives off attention. She might as well carry a score card and mark down 1 point for everytime a guy makes eye contact with her, 2 points for every guy that talks with her, 3 points for every idiot who buys her a drink and 5 points for whoever has sex with her. At the end of the day, if she doesn't come home with at least 50 points, she eats an entire gallon of Ben&Jerry's and contemplates calling every guy in her phonebook to add some extra credit points in leu of slitting her wrists.
I like Untilted.
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goDel
from ɐpʎǝx (Seychelles) on 2005-06-21 13:06 [#01639664]
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you deserve a big wuss-spank!
odds are she wants to see how easy she could have you back, if and whenever she wants to. even in the case if you have a gf.
get over her
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_awt_
from Malmö (Sweden) on 2005-06-21 13:09 [#01639669]
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Hey! I like Untitled to =D
(1 point for me)
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weatheredstoner
from same shit babes. (United States) on 2005-06-21 13:10 [#01639670]
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lolz!
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