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i'm 18 years old. in your eyes, what is the youngest i can go when looking for a lover? i was chatting with my one chick friend at school and she was saying that sixteen was pushing it. how young do you think i can go? (please be reasonable) |
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fuck man, make yourr own choice. |
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15 |
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"fuck man", maybe the wrrong worrds. get lost man, make yourr own choice. |
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awesome |
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This is ridiculous. |
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may I ask why |
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You fall for who you fall for. You shouldn't be thinking "oh im gonna go fall for a 16 year old girl". I mean, if you're going to set limits and standards, then it's obviously for something other then a lover. |
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If you want to get laid, I suggest you keep it legal. |
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You can fall in love with anyone, any age. If the feeling is love, and not just wanting a girlfriend, then age won't matter. I mean, a 12 year old is not mature enough to deal with a serious relation. You're not on 'the same level' if you understand what I'm trying to say here. |
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i'm 18, do you honsetly think i'm gonna fall in love? |
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Im 18 and i've been in-love. I've been in a 3 year relationship and a 1 year one. Love has no age. The maturity of the relationship does. |
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as far as the legality of this proposed matter of yours, within united states, as most things, it varies from state to state. thus, you may want to look into this matter more throughly before commencing with your pursuits. you never know, you very well could be committing a felony. and just so you know, beastiality is against the law in california, but not entirely so in wyoming. for further info, refer to: |
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a lot of boys "fall in love" with the first girl they have sex with, and end up staying with them 4 good. and vice versa. depends on the person. look out, you may be swept off your feet when you are least expecting it. |
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Oh come on, you can fall in love at any age *example*. |
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eeek there were rather a lot of countries on 12! isle of man didn't feature |
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Well a lot of girls start puberty at 12-14. I mean it's only natural for sex to come at that age. The situation depends on if it's safe and "right". |
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This "maximum age difference" all depends on how mature you are and how mature she is. I know someone who is 17 years old and has a 13-year-old girlfriend and they haven't had problems for over a year now. He could just as well have an older girlfriend but in a very problematic relationship. One might be looking for commitment and the other one just for holding hands every now and then. Think about it. |
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yes, it does all come down to maturity... but still, I'm 20, and I wouldn't feel right about going out with someone 14 years old or so... maybe it's just me... |
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Depends on whether or not you want to go to jail! |
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If both's parents agree there's no reason to go to jail. |
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sure, a 12 year old may be physically ready for sex, but i doubt the majority of 12 year olds are mentally or emotionally ready for a sexual relationship. |
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That's what I said. "Love has no age. The maturity of the relationship does." |
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Nevertheless its against the law...it doensn't matter what the parents say... Hehehhehe |
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Have many of you guys are younger than your girlfriends and by how much? |
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that's an opinion probably based on people you know, live with, within your country and countries in the western world (which are all more or less alike). |
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It all depends on the individuals. It'd be dumb to generalize this. |
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yes i guess it is |
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one further thought on this: i speculate that in countries where the age of consent is 12, that whether or not the youth is emotionally/mentally ready for sex is not of concern. |
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I am, by about a year. She turns 23 soon and I just got 22. |
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12 seems pretty young |
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you can't put a numerical limit on it. you have to judge the individual. though, if you judged a 14 year old was mature enough for you, i'd be a little worried. point being you might find a 17 year old girl who's much more mature than a 28 year old you know. |
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not numerical limit but surely there must be some kind of range like i dunoo let's say 15 |
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stupid tags. no more than 24ish and no less than 15ish for a 18yr old male |
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older girls rule! it's true what they say - with age comes maturity - and i don't mean that in as far as being more sexually experienced is concerned. i'd much rather a girl be older than i for the simple fact that she would likely be more emotionally secure and less concerned with the sort of bullshit many younger girls seem to concern themselves with - "what can you show/give me - in bed and out? will you make a good breadwinner?", etc. (mind you, i'm speaking from personal experience - having had a good several disappointing relationships of the sort with girls my age and younger, and one incomparably great relationship with a woman a deal older than i). this comes from an interview with (of all people) madonna, in the may 2003 issue of Q magazine: so how do you define love now? "the idea of giving just for the sake of giving, and not getting anything in return, that's what i've come to understand unconditional love as. It's not just a crush. it's not something you can have fun with, it's not simply feeling sexually attracted to someone or digging what they do talent-wise. It's much more than that". |
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Everyone shut up. I'm 22 and my most serious love happened when I was 16... she was 19... i couldn't reach her... since then I struggle to forget about it. |
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ditto and I totally agree with everything you said. How much older by the way? Mine is 5 years older (almost 28). She'd actually been hidding it for fear that I would have a problem with it which is kinda sweet somehow. It's good though because due to different educational systems her life is at the same 'stage' as mine and plus she doesn't look a day older than 18! |
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heh. well, i was 20, she was in her late 30s (in a rather unhappy marriage to a 67 year old man). not very "politically correct", i know, and obviously unfeasible in as far as any long-term relationship is concerned, but it if anything, it gave me a clear idea of what it is i ought to look for in a woman in as far as personality and attitude. |
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What did you look for? What have you found manticore? |
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an 18 year old guy going out with a 16 eyar old girl is not bad. |
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There's a guy on this board whose gf is 17 and he himself is 15 and he's a beginning musicmaker and he's obviously gonna make a lot of money so I'm fucking full of black envy envy envy |
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?? |
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hehe i'm 20 and my gf is 24 excpet i look older than i am and she looks younger than she is |
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so you both look 22 ? |
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sort of. |
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Oh my God.. 34+ women are the best. I don't know what it is.. The definition in their faces, the curvature, the eyes, their haircuts--!! They have to have kids too.. |
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ew |
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the last girlfriend i had was about a year and a half older than me i was 14 and she had just turned 16 when we stopped seeing each other. goodtimes. hmmm.. note to self: find girlfriend |
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Not sure if that's the same here. Besides, one of the parents should have to file a complaint or otherwise prove you've had sex with a minor. |
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He he, yes, but the age of pubescence is decreasing all the time- back in the victorian era it was in the late teens, now as young as 7 or 8 is not unheard of, particularly in girls. Would it be okay at 8?! I think it's a bit of a myth that girls are far more mature than guys, it's such a generalisation. Most girls my age that I know are incredibly childish. |
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