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i just broke up with my other half. |
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man I am sorry... if you need to talk you can email me... or just post it here... talking about it sometimes helps... |
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dude, sorry to hear that :((( I'd buy you a beer if I lived in canada any particular reason you broke up with her? if it's OK for me to ask, that is... |
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i just feel like shit is all. i'm such a bastard to that poor girl. i just don't feel like i can give her what she wants/needs anymore. i told her i wanted her to stay my friend (and i really do) because i still care about her and i still really enjoy my time with her. it's great. i really don't have any other friends, even. i'd hate to lose the only one i've really got, you know? *sigh* i think i just need to go to bed and sort all this out tomorrow with a fresh mindset. or something. i don't even know anymore. i'm just talkin' outta my ass. |
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yeah man, get to bed people always see things more nagative in the evening/night than during the day for psychological help or someone to spill your guts out at see email address in profile |
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yeah have some rest. we will be here later too... we are here always. hope you can feel better after the sleep I understand you... i think |
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*negative |
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yes. time for bed. i also have to be up in 6 or 7 hours to go to work. i'm really not looking forward to it. ugh. that bitch amy...i've worked with her ALL WEEK LONG. i'd say it's MY turn for a vacation. i mean...our manager even hired her daughter. she can work. but did she bother to tell us? noooooooo. we actually have to work with her to find out. "oh. hello. you have a shirt with our store's name on it around your neck. i see." she never tells us anything. that jerk. thankfully i have my job at black's photo all lined up. i should be outta the video store in no time. tuesday tuesday tuesday. and i think i'll lay offa the cheap whiskey for a bit. bleah. that stuff was awful. at least it was free. having "deals" with the guy at the liquor store kinda kicks ass. we give him free movies...he gives us forty dollars in samplers when we go in for something. works for me. works for him, i guess. right. now i'm just talking. i'll go now. good night, all. thanks for caring. |
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Sorry to hear d00d! I know what you are going thru and its def no picnic. Spoil yourself, that sure helped me. Listen to happy music, silence makes you start thinking bout the past. ...and talk a lot! Always helps! |
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nooooo woman noo cry-yyy... jah bless! |
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ambsence: sorry to say this, but you're an utter and complete fool!!! unless the following criteria have been met: a) your girl looks moreso a rat than a human b) she's horribly bitchy and making your life a living hell c) she's been backstabbing you by sleeping around or else i honestly don't think there is a reason for you breaking up with her. what you need to sort out is a self-esteem issue - unless of course, she is making unreasonable demands of you which you sincerely feel you cannot meet. but otherwise, you ought to seriously think about why it is that you feel you are not meeting her expectations - is it perhaps only because you have an inaccurate negative self-image - one she wouldn't agree with whatsoeaver? i've gone through similar periods of self-doubt in past relationships (but i always ended up being the one dumped), so i'm just trying to help. |
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no offense taken. i really actually agree with you. there is no legitimate reason it seems (though she can be incredibly demanding of me constantly reminding her what she means to me. it's kinda weird sometimes. i dunno). i'm just going on a feeling. it doesn't have to make sense (and it really doesn't. i still can't believe this even happened. crazy). the thing is, is that i'm worried all i'm going to do is end up hurting her, and i don't want to do that. i want to keep her around, and if i'm just "another bastard" i don't think she'd even want to be my friend. i don't think i could handle that. she's okay with this, actually. or at least she says so. we'll see. i'm still going to coldplay with her next wednesday, so i s'pose that'll let me know how things REALLY are going to be. she said she didn't want any time away, which i thought was good, because i still want to be around her. i dunno. i'm just really kindof all over the place. no idea what's goin' on. |
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i think its okay to break up with someone if you find out you simply dont like them! |
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well, you NEED time away... there is a definite difference between a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship, and a friend friend relationship... take some time man, figure things out... if you already have plans for wednesday, fine, but I say take some time away from her before you try to be friends... I tried one time in the past to rush from a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship to just being friends, and now we aren't even friends... I haven't seen the girl in years... my point is, that if you're not ready to be friends, it will just put a lot of tension on the situation... but, maybe I'm wrong... either way, make sure you're ready... and it really is too bad... I hope you feel better soon... |
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thanks, guy. yeah. wednesday is going to be a big day. just in that we'll see how she's handling things, and how we are around eachother. after moving to calgary, she's pretty much become my best friend. i'd really hate to gum that up, so yeah...maybe some time apart would be good. we'll see. |
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i would agree...but that's not the situation here. |
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You dont need another half. Become a whole yourself. Thats what I did. No surgery needed. |
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girly movies and ice cream. :) |
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ANY reason is FINE to break up with someone. jeeze.. what are you guys thinking. |
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where the hell are you, anyways? and your phone is disconnected now, apparently, dickface... |
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the best advice on the whole situation i can give is this: 1) get a bit of a breather from it all - time away from the girl will serve you well; 2) sort out your feelings towards her, figure out what exactly is it which makes you think you are not a worthwile person for her - is this only a belief you have of yourself, or does it have any legitimate support in cold hard facts; how sincere are you being with her and with yourself on this situation? perhaps you're acting on impulse - maybe it's just a temporary phase you are going through and breaking up is something you migh later regret once you have a more clearer outlook on it all? 3) once you've carefully and thoughtfuly answered yourself these questions, that's when you ought to be able to make a clear and rational decision about what your course of action should be. best of luck, mate! |
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though she can be incredibly demanding of me constantly reminding her what she means to me. it's kinda weird sometimes. i dunno). and i've found that after all the arguing about meaningless shit (in my opinion and kindof half-admittedly in hers) with her that i just kindof lost interest in her. and it never really came back. that's the best i have. i dunno. |
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but yes. heh. thank you. =] |
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on a lighter note: i just got back from my honeymoon in Kauai i was married last saturday. it'll work out eventually buddy. it did for me. |
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hey hey! congratulations! and yeah. i dunno. i think it's already starting to (only two days have gone by, though. hah. we'll see...). well...aside from the fact that i now really hate my job because everyone bothers me. but i'm betting that's just purely coincidental. |
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oh my GOD!!! Okay so my brother formated the computor to get the new windows, BUT he didn't have the right code... so he was waiting for my other brother to phone but he went golfing and I just finaly NOW can use my comp. I should of given you my other number... I cancelled my cell phone like a month and a half ago.... SORRY!!!! He promised me it'd be working by 9... argh. And now my msn is fuckin' up!! |
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you lost intrest in her? that's sad. one of my friends said the exact same about his ex when he broke up with her. people are always intresting. did you think you knew everything about her er sumthing? well, you can never know everything about a person. there is always something to learn. my other half taught me that. |
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well. no. see. i think you mis-understood a bit. it's along those lines...but...well. see. i saw a side of her for about a solid month that i really don't like that much. and i just never really got over that once it went away. i dunno. i realize i'm a bastard. and see...this is what i'm saying...she's a fantastic girl. absolutely wonderful. and this is why i don't feel like i can give her what she wants/needs anymore...because i feel differently now. so it'd be unfair to keep going on like this when things are different now. she says she'll still be my friend (because we ARE good friends...). i dunno. i think i'm just rambling. it makes sense up here. *taps skull* and i just feel like i'm doing the right thing. like it'll be in the best interest of both parties in the long run. i dunno. okay. right. i'll go now. |
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okay. that was SO choppy. but i think you get the idea. i hope, anyways. =/ |
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Stop justifying it!!! |
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well. but it's for both of us, miss. |
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super |
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shh. you're making things more difficult than they need to be. |
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difficult? pfft my ass. |
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