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This topic is not related to the other advice-topic so I figured I'd create another topic. If a (not so close, but still a) friend of yours has a girlfriend, and another (not so close, but still a) friend sleeps with that girl, and you find out about it through the friend who slept with the girl - and he tells you it's a secret (btw: wtf?) - do you tell the boyfriend of the girl that his girl is a slut? or do you keep your mouth shut? If you can give me some comments on the situation and/or some different scenarios of what could happen if I'd choose one of these alternatives - please do. thanks in advance. |
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why do you associate with such sluts |
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no! I don't. I don't even like that girl, she's made the man a wreck. But they've been together for a long time and eventhough their relationship is bad (it's a fact) ... am I e.g. part of the reason why they split up if I tell him? and can that be a good thing, ever? |
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Do you fuck. It's none of your business. |
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Act like you've never heard slutboy and slutgirl's secret. And deny everything, if asked |
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i'd personally stay out of it. |
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yes let the relationship just end naturally |
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so I guess c-g, m-x, and m-b agrees, that I shouldn't say anything + stay out of it. Which is being passive, but I like that. Gives me a lot less responsability. I think this man is still together with this girl cause he wants a girlfriend, not really because he's into this girl (atleast how the situation is today). thanks for your posts. |
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yes, he'll learn from it eventually. might let the lesson be even better. your not responsible for the world who's m-b? |
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ah yeah. if I'd meet this guy more ofthen (he don't live in my town) I'd probably tell him cause I've heard he's not feeling very well, and quite of a wreck... anyway. who's m-b? I mean't e-b... and I'd also have included you there (b-g) if I'd read your post before posting :) |
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:) yours, b-g |
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stay out of it. and why would you say she is a slut anyway. humans like to fuck. |
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haha... well if a girl is cheating on herr partner, that makes her slutty, I think. But I don't know the true definition of the word, I mean in this context, so I am just guessing... |
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maybe you'd help your friend by fucking her too |
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personally i wouldn't tell anyone anything...it's just too silly, no wait, it's stupid. |
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DO IT! Just fucking do it man! I would love you if you we're my friend and you had the guts to tell me that! Fuck that whore! It doesn't help that the relationship is shit anyways! People need to move on with thier lives, and keeping cheating a secret is just bogus! You know deep down inside you have to do it. |
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I would first approach the person that has cheated on the other, and tell them that if they don't tell their significant other, I will I think they have a right to know |
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i would say to HER " i was told by a friend that you are sleeping with your boyfirend's mate. I didn;t want to hear this but now that i know i feel a certain obligation to my mate so i am giving you a chance to come clean. If you tell me to fucking mind my own business, well i can't because somebody made it my business even though i didn;t want it. Just fucking do the right thing and let go of your current relationship with my mate." simple as cake |
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thanks for the recent posts... it's good to get different suggestions. |
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so how does talking to her sound? is she apporachable, does she bite, will she listen? |
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Hm... I don't know how approachable (I mean I don't know how much I'll be able to make her happier - not sure I will at all)... I'm going to meet her today at school (there's no class, we're just going to meet in the building - she's there to do some videoediting I think)... I spoke to her earlier today and she was laughing and stuff, but she also told me she's still down/sad... She ofthen seems quite happy eventhough she's actually down. I have no idea what to expect. |
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