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This is so weird, I had to write about it. Basically, during Christmas I learned that : 1) My best friend is gay 2) My other best friend is a lesbian 3) She had a crush on me (told me I was in her 5% left for men tehehe) 4) She has a crush on her best friend (another girl). 5) I've met her best girl friend about two weeks ago. 6) Her best girl friend and I, well we were going out together as a couple secretly. 7) I almost made love with my lesbian friend (after we both drank too much) because I somehow felt sad for her, since both person she had a crush on (me and her girl friend) are together. It just happened like that, for no reason we started kissing heavily when we both drunk-slept in the same bed. 8) I feel fucking guilty but was that cheating? We didn't go down, you know... so it's just first base (second base?) WTF! I mean it was just a feeling of pity on her, I felt so bad for her I had to confort her, and we were drunk. My feelings for that other girl, the one I am going out with, are as high as I've ever had for a woman. She's everything, and more ;-D Anyway Christmas has NEVER been crazy like that for me. |
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hmm well if she left 5% for men then shes a fuckin liar about being a lesbian, shes bi. and shes either doing it to be cool or what i dunno, thats lame. you felt sad for a lesbian!? shit man, i know many lesbians first hand here in my city and never feel sorry for one! they aint human! muhaha! |
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on second thought heres what you should do: bed'em and behead'em. |
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You americans, you! |
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aww that's really sweet. but yeah.. it's definately cheating. but to the same extint, i wouldn't tell yer girl friend now if yer sure it didn't mean anything and promise yerself you'll never do it again. i wouldn't worry too much about it. just don't do it again. i've gotten myself into big trouble, and definately learned my lesson the hard way. |
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tragedy: youll always learn your lessons the hard way, i guess its the best way, very similar to me, im fuckin scarred for life here! but atleast the things ive learned in love/life ive learned early enough..... like most poor suckers dont know this shit till they are old ass mother fucker.ssssssss |
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i've actually truly been in love once... i don't think i vr want to do it again... i'm not sure if the whole time of bing in love (a long fucking time) was worth th pain i felt afterwards. i'm over it now, but he still has a huge part of me and always will, and the worst part is that i know he doesn't even think about me anymore. fuck, i'm adderollin' my brains out! |
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I feel for her because she's my best friend, on the woman side. I mean isn't that normal? For friendship? I feel so sad for her, I mean think about it, she had a crush on me and another girl, and now both of them are going together, and she's all alone. Fuck I shouldn't had drink all that alcohol. I feel bad for her, even more ;( We both kinda told us the next morning, that we should keep this to ourselves, and that it shouldn't be happening again if I'm in a couple. That's understandable, of course I wouldn't do that again. |
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i have 2 words for you... three some! |
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No. Even if I'm a man, it would just be a downward spiral for the couple. They both kiss well, that's still true ;-D |
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Oh, that old chestnut Love! Well, I found love in the first girl I ever had a crush on. We grew up together but were never a couple, just friends... Then, just about a year ago we met and started hanging out together and ended up in bed together on several occasions but only as friends and only for sleep and a cuddle, until one morning the cuddling got a bit hotter and she suddenly asked me "Are we going to have sex now?" but we didn't 'cause we thought that would be too weird, but then a week later we teamed up again and drank several bottles of red and ended up having sex and it was awesome and we've been a couple since and it's fantastic! I often think that my childhood crush on her was so powerful - it lasted for years - that as a delayed effect we got together eventually. We live together now and have a daughter that's three months old next wednesday... life is weird but love is for real :) |
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Congrats! That's sweet. |
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ive been in love 4 times in my life, and when its all over it gets easier everytime, like you get a shell around your life that helps protect from hurt..... strange how that happen.ssss |
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hmm you love girl A and girl A loves you. girl B is gay so doesnt mind that you had sex with her and wont be a couple. So the only person hurt is the lesbian, because she wants girl A. Does girl A know that girl B is gay and likes her? also some names would help here. |
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Girl A (my girlfriend) doesn't know that my best friend likes her, but she knows that she's gay. But we're going sliding together in the snow both 3 of us today, and I feel, actually I know (because she told me, I mean my best friend) she would tell her. Not for the fact that we almost made love together after being drunk, but that she had a crush on my girlfriend. Actually, I told her I didn't mind if she said that to my (new) girlfriend. She knew her before me, I mean she entered the picture only like two weeks ago in my life. It would hurt her too much if she kept it for herself. In the end, I just don't want to hurt anybody. |
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I really hope things work out, and that you, in the end, keep as many friends as possible (if you love them). |
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