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Time to reach out to the xltronic board for advice ( preferably from women here). I'm 18, I've been going out with this girl for 3 weeks now, and I'm really not interested in her really anymore and I want to break it off. Problem, valentines day is friday and I really dont want to be an asshole about this so....what should i do? |
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You dont want to break up with her cause its Valentines day? thats bullshit, its just a day you should do it before she starts getting real feelings about you |
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bit of a tough situation...I would suggest not doing it on Valentines Day as you would get a pretty bad reaction so as soon as possible would be for the best...so there is no misunderstanding on your part that it would be leading to a relationship... |
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well, i'm a guy, and being a guy i should probably say something like "JUST HANG IN THERE, SHE'LL TOTALLY DO YOU ON VALENTINES DAY"but that would be shitty. Breaking up is harder when you've had sex with some one, because you've shared yourself with them. anyways... i'd almost say wait till after, but it would be leading her on, and you definately don't want to do that. why do you want to break up with her? is it something big or small? |
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just don't leave it too long, seriously. |
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I mean like i still like her but..... #1 I dont even want a gf now, i dont know why i asked her out #2 she thinks my music is scary and my ideas trivial 'nuff said. Im actually talking to her on aim now, and im saying how dumb valentines day is and she replyed "um ok" ....i think i should just do it here and now |
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go for it man, if it's what you think is right |
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Yeah, im beating around the bush on aim with her right now.....i'm gona draw it out and make it sound like we're completely different people so she thinks it's a good idea to break it off, this is a good idea. *pats self on back* thanks roygbivcore and others |
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how're things going with that? |
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3 weeks is hardly marriage |
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I suggest that you... DONT break up with her online. Or on the phone. Do it in person--its more sincere. You will be less of a coward. Ive had someone break up with me over the phone--it sucks. |
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obviously this girl is not on the same page as you... you are probably correct in thinking that this isn't going to work out... if you're in 2 different worlds, it's probably going to reflect in bad goings on within a relationship. |
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I suggest you try to find good things in your relationship. Why not explain to her your feelings? She's probably a very understanding person. |
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i agree, do it in person, don't be spineless about it... do you want a friendship with this girl at all? i have to ask.... or are you just wanting nothing at all from this? i DO whole-heartedly agree, from my own bad personal experience with it, the phone break-up sucks bigtime! |
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Maybe since you dont want a girlfriend now, tell her that you want to remain friends, but you arent ready for a girlfriend at the moment. Maybe if you are friends and you can open her up a bit more to your music/ideas, then you can ask her out again soemtime when you do actually want to be with someone. :) |
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