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they all crazy. every female in my life got issues. my last girlfriend broke up with me on valentine's day. she had some of my cd's and a sweater, so i asked for it back and that we could talk...2 weeks pass before i get them back. i was supposed to pick them up from her, but instead she stealthed over to my house and put my shit in the mailbox. not that i cared too much because i had given up on the whole concept of us talking, i just wanted my stuff. so later, i sent her an email, not the nicest one, but not the meanest one either. i pointed out some shit she needed to correct because when we were together, all we did was talk about my problems. every once and a while, i'd drop a card off at her house asking that she tell me how she feels because i don't need anymore people in my life that are angry with me. after that, i gave up because i don't want to put anymore time and effort into anyone that doesn't want to improve their life.... ...this week though, she emailed my mom (no need to go into why she has my email address) saying that she's afraid to talk to me. WHY OH WHY THE FUCK WHY THOUGH? i didn't do anything to make her feel this way. i need some insight about why she's like this, especially from you gals on here. |
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because she (as you said) is a crazy female dont try to understand them |
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i don't know why she's got to be this way. i've tried to talk to her before about things, but she says she's not the kind that talks about her problems. well fuck, neither am i, but when things go bad, you kind of have to. maybe she's scared because the things i told her in the email were right. or maybe she actually does care about me still. i dont think she realized that i understood her better than she thought. it's not like i'm going to judge her either, i'm not a judgemental person until they keep fucking things up for themselves. we all have our problems, you know. |
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i know that i don't want to talk to someone when i think i've hurt them or when i think they're pissed off at me. but all the things i've said to her, she should know i'm not pissed and i've forgiven her for the shit she did to me. |
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my girlfriend is great, but for some reason she doesnt like to talk very much either... she is very introvert (spell?) talking about problems or anything is good, but from her I learnt that some other times talking is just unneccessary...when both of us know what the other thinks with just looking at eachother. about you: forget it, why wanna talk? you broke a month ago, she just doesnt wanna know abut you...dont press her |
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exactly...=) DO NOT try, you will just end up making an ass of yourself |
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[shoot her and her family dead] |
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Every time I've been dumped (yeah, I'm always the poor sap) the women have just been plain wierd and I've spent a lot of time stressing out about it, wondering what I've done wrong, blah blah. It's just not worth it. There's a point in a relationship where women dispense with logic. That's a good point at which to call it a day. |
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come on marlowe dont give him such ideas ;D hey hevquip: see it this way: why do YOU wanna talk to her? |
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I wish I had a gf that was fun talking to... well being single isn't so bad, as long as you can get your talking somewhere. |
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" It's just not worth it. There's a point in a relationship where women dispense with logic. That's a good point at which to call it a day." WELL SAID...=) |
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ever hear that revco song "lets (talk) physical"? it's 13 minutes of chris connelly (from ministry/pigface) screaming "TALK!" over and over and over again. |
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well i want to talk to her to help her out. she's in a bad point in her life. i think i kind of was a catalyst to bring up these feelings in her this time around, so i have to correct some of the wrongs. i mean, it only took a few hours to get over her and i've moved on. i dont want her back, but i'm willing to give her a second chance. it's not something i brood on or something that consumes my thoughts. i'm really just frusterated with the whole situation. it's all just part of my quest to understand people. |
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" i dont want her back, but i'm willing to give her a second chance".... Your just asking for a disaster THERE mate...Your mind doesnt want it, you CANNOT force anything. I have tried it, it just blows up in your face and you end up kicking yourself. |
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well...tricky situation. it's hard to explain. it's like the feelings i had for her are gone, but it doesn't mean i dont care about her still. |
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I hear ya...but do YOU want to be in a situation where YOU arent 100% happy? Thats the tough decision...You should definately choose happiness over compromise i think:) |
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i've been happy with her before and i can be happy, but only if she's happy. i do want her to be happy. both me and her never had the best lives, but things turned around in a matter of days for me and part of it is because she helped me out. i think i owe it to her to help her out and help her find happiness this time. i mean, if i can change, then she's capable of it too. |
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Women lack something called "logic". |
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true true...I dont wanna sound like a negative asshole, just had some BAD expierences lately...=) If you feel this will work and you were meant to be with her, I say GO FOR IT...just be careful...Dont let my petty little words stop you from your love.... I would never wanna do that |
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ok, now I understand you but you can only help someone if that someone wants to be helped |
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listen to Trent Reznor's songs... he makes stuff really simple and clear |
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[women lack something called "idiocy"] |
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women lack something called a penis |
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[if you only knew...] |
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they lack a penis until i put it in them. |
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They're great! Well, one is. |
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women.... I wont say anything while my girlfriend is watching |
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is she still watching, nacmat? if so... hey baby, what's up? |
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I love girls. Esp. one in particular. ^^ |
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i love various bits and pieces of them. as a whole, not so much. |
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seriously sounds like you need to get on with your own life. if she doesnt want your help...leave it. sending her cards and emails just makes her think your stalking her. leave it....get on without her. |
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FUCK AND CHUCK ! |
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yeah....you sound like a real ladies man. youve never had a girlfriend have you? |
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she is not watching now: women are... ooo hi darling... no, no I was just reading |
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what SUCKS is LIFE |
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well yeah, i've moved on. so the problem is that now she's trying to get back in and it's a fucking nuisance. |
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and that i cant trust her as to whether or not she really wants help now. |
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FUCK AND CHUCK ! |
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ever seen Chuck & Buck? good movie. |
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i can't even relate to 95% of girls around me.. and i am supposed to be one! girls are weird. |
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Rocky & Bullwinkle! wee! |
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