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           deepspace9mm
             from filth on 2005-01-03 17:57 [#01444005]
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 Hey sexies, it's time for one of those pointless  "getting-to-know-you" question-threads once again.
 
  Are you a "people" person? Do you get Awful Lonely quite  easily or are you happy with little-to-none human contact?  Does being away from Frendz or Significant Otherz make you  feel Bad or Indifferent? Is being around people stressful  for you? Or do you enjoy the HustleBustle?
 
  No answers apart from the absolute black-and-white will be  accepted. Well ok, that's a lie.
 
  Anyway, speak up interwebfrendz.
 
  
         
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           weatheredstoner
             from same shit babes. (United States) on 2005-01-03 17:58 [#01444008]
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why dont you just ask everyone for a link to their  'myspace.com' page? 
 
  
         
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           ecnadniarb
             on 2005-01-03 18:01 [#01444018]
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Depends on my mood.  Sometimes I find others too demanding  on me, which gets me down, so I disappear for a week or so  and just stay by myself.  Most of the time though I like to  be surrounded by people.  These people I then subconciously  try to drive away.  It sounds cheesy but I have yet to meet  a person 'just like me', even my best friends have little in  common when it comes to general instrests. 
 
  
         
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           qrter
             from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2005-01-03 18:01 [#01444019]
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or livejournal, god forbid.
 
  
         
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           mylittlesister
             from ...wherever (United Kingdom) on 2005-01-03 18:06 [#01444025]
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or even worse still... deadjournal
 
  
         
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           giginger
             from Milky Beans (United Kingdom) on 2005-01-03 18:09 [#01444027]
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I'm a people person in the sense that I like to be around  the people that I like. I don't like having people around  that I don't know though. I enjoy time to myself at times.  Basically I'm normal. That said I do hate everyone at first  whereas everyone else seems to be the opposite. 
 
  
         
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           deepspace9mm
             from filth on 2005-01-03 18:15 [#01444040]
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I think this is the first thread i've ever made to feature  all three of the holy trinity of Bad Internet AngstyNames.  This is not good. I was just kind of curious, y'know. The  internet is a funny distancing tool from feelingsh and all  that (as long as you don't "blog").
 
  Personally, i have periods of utter social paranoia where  speaking to people is almost painful, but the only thing  that really helps is talking to friends and trying to slap  myself out of it.
 
  BLOG BLOG FUCKING BLOG. I always regret being honest on  xltronic around 3 seconds after i post. 
 
  
         
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           thecurbcreeper
             from United States on 2005-01-03 18:43 [#01444090]
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It's about half and half give or take a bit. I enjoy time  with my friends and I also enjoy time alone. If I'm away  from home for too long without any sort of temp home to stay  in or one that I feel comfortable in I tend to get a little  homesick.
 
  I did have a weird experience this summer. My friends and I  got a shore house for a week. I was somewhat hermit-like in  that I stayed in my room listening to music a lot during the  day but I would hang out as well. I didn't really feel like  being around people that week. That may have just been a  special circumstance though. All summer before that I had  gotten used to not going out much. I worked full time and my  friends had moved back home away from where they were going  to school which was near my house. I don't have a car, so I  was kind of stuck home for the most part. Also, the house we  were staying at was rather filthy due to my friends and I so  my room felt like a safe haven. That and every night  everyone just got trashed loud and stupid. Now I enjoy that  occasionally but not for a week straight.
 
  Well well I've written quite a bit there.
 
  
         
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           weatheredstoner
             from same shit babes. (United States) on 2005-01-03 18:44 [#01444092]
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I like having people around, but I suck at lengthy  conversations. I blame the internet.
 
  So, no, I am not a people person. 
 
  
         
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           mylittlesister
             from ...wherever (United Kingdom) on 2005-01-03 18:50 [#01444100]
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it's all a balance, i think. 
  I could spend days on my own, but that doesnt mean i dont  like being with other people. I do tend to get along with  people, even if i know what an arsehole they are - I'm a bit  unorthodox tho, so sometimes people dont get along with me  too well, lol 
 
  
         
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           Ophecks
             from Nova Scotia (Canada) on 2005-01-03 21:12 [#01444207]
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Oh my dear gracious, I am so not a people people. Even the  people I like being around, I only like being around in  small bursts. Very small bursts. The tiniest little bursts.  I've never been ''lonely'' in my life.
 
  I'm not really all THAT anti-social, in that I can handle  myself in social situations, but I never like to be in them  and I'll always be that ''quiet weirdo''. 
 
  
         
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           bogala
             from NYC (United States) on 2005-01-03 21:22 [#01444210]
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you have a girlfriend?
 
  
         
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           DeadEight
             from vancouver (Canada) on 2005-01-03 23:59 [#01444288]
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i'm not really sure... i really like being around people,  but i don't necessarily always want to talk with them or  anything... sometimes it's enough for me to just hang around  people who care about me without saying anything... although  certainly there are just as many times where i do need to  talk... all i know for sure is that i'm really lonely right  now, cause i've had the house to myself for days...  
 
  
         
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