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I used to be real nice and calm and patient. But i can feel myself changing. sometimes i get so furious inside i fantasize about destryoing things/property. i can feel my face get hot like i am a cartoon head. i never actually show it, i just keep it inside and dont tell anyone. most people that know me think i am normal and nice but i have a rotten soul. what happened to me why did my soul rot? |
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if one represses one's emotions it is generally unhealthy... is that what happened? ps - i hope i don't ever piss you off. |
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i hate emotions |
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supress? |
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I think you just need to reach the 10000 points mark on xltronic. |
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Is it because you are forced to drain your soul-gems working? |
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either one. |
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I don't know. Questioning things like this leads people to the wrong conclusions. My answer would be, "I you are asking yourself the wrong questions". Also, overdramatizing things as such tends to lead people up the wrong path. Maybe you are experiencing added stressors in your life, and haven't found an appropriate means to release that stress. Get to the source of your stress, and you are halfway to coming up with a solution. |
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" I used to be real nice and calm and patient. But i can feel myself changing. sometimes i get so furious inside i fantasize about destryoing things/property. i can feel my face get hot like i am a cartoon head." it's completly the other way around for me..i used to not only fantasize about destroying stuff but actually destroying it...these days i just don't care anymore.. |
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it isn't wrong to have angry feelings - it's normal to get pretty angry at things that deserve it. but you can't just keep it inside. it has to be appropriately released according to the situation. talk to people and explain to them how they make you feel at a particular time. (r40f is not a licensed therapist. his advice is for entertainment purposes only.) |
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Honestly, I think that is a bad idea. When emotional, its usually more difficult to express yourself adequitely, and you end up saying the wrong thing and loosing friends in the process. Right now, I generally take tolstoyed's just mentioned angle at everything; "So what?" |
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thanks guys i feel better already :D *discreetly breaks pencil in pocket* |
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you say you shouldn't speak honestly to your friends about your feelings? that doesn't make any sense to me. why should people know how to regard your feelings if you don't do it yourself? 1. somebody pisses you off. 2. you say, "excuse me, but that pisses me off and here's why..." 3. explain as well as you can what they said or did to bother you. this will let you confront the situation and let you vent your feelings a bit. you don't have to punch them in the face. you can talk like a human being, albeit an upset one. 4. they will probably respect your feelings in the future and attempt to make amends. or not? did i miss something in dealing with every human being i've ever encountered? am i doing this wrong? |
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sounds like you're on the way to the dark side, Jason. |
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I live my life wanting to kill people. As you you my dearest pomme I beleive you haven't been the same since Tom gave you a shove. We need to organise some sort of reparation event. |
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Which Jason are you refering to? |
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the one that calls himself pomme de terre. |
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Not totally, but I think that is a short term solution. What happens in the subconsious is different that what we can rationalize, and sometimes a person see's you as being reasonable, but subconsiously it changes the way they percieve you. I don't think he is talking about normal anger here. I think he is talking about unrational anger, and that seems to scare people. It also depends on who you tell this to. Family will always blow this out of preportion. And if somebody all of a sudden starts talking about deep seated emotional issues, sometimes people take it as a warning sign for something worse that might be happening inside, when really its just harmless. I also find that people don't like it when people discuss what is deep down too much, because as nice as it is to have a deep understanding of your friends, most people don't want to be told this kinda stuff, or even know it. Also, I don't know if he totally realizes how natural it is for people to feel angry about things irrationally. It might just be him needing to addapt to ways he is changing emotionally (for any number of reasons). |
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Sometimes I think about punching people in the back of the head. I say sometimes, I mean always. It would be so good. PS Tom jenkinson gave me an official Squarepush just yesterday, I am one of your kind now. He was good at it, I could tell he'd shoved before. |
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in the past, whenever i've flown off the handle, something lame usually happens. like one time i was scowling in this guys face, telling him to throw the first punch and i kinda snorted and blew a bit of snot out of my nose. i tried to play it off like it didn't happen but i knew that the guy saw it. it's probably why he decided to walk away instead of getting into it with me. i'm just no good at flying off the handle! |
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Thats the funniest stories I have heard today. probly better that way anyways... |
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