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When you break up with someone ( because you're not exactly happy and things judt dont seem to be changing in the relationship) but then really really really arnt happy at all once you've broken up with them.BUT they are really quite happy ,and you doubt they'll take you back...and going back would mean being in the relationship your not happy in again... cant be with them , or without them .And dont want to get over them- seems they've allready got over you. what do you do??? thanks -A- |
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we dont know.. only women put themselves in this situation. youll have to wait till one comes online. |
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accept that its over. You are missing the relationship, more then the person. Its no good... even if you are sad/lonely etc... its better to be this way, alone, then be in a relationship and it not be a good one. You just gotta stay strong. Seriously. things will work out. |
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:|.....Um .. thanks... ,Couldn't you even just put urself into the situation hypotheticaly and then give advise??? |
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...brake up in a decent way...cut contact until pain has disappeared...meet again and get really pissed cause she already has a new boyfriend...argue again...cut contact again were it actually feels like breaking up again....wait till pain disappears again... that's how it usually is for me |
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no see im not missing the relationship because thats why we broke up...i miss the person.And being with them *that way* not just as friends... |
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i usually throw me off a cliff. |
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lol he's a he im a she... |
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What do you do? Go out and get pissed. What was the question? |
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atm that seems the best option acctually... |
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but if you werent happy, then you arent missing the person. The person makes a relationship. What I meant was, you miss the idea of having a relationship, in some way. |
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i agree with zeus totally. give it some time, things will become clearer with time. if the other person would've been miserable you probably would be fine. but, them being happy is making you question your worth. |
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No i really do miss the person,and still really love them.What i don't miss is how the relationship was going - it wasnt him at all he's the best person ever..it was mainly me - i think i'm broken. |
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what?! well...then stop being a prick and start cooking for that poor fella :P naaah...change the he's in my text to she's...it should work both ways :P |
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well, if you want us to help, you need to be more specific on why it failed. What did he and you do wrong? Otherwise, we dont have enough info |
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Because of the distance between us and just various other little things...the fact that because we never saw each other we'd speak on the phone ( which is also a problem because speaking on the phone to someone isnt exactly the same or ''healthy'' ) so when we saw each other like once a week we'd have nothing to say and be all over each other ,the way i say it i guess it doesnt seem so bad but its difficult to expalin |
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women are evil |
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there are LOTS OF SINGLE boys, errrr i mean men here anon that would love to make your accointence have you ever heard the radiohead song "true love waits" ? Its more than just a silly rock song. |
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weatheredstoner-why? recylce-umm.... |
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Gathered from what you have said, i have tried to summarize it. I doubt that this guy has gotten over you, he could just be putting up a jolly front so that he doesn't upset you and himself. You both sounded like you were really close and i'm sure (by the sounds of it) that he still wants to keep in contact with you. You've probably still got a great and very strong place in his heart. I doubt that throwing yourself off of a cliff or doing anything else as final as that is not the way to solve things. it will be a steady process that will take time and i'm sure that this guy will stand by you and help you out through this difficult time that both of you are having. |
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your only 16 sweety you'll be ok for now |
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just never talk to them again |
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I love that song so much, it rules. So simple and beautiful at the same time. Thom Yorke is a brilliant music god. As opposed to an average music god *hits self* |
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Maybe it's more up-setting for her to see someone she loved acting like they don't really give a damn anymore. |
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"puppy love" is like that |
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exactly. you don't really want this person. you just want them to want you. |
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If you study women you will realize that they are emotionally unstable and they cannot form logical decisions. did I mention that this is my opinion? An opinion formed from real life experiences, so dont blame me, blame the stupid women out there who give the good women a bad name. |
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No really i do want him. and i want him to want me im just confused because when i've got him it doesn't work.so i don't know what to do. |
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just go out and have random sex w/strangers and youll forget all about him |
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if you were honest with him durring the break. and things weren't working out. then give it time, and these feelings that you are having now (which are probably 95% selfish) will fade. then you will realize that you chose the right thing when you ended the relationship. of course, i'm an emotional cripple, so you may want to get a second opinion. |
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If it was only that easy .Not only would i not want to have sex with stangers , i doubt they'll wan tot have sex with me AND i doubt it will help- ut thansk fo rth eadvice :D |
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I understand. |
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looks for anon's pic...... if i remeber correctly your attractive, but im almost 29 and married, ya see |
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:) thanks . |
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i didnt exaclty mean i'm that ugly (im not am i ? ) i just dont have that ''sex appeal'' about me , im not sexy. |
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anon~~~be careful ! guys will say anything to get the goods you had a cute little short haircut, blonde hair, kinda like your avatar....correct ? |
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NO ! thats ok, my wife is beautiful in my eyes chics that weigh less than 100 lbs should just float away to oblivion |
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Thanks i'm not stoodip tho... the hair in my av is red :S but blonde if you like .... see cute in a silly way i can kinda accept ... |
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hey, nothing wrong with weighing 100 lbs. |
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not if your under the age of 15, i guess |
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I think it would help my emotional tubulance greatly to punch thru several windows - prefferably not double glazed as im only small. |
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or if you're 5 feet tall and 18? |
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*feels lost in the conversation as it conatins numbers and measurments* |
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what are yours ? kidding...... post a pic ? *youve got mail |
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*worried* |
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only break stuff that you're sure doesn't matter. or get friends to punch you in the face. that helps a lot too. |
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or start cutting yourself |
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that wouldn't help really would it , i just want o break things , or more everything.if i was a robot or a pirate i could do that and get away with it. |
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get out your anger: ride a bike write some poetry paint go to a concert pretend your a robot pretend your a pirate |
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arrrr! |
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