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i know it's silly, but sometimes some of you come up with real smart comments even on topics like this :) if you'd get to pick between two girls/guys, would you pick the one your mind thinks is the right one, or would you pick the one that warms your heart?...ofcourse this is only hypothetical :) |
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do you mean something like a girl who you really have a thing for but you know that it wouldn't work out (heart) or a girl that you don't like as much but you could see being very compatable (mind)? if so i'd probably go with the heart at first then after that doesn't work out go with the mind. maybe after that happens a couple times i'd go with the mind first. |
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probably the one that warms my heart... in matters of the heart, you listen to the heart... |
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more like, one that you aint got much in common with but is extremly nice and warm person (heart), or one that is interested in everything you're interested in and is a perfect example of how you'd imagine someone you could spend your time with (mind). |
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yeah, but heart thing can fade away after a while... |
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listen to the heart... |
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oh ok. i'd go with heart then. the mind thing seems more like it'd be better for a friendship. |
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Your mind chooses which ever one you choose, it is just a case of whether you choose based on physiological attraction or psychological evalutation, and that would only be decided upon through weighing up the circumstances surrounding the need to make these choices. To conclude, I'd go for the bitches with big titties. |
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keep on pimpin' boi |
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i agree on that totally, but there's heart pain in stake here :) j/k... although im having my doubts about this. "To conclude, I'd go for the bitches with big titties" in this case, it's the heart one. |
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when i make those decisions i always listen to autechre |
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well if i was depending on the relationship to be one of the major sources of my happiness for an indefinite period, i would go with the mind... if i was not depending on the relationship as such, i'd probably go with the heart... these days my heart is really being unfair to me and my current choice (which feels like a choice of the mind these days)... |
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:D |
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I'd shag 'em both >=o) naaaaaaaaaaasty |
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They'd probably both end in tears so don't bother with either and save yourself the sadness before it's too late. |
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just what i am thinking...that is why im leaning towards the mind one atm..hmm pogo, where's the fun in that? :) quernstone, im well aware of that too, so im not rushing into anything, although i probably should... *plays autechre* |
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both must stimulate me in order to make a decision. but if i have to make a decision, i'd have to say that the mind is more important to me. when your heart is filled, its almost like infatuation and seems to never last as long as someone with a beautiful mind. friendships last far longer, and, unless you manage to completely fuck it all up, will probably benefit you more in the end. but that's only my opinion. heart and mind are so close, i don't think one could completely be affected without the other one being stimulated as well... depends on if your talking about physical attraction as opposed to emotional. i don't think either will end up in tears, it is what you make of it. |
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I would probably end up picking the one with the biggest breasts. |
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"heart and mind are so close, i don't think one could completely be affected without the other one being stimulated as well" i agree completly, but there's a difference in magnitude of "heart attraction" between the two :) "depends on if your talking about physical attraction as opposed to emotional" physical attraction doesn't play any role here.. danbrusca, that would be the easiest way, yes :) |
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I'd go with my hearrt, I'd have to. |
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actually, on second thoughts go with the look in her eyes. I have just seen the flyiest Spanish hunny and she has made my day with a single falsh of her eyes. Ohh, the look was devine mana. hmmmmmmmmmmmmm |
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mind is bollox. LOL |
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if she doesn't "warm" your heart there is just no reason why you wouldn't go out with her. that said if you strongly feel attracted to her it can be for sick reasons. so heart is not necessarilyu the good option. you gotta know yourself first. |
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you bunch of pussy whipped mother fuckers. |
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more like, one that you aint got much in common with but is extremly nice and warm person (heart), or one that is interested in everything you're interested in and is a perfect example of how you'd imagine someone you could spend your time with (mind). actually i don't get why you consider one is 'heart', one is 'mind'. because you don't have much in common doesn't mean it's not a 'mind' affair. there is no duality anyway. i don't get your question in fact. now you may think why on earth did i reply 3 times already and there are still several line to read what kind of bullshit can there be in 'em, well i guess now you have some sort of idea and you know that's a few seconds you've wasted reading this and you know you'll be wasting a few more second till you've finished readin the post. :) |
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ahaha |
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i don't know. |
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Neither. I won't settle. My mental and emotional needs must be satisfied. |
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"actually i don't get why you consider one is 'heart', one is 'mind'. because you don't have much in common doesn't mean it's not a 'mind' affair. " it's either i didn't explain it properly, or you understood me wrong :) it's kinda hard to explain..so first the 'mind one' - when you think about it and realize that she's just the kind of person you imagine it would fit you perfectly, because you've got so much in common..when your perceptions are almost exactly the same, when you understand each other without needing to talk for hours, because you just think alike...you know, soul mates. and then there's the 'heart' one - when you have almost no common interests, you have different perceptions on things, when you even dislike some of the things the other one cares for...but whenever you're together you both have fun and good time...and it makes you feel good... the thing is ive had bad experience with 'heart' ones so far, coz it's great as long as it lasts, but when/if it fades away you're in trouble..and i haven't been with one my mind would be telling me is the right one..i hope this makes some sense, otherwise sorry for the trouble of reading this :) |
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they both have that great look in their eyes...the dreamy one, you know.. :) |
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ah, ok. the heart one then, without the shadow of an hesitation. the dreamy one isn't real so don't waste your time on her. you can have sex with the heart one 8) |
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infact the 'heart' one is more dreamy...the other one is more of a fact :) i must've explained bad again...sorry for that :-) |
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and i guess i can mention, that the 'heart' one is more opened towards me...whilst the 'mind' one we're just friends with. im thinking of waiting for the 'mind' one for a while, and see if something can happen. sorry for bringing up this cheesy/silly stuff again :) |
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heart |
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wtf, is this idm message board or what?? |
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when in doubt, always go with your wang. |
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You haven't been seducing them with rohypnol again Tol????? |
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actually i wasn't seducing either of them...but, tell us more about that rohypnol..thanks! |
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yeah, like you know nothing about it already you sly old dog :o) |
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:) and how are 'heart' things treating you these day? appart from hot spanish chicks.. |
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if you go with the mind one, you will cheat on her with the heart one. then you'll think of that post and worship me for the rest of your life... IS THAT WHAT YOU WANT??? IS THAT WHAT YOU WANT??? |
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Fucking terrible. It's been a while I know but those 7 years are taking a hell of a long time to get over. Just sticking to friendships for now. Window shopping does me just fine. :o) |
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i think i'd be sorry in either way...and i don't think i could ever cheat on someone..actually im very sure i wouldn't. perhaps there's a 3 option? anynoe? :) |
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im sorry to hear that...it makes me want to reconsider my options here, and go for the being alone option. |
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Don't be silly, when it is good, it just don't get better!! We're hardwired for this shit, just go with the flow and enjoy the ride, and live for the moment. You are young and getting older every day. Go for it, but promise to spill the juicey details all over the internet :o) |
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if i hook up with either of these two i'll let you all know in this thread...but i think it might take a while, coz i think i want to try my luck with the 'mind' one...unless i lose control with the other one. there's ofcourse a big possibility i won't end up with either of them...ahh, the life... |
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you van also go out with both |
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that's can, not van |
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go with your dong. it'll never steer you wrong. |
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hey come on...this is old europe we're talking about here...not states. |
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