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anyone felt this yet, or ever, does it exsist? |
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Yes, Certainly, but your hopes can be dashed. |
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yeah thats a big chance isn't it? |
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I didn't believe it until it happened to me. |
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yeah, i think its happened to me but i don't know what it really feels like so i could be wrong, you know, i could just be coming down with something instead! |
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I think it's impossible to tell someone the symptoms of love at first sight. It's just one of those things you feel on an organic level. You can admire that person and think about that person a lot but also have respectful thoughts as in daydreaming romantic situations. It's always best to know the person very well first. I've ruined friendships and gone in 'nuts first' one to many times. |
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yeah thats the issue here, don't want to go to far too fast, may ruin everything |
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Is it a friend of yours or just someone you have seen? |
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well, shes a friend of a friend, we met a while ago at her birthday party, i was already pretty hammered, and stole some of her decrative soap, in the shape of a rose. that really didn't mean anything, but it was funny at the time. anyway, we would hang out in the same places and chat here and there, this weekend we finally came to the same conclusion, that we should be together, and we really haven't been apart since. theres a real connection going on here... |
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you can still have crushes after the age of 13 you know..... ... thats probably what it is. If it was really love, you wouldn't have to ask. In fact, you wouldn't even be here right now !!! :D |
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It's true |
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Well it sounds good wild man, Just go with the flow. Be friendly and have fun, If something is supposed to happen it will. Just don't pussyfoot around and have fun. |
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the crush thing is true, i have had the biggest little school boy crush on the fiddle player from flogging molly, she gets me so nervous, when we're in the same room i can't even speak i'm so nervous, this isn't that. this is, i'm pretty sure i'm in love, but i feel its to soon and she won't feel the same way, you know? |
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i hope it's out there....... |
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Echo, In the Bay Area dude? Sure it is! :) California is magic. :) |
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i thought love was only true in fairy tales! |
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Love is true in this Dragons tail. }:) |
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Loving someone can be like loving someTHING. You get a buzz out of something you love doing. I also get a buzz from being around my girlfriend let alone talking to her. I'm not sure if you can fall out of love, It might be that there was never love in the first place and it was just a delusion. All in all though, Love is a beautiful thing and I believe it can happen to anyone, anywhere, after any length of time knowing someone and at any age. Must be difficult for very young people coz others will not believe them and say that it's just a crush and wont last. This is just my oppinion. |
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For me, love has always felt the same, ever since i was a kid. I always seem to get together with the girls i fall in love with but i cant be bothered trying to make it work. thats why ive been alone for quite some time now. |
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spikee dragon, i really like your avatar. where did you get it? |
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Love at first site can be hard, just because you love them from the start, doesn't mean that they feel the same. This can get in the way in realtionships, cause even though YOU want to spend every seccond of the day with them, they may need space and time and you can sometimes puch people away. Take it easy and try and controll your feelings as much as you can. |
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and listen to control by pedro the lion. and don't do what it says. |
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Rarndaraki, It was drawn for me by a friend. It's myself as a dragon. |
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could be |
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plus the exitement of a new realtionship can be confused for love, and you have to be sure of what kind of love you feel for this person Love is a very strange thing, and the only way you can find out if it's true or not is by trial and error. |
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spikee dragon. its really cool, like really peaceful and chilled. |
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I love his pic ;o, |
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pogo you bring up a good point, personal space, i could use some to sleep! but i also feel so intoxicated being around her, maybe its not her though, just that shes something new and exciting in my life |
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Down Pogo. :) And yes, I can been seen as quite cold but i'm normally just very relaxed and chilled. |
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Be even more wary of Love at First Shag |
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dude, if you like being around her and stuff, then go for it. don't like put her off, cause then she will be like what the hell was that for? and then you will be like, yea im stupid! and then you will try and get back together, but she will be totally pissed at you, and you will try everything. and even though you both still really love each other, it will never be like it was. then she will go on a cruise and make out with some boy she met. and you will find out from her best friend, and shit, thats when shit gets FUCKED up. you think, "shit, all that shit we ever did, it has no meaning now, cause she went and did it with someone that she doesn't even know and blah blah blah will never see again" so you talk to her about it and are nice about it. but she is really defensive, and her friends are making fun of you too. so one day you realize that for the past 6 months you have been having these problems with this girl (whom is leaving for college in a month), and you call her and tell her you love her, and she tells you she needs to stay away from you.FUCK! |
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wow, i've had some bad relatonships, like dating a 29 year old divorced woman with two children and a siezure disorder, who i'm pretty sure was fooling around on me, but i never got that angry, christ man maybe its time to join a monestary or something! |
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...and loogie, your right thats why we haven't gone that far yet! |
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actually thats not my experience, its a friends. and its much worse then that. i was just giving an overview of what you would feel like and what could happen. but like yea, definitly don't wanna move to fast, but don't end it because of that. "i rushed this, we moved to fast, tripped into, the guest room" |
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whos to say whats rushing though, i don't know, i like to live for the moment usually, is that the wrong approach? |
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nah, not the wrong approach et all. i admire people that live for the moment, cause then life is totally about the journey not the destination. i don't really know where im going, but im sure i will get there. |
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going, we're all going somewhere? i don't think i have much of a destination, like you said just along for the ride! |
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well then, maybe your destination is the journey, and thats the dankest thing ever. |
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true, true, true |
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I'm not sure I believe in love at first sight... I mean, I believe love is based on more then what you can see "at first sight" so to speak... but a friend of mine used to say she believed that there were like 4 different levels of love... I forget what she said they were, but the point is that maybe you CAN fall in love at first sight and that it's a different type of love then love based on years and years of knowing someone, and maybe it's just true love that is based on more then that you know? Hmmm, not sure if I'm making sense... I've thought I've been in love a few times, and maybe it was, but I suppose if I'm not sure then it wasn't love... but maybe love is just what YOU think it is, and there isn't any rules as to what that is... I dunno, love is a hard thing to be concrete about... man, if you're feeling like this then definitely go for it, and all the best... I hope it all works out for you and your love interest... :) |
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I was involved with a girl one time for a short time, but I thought for sure I was in love... and maybe I was... I knew her as a friend for a while before hand, so I knew her a fair bit... but I told her, and I sometimes wonder if it was that that scared her away you know, cause we eventually broke up... it was only a short time we were together, but still, I felt so strongely, so maybe it is love you feel... |
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you guys have been great with your advice, its helped a lot. this has to be one of the most intelligent, thought inspired and mature messageboards around. i bet all the other messageboards are jealous, thanks! |
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LOVE at first sight? NO LUST at first sight? YES sometimes you're lucky, and after the lust, comes love... but LUST is the keyword here |
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Like Zoose said, lust, but not love. I don't think the big L exists at first sight. Looks are nothing. Not NOTHING, but very little. You can't tell things about people just by their outer shell of flesh and cartilage and skin and gross stuff. Only mushy, disgusting brain matter is what counts. And what goes ON in that mushy disgusting brain matter. |
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KYLIE ROOOOOOLZZZZZZ!!!!!!! |
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