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WARNING!! Massive egocentric "Boo fuckin hoo" off topic rant. A very Beautiful and intelligent girl at my work originally from Marocko seems to have a crush on me but i can't believe it cause she is too beautifull and great .Totaly out of my league and i mean TOTALY. She looks like a cross between Beyonce and that lovely girl from "A knights tale" , im not exagerating . Why the fuck would she want a guy like me when she could get a dreamy Brad Pitt or David Beckham type guy ??? Im not saying im butt uggly but girls doesn't exactly turn their heads either .All i got going apperance vise is that im tall and pretty fit . Im not rich and i can't dance (she loves dancing) , I prefer sitting at home infront of my computer over a wild club night (she loves going out). She listens to Celine Dion and other horrible mainstream bullshit and im a indie music freak. Still she keeps flirting and giving me hints everyday and im going crazy . Once she even dragged me into one of these shops where you buy dresses for marriage and asked me what dress i liked. She keeps joking about marriyng me and moving in with me. Today for example we where a bunch of people who where going out to eat after work but i changed my mind and went to the gym instead and the look on her face as i left was like someone had just told her that her mom had died or something. Btw when i got a membership at the gym she went and got one too a couple of days later . Sometimes she tags along . She is never alone with me though. Once we where alone at a lunch place when everybody else had left and you could cut the tension with a knife. She is so cute , she speaks kinda bad swedish and say poetic stuff like "there are lakes everywhere on the road" when its raining. Her ass is out of this world haha! Hypnotisingly bootylicious. Sometimes its really hard to not give her a little male shovanist smack as she walks by me , i mean hard like being starved to death and then having a hamburger infront of you but not being ... |
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.. alowed to eat it. Another guy at work couldnt resist the temptation one day and she smacked him back right in the face haha! Back home in marocko she was the second best student in her school ( a very large highschool) , the second best scores or something so she is not just a pretty face. She speaks five languages .Her family is very rich , they have servants and shit (i have seen pictures) . She moved to sweden alone after chatting with that asshole boyfriend on the internet (they have brokeup now) . I think she just wanted to get away from the muslim lifestyle. She studies at night and wants to becomme a police officer wich is like the single hardest thing to becomme for a immigrant in sweden . AND she has told one of my workmates she has a thing for someone at work but she refused to say who. Aaaargh!! im going crazy . What in the name of arse could she see in me ??? The only thing i can think of is that i have a nice apartment and she is looking for a new one . And her last boyfriend is a total looser in every sence , compared to him im a greek god. And the simple fact that i treat her nice. Sometimes at parties when im drunk i have the currage to flirt back , just a little . Im terrified of making a move on her. What if im wrong ? It will be so awkward and im about to get promoted in a couple of weeks so soon i will become her boss at work, And also getting involved with her would dissrupt my whole reality , my comfortable hermit lifestyle shattered. I havent had a girlfriend since......sixth grade ..lol!! .. just meningless onenightstands. It would be like learning to walk. Terrified. |
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Ok ..just to give you an idea of what she looks like SIDO = Collects starwars stuff . Hermit slacker, (unplug my phone 95% of the time) . Listens to "weird" music . Not good looking . No particular goal or aim in life . Insecure . Poor . Looser. This is 2005 , girls like that doesn't hook up with guys like me. WTF ? I don't expect anyone to care or read all that stuff (as i seldom do when others post similar topics ). Infact i expect a closed topic and getting slagged off (hello cuntychuck) Felt really good getting that off my chest though. Kinda therapeutic. |
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Dude, just go with the flow and go with what feels natural. If the moment feels right then go for it. Worse things could happen. |
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Lucky bugger. |
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I didn't read it but I just want to say. girls suck |
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...if you're lucky. |
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on the button! |
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:D |
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I was going to type some useful information here but my ideas are not really likely to be very good. |
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i'd just like to state that i read your rant in its entirety. i'm not going to give any girl advice because frankly i'm not qualified. so your problems include: 1) a hot girl is really into you 2) you're going to get a promotion soon boo fuckin hoo. haha j/k, i feel for you dude. hope everything works out. |
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mate if you're getting attention from a hot bird go for it. i am still kickiing myself over a similar situation about a year ago. |
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I think that was my point when I said "lucky bugger". A hot girl fancies him... that's not really a "problem" as such. I say, go out with her, what's the worst that could happen? And if you decide not to, point her in my direction. |
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I've been waiting for a situation like this for 15 years >:| |
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The thing is , im so fucking clueless when it comes to girls. I was in the same situation back in school. This totally amazing girl sent out the signals to me. And i spent 3 school years doing nothing about it , constantly wondering if i was just imagining things. Pathetic. But it just doesn't add up in my head. How is it possible when 99.99999% of the girls you meet treat you like air and then this gorgeus amazing girl just happens to suddenly fancy you. Its not logical at all. |
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Yeah i realise the irony in my "problem" haha! It's just...hard to explain. |
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Since everybody is unique it follows that everyone differs from everyone else is some way, large or small. So it's highly likely given the large population of the world that there's at least *one* person who's attracted to you even if almost everyone else is. Just think yourself lucky that you've crossed paths with one of them. So far the ladies have been universally indifferent towards me (with one exception and that was clearly down to her not knowing any better) |
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what age are you btw? |
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There are obvious errors in that post involving the word "is" instead of "is" and "is" instead of "isn't". I'm not doing very well tonight. |
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"...and that was clearly down to her not knowing any better" Yeah haha! It feels like that. She doesn't know any better and i would be the creepy car salesman that sells her a car that crashes on the way home. No refund. She chooses macdonalds when she could get lobster. |
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Ok then here we go ~cracks her fingers and begins to type~ Firstly this girl does sound very lovely/pretty indeed, and quite adorable, i can see why you would like her, however just because you don't see very much in yourself as being positive doesn't mean she thinks the same. When i originally met oscillik he felt extremely low about himself, as did i {both of us are ten times more confident now, and 100 times happier} i don't know if he still does feel that way, i hope not, but the point is we had both been treated really shit growing up, and we felt extremely bad about ourselves, however we saw perfection in eachother. You may be just what she has been looking for, which could be simply 1 thing, someone to treat her well? or many things, she may find you extremely attractive, funny, irresistable, sweet etc. You may be her dream partner, but unless you have a little confidence in yourself you will never find out. If you purposely hold yourself back from giving this a go you may lose out on an amazing opportunity. You may even pass by your soul mate.. you just never know! I agree with giginger wholeheartedly, go with what feels natural. If you think there's a "moment" between herself and yourself then why not give it a go, but remember not to just throw yourself at her, why not try something as simple as just holding and stroking her hand just to see how she responds and then take it from there? HOWEVER there's always two sides to every story, and since this girl is working with you, you do have to be careful. Don't rush into things because if it messes up it could be horrible, but all the signs seem to be pointing to her liking you too, so try something small and take it from there. Good luck man i hope it all turns out great for you! It's wonderful being in love, but it can be confusing at times. ~Takes a breath~ |
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hi. you have no problem. put your differences with her aside and give it a shot. you may find you have more in common with her than you realized. enjoy. |
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i'll e-mail you my bill ;) |
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So the concensus is: go for it! The down side is that you'll have to buy expensive birthday and christmas prezzies for her if she's already rich. |
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i_x_ten : Im 25 Flutterby : Thank you . Those words helped. =) Trying something small like that would be the smart thing to do. I have been close to doing it at work parties when im a bit drunk and more relaxed but it would feel so false , the day after i would still be the same nervous wreck and i would not have the balls to back up my actions. I have to do it sober. Scary... |
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Well i'm speaking from a girls point of view, and i know that if i fancied a guy {oscillik} and i was flirting with him, that would be my way of hinting.. I'd want him to maybe ask me out for a drink, nothing major, no expectations, and should he maybe just give me a flirty little smile and hold my hand when things were going great, that'd be amazing. But thats just what i think. Glad i could help though, i like offering advice if i can :) i mean it though good luck man, i really hope things work out for you. and don't hide behind the drink! you don't need it if you like this girl that much |
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If persuing her really feels false and uncomfortable to you, just respond as if you're interested in her when she seems to show interest in you. If she picks up interested vibes from you she might step things up herself and it'll feel more natural to you. |
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I say go for it if anything is really "presenting itself" here, you'll absolutely kick yourself later on if you hang back forever. And i advise having a few drinks on both sides, it's a hell of a lot easier. Mornings aren't always awkward, man :) |
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thats longer than anything id read. sydo, my friend, join the anti-xx club. current members are me and weatheredstoner. the slsk chatroom still exists. good luck with your trouble, man |
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Thank you everybody for the advice and encouragement. Just typing this topic freaked me out , but im glad i did. I don't even talk about this kinda stuff with my closest friends. |
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I have to have respect for someone who can post this sort of thing for real in a public forum. Especially here :) |
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You got guts man e-mail addy is in my profile if you need any more advice |
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Thank you both of you =) I feel a little better and less confused about this thing now. |
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have you decided on a gameplan then? |
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Yeah , small steps like Flutterby said. Not go all out at once , it could end up in a mess , especially if you work together. I have to flirt back in some way to see what happens. If she responds well maybe i will gain more confidence and things might step up like xceque said. |
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i always found i was only good at flirting with people i wasn't interested in. the minute it started with someone i really liked, i seized up. good luck anyway :) |
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LOL! exactly!!! The same goes for sex , if it is someone you are interested in only fysical you can imagine all sorts of nasty stuff but if it is emotional you automaticly filther away the nastiest thoughts out of respect or something ? weird. Flirting ha!! When a totaly gorgeus girl like her flirts with me it is like giving a baseball bat to a chimpanse in a weelchair and say " go on , do a homerun for us and you will get all the bananas you can eat for the rest of your life" |
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go for it i say, life is short, you might kick yourself in the ass later for not. |
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that was a lovely story. your hermit life style sounds relaxing, don't spoil it, unless you feel she's worth it. from what i've read you don't seem to comfortable in each other's company and have different tastes in things. but hey, she's hot! 'i wish the mailman would deliver my mail, in the morning' 'i would like some mail from the mailman's wife's tits' |
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Good luck to you! --------------------- Remember she likes you. Dont question it just work with it! :) Whatever you are doing... keep it up! She evidently likes you for you. awesome!! |
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if she likes you she likes you! I always see couples where one half is FAR better looking that the other and that's never an issue in the relatioship go for it and see what happens! But don't be put off by looks. |
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