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I know what that's like. It happened a lot a few years ago. Kind of reminds me of the phrase "when it rains it pours". Maybe this is a turning point in your life? Sometimes in life there is a problem that is placed in front of you and it's kind of like a test, either you pass or fail. Pass and move on to the next challenge or fail and be faced with the same problem again. In this circumstance try to see all of the possible solutions to this. (ie. meeting friends of friends and so on) Try different outcomes it really couldn't hurt anything. Try to look at the shyness like a disorder or something like that. I used to be shy too and it would hold me back from doing alot of stuff but sometimes you gotta just throw yourself out there no matter how tense the situation (kind of like jumping out of a plane). After awhile it will eventually go away. It happened for me but it didn't happen over night, but the important thing is that it did! |
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i just don't have any friends to go out with, get drunk and hook up with girls. arggghhh :( |
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go out yourself!!!! Beat down shyness to the bottom. I hate shyness to, because I know there are lots of guys out there who are really shy, but "deserve" girls "more" than so many other crapheads out there. trust me. Get rid of your shyness somehow. It might take weeks - but it's worth it !!!! |
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Yup it's the shy guys who know how to treat girls well. It will take time but hey just dress nice and go to a nice popular bar or something. Order yourself a drink and sometimes conversation will find you. |
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thank u all for your advice. it helps |
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anytime! Hey and keep us posted with how things go! We'll get you outta this! |
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these girls have only been with "players". jerks who only treat them bad. the only thing they wanted was to fuck them. So i'm really nice guy, i help them. I'm being a great friend. Does that mean nothing to them? :/ |
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yeah! You're a cool guy who open yourself to us! Virginpusher > you give great advices =) I wish for everybody here to find love soon... hey it's spring!!! just get rid of that shyness - but you'll also have to know that you're better than most guys out there - if you know that, you have no reason to be shy. =) |
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just read all the posts I and all the others with good advices has posted. You'll know what to do. |
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i'm gonna ramble now, inspired thought flow comming up: i will get corny now but, Well, sometimes you have to look up on the stars, think how wast things are and realise youre not alone in the world. youre a prisoner and an actor on earth like all of us! You are not alone. I think shyness comes from thinking to much about what could go wrong, and its wery depressing most of the time ( i was shy too once) but you simply have to learn to see trough the shit of the universe. be sincere and never fear anything. take it like the adventure it is. show people how intelligent and great you are, and if they dont like you, fuck'em, move on. |
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They might not ever learn that they are choosing the wrong type of people. That's just a personality thing i guess. My bestfriend is the same way (he BF cheated on her 6 times). I can't speak for these girls and i am sure it might mean something to them. Hey but think of it like this: If you happen to meet one of their friends or maybe by chance a girl asks one of your lady friends an opinion on you they will say "he's a sweetheart" and stuff like that because you've devoted your time to them. Being nice will payoff! |
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i deserve better than this. I know there are girls, or just friends in general that can appriciate me. i hope good things will come. But i'm done with being nice to these girls. |
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And as a wery specefied thing, if you come to the roskilde festival this year, i promise you to introduce you to all my lovely single female friends! START SAVING NOW! |
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I myself am looking too. I have only gone out with sluttier girls in the past because it was easy. I have realized that, it probably isn't for me. I am trying to find a clean/wholesome type girl. One that likes me for me and not just wanting to fuck all the time. It seemed so meaningless how these girls i met were so easy to "mess around with". There was no meaning behind the actions which bothered me. The nexttime will mean something. It's a goal i have set! |
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*starts saving* |
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yeah they'll definetly say i'm a great guy. that's all good, but they can't hook me up with anyone because the very few girls they do know are a bit like them, shallow. |
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dirty priest: man i'd love to come *starts saving too* :) |
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Yarr!! id love for you to come! (lots of electronica there too) Take a look at these 2 for example: http://www.odsherreds-gym.dk/billeder/Skaersommer/b2811021/ Mvc-023f.jpg http://www.odsherreds-gym.dk/billeder/Skaersommer/b291102/M vc-003f.jpg Yarr! (and i'm actually serious...i am coming to roskilde so i'd to see you there! =)) |
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as a reference, i look like this: Always stoned looking, with david lynch hair, and standing next to some sound equipment! http://www.odsherreds-gym.dk/billeder/Skaersommer/b2611022/ MVC-001S.JPG i look so wasted on this pic... |
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wow they seem nice and pretty. you might say they're pretty nice hehe :) i'll consider it. it would be cool to meet other IDM fans there and enjoy good music, and meeting girls :) |
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lol. i was just watching eraserhead last night. u look like henry :) and lynch looks like henry hehe |
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Yes exactly! people constantly refer to eraserhead. also because of my usual surreal behavior (wich is uncanny.. heheh) but yeah, deffenitely consider comming to roskilde! |
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i dont think you look anything like jack nance. |
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Hah, i hope you think i'm prettier. but unfortunately, i'm an ugly bitch. |
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This may sound like a joke but I'm being serious: Tell them what you want. Next time your "friends" ask you for a ride in your car do this: Girl: "Alberto, can you give me a ride somewhere?" You: "Okay, but it'll cost you" Girl: "How much?" You: "(insert sexual act here)" Girl: "No way" You: "No ride" ------------- The point is, you gotta show them who's boss. If you let them step all over you they'll continue to do it. Put your foot down. If they start to hate you then it doesn't matter beause they are selfish little hoe's who were just using you anyways. peace. |
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If your lucky you can ask for a blowjob and they might say yes. In either case you are going to move on to better things. |
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chicks are sluts anyway (i think i'll start a topic about that...) my girlfriend broke up with me this valentine's day. it took like 2 hours to get over her, but now she wants to talk to me again, but she's having trouble doing it. sex is always good, even if not much is going on. a guy is always in the mood. anyway, girlfriends keep me from getting bored and you get to have sex with them. other than that, all girls are crazy. |
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...profoundly in love with Pandora. |
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eh, yeah, im in the same situation pretty much.. trying to get over a girl i've liked for a while who seems to be honestly indifferent towards me.. she seemed like a great girl for me, aside from being really picky, and erm..indifferent towards me heheh so yeah, back to trying to find someone just as good but not as indifferent.. i dunno.. everyone says girls like quiet, sensitive, caring guys.. but they actually seem to be looking for charismatic, self confident guys, regardless of how much of an indifferent asshole he is.. maybe indifference is sexy.. girls seem to be attracted to guys who dont care about them and vice versa hmm. i dont know how this could have helped you at all... maybe try acting like you dont care... seems to work for everyone else |
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http://www.hypertracker.com/go/zsuzer/dubturbo/ |
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"i need a girlfriend" please justify your choice of verb. |
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