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you know those conversations, where you're talking to a girl you recently broke up with, and it's fucking awkward and uneasy. god, it's the worst emotion in the world. It's nothing, just nerves. ugh...... |
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It's the one thing thats worse than the akward silence that sometimes happens when trying to pick up a girl. |
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OMG! Sorry... |
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it's anticipating pain, that's the only feeling in it. waiting to be hurt by something, knowing, and it usually comes. fuck that, now the conversation is done and i want some tequilla and a gun. worst emotional wasteland ever |
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No gun, but tequila can't hurt unless you start driving. I walked in on my ex fucking one of my friends who was also her best friends boyfriend. I was still dating her when this happened, and had been for a year. I've hated her ever since, and had many such conversations, and to this day it still hurts to speak to her. The best thing to do is to not talk to her. Just have a few drinks, smoke some weed and listen to some tunes, or make some, and soon enough everything will be fine.... |
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i don't get out my initial emotions. I needed to tell her a long time ago that she heart me/ripped heart out. but I never did, and talking to her, that is all I want to say, but I can't just say that now, it's just stupid chit chat, feeling each other out. how moronic, it's more numbing than anything. |
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I know that feeling, i should've told my ex the same thing 6mo into the relationship, but I never did. Try not to let it bother you too much, I've been single two years, and I blame that mostly to how much I let it get to me. |
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hey! same fucking boat. I need to get it out, soon. just get it all out. I hate what you did to me, blah blah blah, get it out, and get on with life. It's only been a few months, but yeah, need to let it flow, time to move on. |
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No way man, when shit like that goes down you have pull a homer and zone out. ALSO you have to make it look like your having the time of your fucking life. Think "I AM THE COOLEST GUY ON THE PLANET AND THIS IS THE PLACE TO BE" |
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Do it, you'll thank yourself, just no killing. I found myself wanting to harm my ex. I never did, but it was tempting. Tell her what she did, she may not care, but at least she'll know. You'll feel better. I am now going to bed, good luck with the ex, they can be the cause of much discomfort if allowed to be. |
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yeah, she prolly won't care at all, but does that matter? hell no, she needs to know and I need to get it out. this is like a male support group, and oxygenfad, what makes you think my place isn't the PLACE TO BE? ;) |
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getting out is the right move bro..........i've sat on similar emotions with my ex for the last two years and the only one its affected is me...........cant talk to her, feel like shit when i see her, leave when she rocks up.........deal with it now and lets yourself move on. |
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ah the same style of sage advice. I resolve to do it, air the laundry and then clean it and get on with living in my skin. |
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It's weird, I've never had this. I only speak to one of my exes though. I guess if I met ayn of the others again we'd be on good terms but it's just. not. going. to. happen. the one I speak to is an excellent person and we both wish each other well in future endeavours. I took her to breakfest (breakbeat day rave) and we had heaps of fun and she sends me humorous emails. People should be a lot simpler than they are. sometimes people understand this and things work but sometimes people don't understand this and things don't work. Of course, it's not always this way. |
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I had this conversation with an ex friend (a girl who was my best friend, but not my girlfriend, if it makes sense) but anyway it was terrible too |
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:((((((((( |
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np phoenecia - grrl trrbl heh |
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yeah, you have to keep it simple. you get hurt, you have to say so, especially at the end of a realtionship. Not to hold cards over someone, or anything, just so they know they hurt you, and that future conversations will always be tainted with that fact. |
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yeah, get your feelings out man... I have a habit of holding things in, and it doesn't do me any good... just the opposite actually... |
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