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yeah so I'm single for about a week and I find out that this very beautiful girl really likes me... she's like 18, i'm 23... this bad? ¿ |
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no, perfectly normal - go for it :) |
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i'll justify this; a) a 16 year old going out with a 23 year old IMO is bad, in general (some exceptions, i guess). it's not the age difference - its whether the younger person is mature enough to know what they're getting into. b) the fact you're worrying if this is morally right or not means you're likely a decent person |
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oh, yeah, and most 18 year old males are bloody idiots anyway, no wonder they go for older guys |
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^ no shit. |
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No, it's not bad at all!! ;-) |
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go for it, 18 year olds and 23 year olds make good couples |
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im 22 and im seeing a 13 year old ... ok that just wasnt funny. My bad |
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There is nothing remotely wrong about 23/18. |
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no its not bad tis good, tis good yah |
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Some people have like 10 years between them! I wouldn't worry ;) |
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he's just an attention whorre he knows it is not wrrong. oh look at me afterr the hot 18 yearr old, wow she's so hot, wow i'm so hot that i get the hot 18 yearr old. yes i'm bitterr. so fuck off. |
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It more a question of: Yeah, she's really good looking, but do we have anything at all in common? I'm not a person who would have "one-nighters" so that's the kind of questions I would ask myself before going ahead. |
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anus want sum luvin? |
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that sounded terrible |
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no, it's not all based on maturity... I'm sure there are pretty mature 10 year olds, that doesn't mean they should be going out with 22 year old guys... but 18 is fine my opinion! |
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I recently met a 12 year old girl online. I'm meeting her on the weekend and we're flying to Germany. |
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well, yeah, i made that point, read what i said :p jonesy: rad, give me her number |
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How could 18 possibly be too young? That is the internationally agreed upon age at which girls may be exploited erotically and or commercially. |
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how about 20/17? |
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As an authority on age-gap relationships (i'm 26, the trouble-and-strife turned 20 on the 19th), I say, if they bleed, they're fair game ! Don't worry about fucking them up psychologically or emotionally, they have their Teen Mags, their cell-phones, and their Lifestyles to do that for you ! |
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damn... |
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how long have you been married? |
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two and one half years. here's a tip for you - NEVER get married. |
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she was 17 when you got married? |
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and I thought you loved her dearly |
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Love and Marriage are two ENTIRELY separate things, I assure you ! Yeah, she was sweet seventeen when we got wed. |
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So what ? You don't have to marry to prove your love. |
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true true... she is in college now? |
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yeah, just, the way I read it at first was like, he was unhappy. but thats not what he meant its early... |
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I AM unhappy !!! I've been waiting to reside in America for two and a half years - that's two and a half years of horrible stress !! Our marriage has nearly ended on a weekly basis because of the huge amounts of stress caused! |
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yes but i thought you meant, you where unhappy, because of her... not the situation... but you can do it man, youve lasted this long, and shes coming to britian soon right? |
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ok god dammit curiousity is killing me... how do i view the untitled thread?!?!?! |
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To be frank, she is a nightmare. She calls me names and stuff - she was meant to be here in ONE WEEK, but now she isn't -- because she had to fix her car (obviously more important than I), so now god knows when she'll be coming, or when I'll get my god-damned visa. If I didn't have a Cosmic sense of Humour, I don't know how I'd have survived for this long. It really can make a person most depressed -- and the frustration is the worst of it, since I am completely powerless. |
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You have to know the URL - I don't know the URL to that particular invisible thread. |
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:-\ im sorry to hear that man... |
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is she american? how did you guys meet? |
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Yes, she's from Tucson Arizona - we met when I was there on a book-signing tour, as I am in fact a world-famous author -- oh rats ! I've given away my secret ! :( But she really is from Tucson, AZ |
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:-P :) |
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*cough* View Source *cough* ;) That's all I'm saying on the matter. |
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update: heh, your absolutely right... i did't really think there was THAT much of a difference. but now as I see it too though, I mean, I just got off this terible relationship. I know to take it slow.. and yes, common interests and the like are far more important. BUT GOD SHES SO HOT! lol |
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mi gf is 24, almost 1 year younger than me, she`s a graphic designer and is leaving for barcelona for 6 months on august 24th. |
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no sir, you go for it! at least she's legal man. my girlfriend and I are the same age. She's beautiful, we're crazy about each other, she has a 3-year old daughter, and we are very romantic. she makes me very happy. do what feels right and good man! that's the only way to true happiness. :-D |
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jesus christ |
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yes, my son? |
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I am 27 she is 25 in the past most of my gf where like now 2 years older than me... but one time I was in love with a 14 year old girl when I was 22 nothing happened though |
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sorry I meant they were 2 years younger than me |
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hey deltoid - we live about 20 mins MAX from each other :D right now im 15 with a wonderful 19 year old gf - and it rocks - we just got back from hanging out :) |
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i am 20 she is 24 i haven't contacted her in a week because she is in ukl and she sends me messages like "I just had the bigest line of coke!" and stuff like "I've been smashed for 4 days!" (shge's working as a bar girl) I say "umm I thought you were saving your money" and she goes "I don't buy drinks they get bought 4 me, I'm just popular I guess" I'm not sure if I'm sposed to be pissed off at this or not, but I can't be fucked she can bloody well come and see me when she gets back. |
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I just once was with a girl older than me and she was only 1 year older (I was 18) |
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