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Its my flñatmate of several years. I can handle it but its a pain in the arse. I hate people-chess! Now i feel uncomfortable in my own home "She´s a bit forward" "Shes here all the time" "i find her false" "You act like you´ve going out for a year" (its been 2 months) Ok she is over a lot and i asked him did he mind last night and thats what i got. Scuse me for being in love! |
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flñatmate? |
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flatmate ---------- man, be wary of what your friends see though. If he has been your friend for many years, he might have some points that you have missed. of course, he also might be a bit jelous, and it might take him more time to come around. |
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flatmate, house-sharer, key-fumbler |
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Just try and keep her out of communal areas if it's pissing him off. Obviously she has to shower and stuff, but if (for example) she's in the bathroom for hours or watching tv and your flatmate wants to watch somethign else, but is uncomfortable with asking her to change channels as a "guest", you can see why he might be a bit riled. Try to work out if he's annoyed about her being over or whether he genuinely doesn't get on to well with her. It's always a moot point in shared houses, in my current lot, one doesn't really like people bringing girls around, just because he genuinely doesn't get on with girls and also he sees it as another person using the facilities. Whilst it's a bit arsey of him, it's a fair point and provided you stay in your room most of the time it's not a problem. |
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ok now I know what a keyfumbler is... and I do think BlatantEcho had a nice point there. |
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"Obviously she has to shower" - CeriJC.... do you know her!!!! Anyway...add to all this my friend is actually a bit autistic too. I shoulda seen it coming really. I think its more her personality than anything........ she´s quite up front, but has been real quiet with him after picking up the vibes.. |
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i meant "do you know her"??? i thought it was funny |
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I'm guessing by that comment she either: a) Is a stinking filthy hippie or, b) Is an obsessively clean freak who spends hours preening in the bathroom? :) |
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hmm i could understand that guy's situation actually. about 3 years ago my brother had a gf who would come over to my house on a near daily basis and they would make love & such, but all the kissing sounds drove me mad! good thing i didn't do anything crazy. i've never had a gf either, so that may have something to do with it. perhaps. |
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Oh, actually I just got what you said :D |
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We aren´t "coupley" in front of him at all.... he says his territory is being encroached upon. a bit OTT i think! .......I suppose.. its his space too and either i move out soon, which is not financially viable at the moment, or we don´t see each other as much as we have. (She lives an hour commute away with her folks) |
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Try to find out when he is planning on being out (I know he might not be if he's a bit antisocial) and get her to come over then. In my house we try to arrange it that if someone is away our mates come over then. Means they get a bed rather than the floor too :) |
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Its all really sad really, the Autism my freind has. He plays computer games and watches TV literally all day... from Mon to Fri and works the weekend (thank christ!). He is guaranteed 100percent IN during the week. I´ll just have to cut down on the quality time at home basically. |
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well, don't trust HIS sense of judgement then! |
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Any chance you get get over to your gf's place instead? |
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sound's like it's about time you all had a 3 way. after an event such as this, your collective relationships will seem so awkward, nobody will feel comfortable enough to talk, let alone complain about anyone else's presence. make sure to post some pics. |
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sounds like he wants a spit roast |
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sorry i didnt read your post. sorry sorry. |
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when my kittens used to fight we coverd them in tuna and left them in the closet. they licked eachother clean then were the best of friends try that =oD Or maybe bring something up in conversation that they both like, then leave the room and let them talk. I think the tuna is a better plan though |
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autism is a bit of a strong description.. has he been clinically diagnosed autisitc?? or is he just antisocial... i can see this from both sides as i lost a friend in a similar way. he hated my girlfriend and i hated his girlfriend. trouble was his girlfriend lived in the same house as me and him it all ended in tears and we are no longer friends |
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Anti-social means behaving in "criminal" ways, ie. harming other people or things and ignoring your conscience. Autism is a childhood communication disorder, I doubt your friend has it. Your friend MAY have Avoidant Personality Disorder, or he may just be a very withdrawn person with no actual clinical disorder. |
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erh i dont get this shit - why do we have to be bothered with something like this? get over the teenage crises boys :) |
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dont be a cunt. oh..er..nevermind |
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Ermmm I would say something witty to that but that answer defies belief. |
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