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How is the best way to handel a friend that is into hard drugs ???? confront them or let them slide ? |
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Well , one of my bestest ever mates (he was like my brother) got into drugs ...and now i don't talk to him anymore 'cause he's so fucked in the past year that he's almost totally forgotten me. Not saying you should confront ...just saying what happend when i didn't. |
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if they want to slide they will |
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neither. stand firm in your own beliefs, and don't let his drug use compromise it. if you feel you don't want to be around for his inebriated exploits, then maintain that distance. i say make you views known and stick to them. that's all you can do. |
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don't so much confront,.. them,.. but constant ly jab at them,.. like "that shit's gonna destroy your brain" or "that's can't be good for your health" and stuff like that if you do confront him,.. make it sound like you're truly worried about him and don't want to loose a mate |
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make him jog a mile. |
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respect the person for who he/she is, regardless of drug-use. |
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Get involved in hard drug use yourself, it is the only path to true empathy. What type of drugs are you referring to when you say hard drugs? |
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aspirin and penicillin |
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confront |
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you should emphatically express your concern and facilitate their access to rehabilitation, although you know very well that the choice must be theirs. intervene as an expression of your concern as a friend, and maintain that no matter what the outcome. |
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let them slide |
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you should prolly let 'em know how you feel, but 'confront' is a bit of a strong word. you should be able to get across how you're feeling without being confrontational about it. there's a good chance they'll slip away anyhow. freinds come into your life and they fade out as well. sometimes they come back, sometimes they don't. it's kinda the nature of things. the best way to deal with it is be open and ride it out. |
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don't be to hard on them. there's a high probability you'll be doing the same drugs in a couple of years. :) the shit you say can come back to bite you in the ass. |
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get rid of the alchohol problem and show your friend how nice clean living can be :P |
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give them more and more and more |
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maybe your friends life is shit, and hard drugs is the only thing that helps... btw... what do you consider hard drugs? |
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"get rid of the alchohol problem and show your friend how nice clean living can be :P " Yeah I drank a little tonight (A pitcher of keiths and a bottle of beer ) HE is a SHE. This is the second time in a row that I have been seeing someone that is into coke (which I concider a hard drug). The thing about it is that around here (in my one starbucks town) its basiclly household chems mixed with icing sugar and is sold as coke. And its oh so trendy if your into the local music scene. Its so fucking stupid ... I think I'll just give up on her : \ ANYWAY, I feel like listening too BOC Maxima ... Thanks everyone ! |
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