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I really hate her. Every time she comes home from work I have to clean up after her. I do all the filthy jobs in the house, and when she promises to do something, she doesnt. The only thing that's keeping me from moving away is that we have a loan on 3400€ that were used on the apartment. We're stuck with eachother until the debt is gone, and that takes about 2 years. It's really not a sexual thing, I just lost my tolerence with her. We have nothing together. We can't talk without arguing. |
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shit! sounds really bad and it's a hell of a situation. :/ |
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start bringing other girls home! |
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sounds like its time for here to KICK ROCKS.....tell her to get on! |
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i'm very sorry to hear that. :-/ i was actually going to start a thread on the problems i've been having with my girl lately, but didn't have the balls to do it. have you at least tried talking to her, and getting through arguements as calm and rationally as possible? |
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It's not bcuz i wan't other girls, i just don't want her. Phobez: yeah. And the worst thing is that I can't affort tto live alone. |
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that's really crap, junkie, sorry to hear that... Hmm, you can always start abusing her anyway you like, cause you don't care about her anymore, right. Not to mention she's a masochist... You can still have fun, eh... |
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maybe I should kill myself...thatll sort out a lot of problems. I have a life insurance on 25000€ |
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All that she do is sit by my second PC and play cardgames! goddammit! I really hate this position. We have lived in that arpartment for two months now, and its still not cleaned up |
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no way Junktion...dont think like that...NO G/F is worth that.... Just stand your ground and let her know EXACTLY how you feel...what do you really have to lose???...continued un-happiness? |
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I have tried (many times) to talk to her. But her respect for me is equal to nothing. She rather watch "Full House" and other crappy TV-shows then cleaning up her mess. Once i pulled the TV-cable out the wall. But she only got more annoying and called me childish (shes so helpless that she couldnt put the cable in again herself) |
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cardgames? Blimey, that is perverse!!! You did mention it was a 133MHz machine if I recall well, but surely some older RTS or fighting games (MK I and II) might run on it... I dunno, man I'd just tell her that it's gone to shit and that you need to separate and settle that loan... When my last girlfriend turned to shit I sacked her but it took me months to admit to myself that I should do it and not before I fell for another did I gather the strength to do what should have been done... |
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She plays a bit Warcraft 2 too (great game tho) |
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But the loan wound be paid off for at least 2 years! |
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wound = won't |
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I really have to stay together or i'll probly end up smoking weed again |
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ahh, fuck it, junktion: weed? Come on, show some fucking character. First: would you rather stay with her for two years and tear yours and hers lives to pieces or split and find some way to pay that loan? You don't have to be together to pay it do you? I understand it's shit but you can deal with it some way. You can find another job or sell some of your stuff or something: anything but stay trapped for fuckssake... Warcraft 2, aha, OK, that is a little better... |
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well put...YOU SHOULD NOT stay with her if you dont LIKE her anymore...I mean cmon man, i hate to sound corny, but there are thousands and thousands better than her out there.... |
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I know i shouldnt stay with her, but i also know that i can't affort moving, nether can she. |
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you can, if you try hard enough: do you prefer to stay with her and snap at each other or to be free even if you'd have to work twice as hard and be poor for quite a long time? |
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maybe thats the only solution....yeah...i guess |
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I mean, I can't pretend that I know your situation all that well and I'm giving you these advices... Disregard me as an idle bastard if you think I'm full of shit. |
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no man...your right...it's just hard to work with my anxiety attacks crawling up my neck. I have a slight problem with pressure in a job |
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To post a topic called 'I hate my g/f' says it all. I think you know what to do; as Meho says call it a day and pay the loan off seperately. Its a cliche but life is too short to spend it with someone you don't like let alone love. My g/f's parents are in a really shitty marriage but they won't go their seperate ways. Its beyond my comprehension. Why stay with someone for the sake of not being alone. I'd be way happier on my own. There's nothing lonelier than being with someone you don't feel anything for. |
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I had a big argue with my girlfriend this morning... but its just that, I love her, I cant stop thinking about her, and I know this little problem will be solved soon. I like how she is. your situation is very complicated but you should quit as soon as possible, cos it can hurt you. |
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I'm not going to tell you what to do / don't. but I hope that it's gonna be allright soon. |
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Thats pretty shitty man.... I mean REALLY shitty. |
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yeah maybe I wasnt too correct by telling him what to do... I should be more ... whatever |
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Yeah, don't do what I say. Listen to your heart. Only you can figure out what to do. |
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What kinda life insurance plan does she have? =) |
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The only thing that I can see happen here is you two will grow to hate eachother more. You moved out together only to find that you aren't as compatible as you thought. Thios can happens to anybody. The most important part now, IMO, is that both parties find a way to back out as graciously as possible. If you continue to live together like this, not only will your mutual contempt grow, but your self contempt will grow with it. |
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And people say all we do is discuss porn/ drugs. And here we prove to be warm, caring human beings *pukes* |
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only solution i see is to watch aome porn and smoke some weed :o) |
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HE JUST QUIT SMOKING WEED!!! (maybe that's why he started to hate her....) |
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you are suggesting that he had liked her only because of being high? |
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maybe.I don't know junktion,so I can't say what happened,but I saw it happen before. |
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Hey man, i think that you should take charge of the situation and tell her what's up. Maybe you can even get the bank to come up with an answer w/ your loan. I was in a simular situation a while back with my old roomate. But i did kick him out, and now things are fine. |
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but you're the one who had his girlfriend take E and participate in threesome and wanted to kill her after being dropped, so I wouldn' take any advice from you. |
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I was in a similar relationship for about 8 months. Everytime I was with her and even sometimes when she was putting out, I was asking myself, WTF AM I DOING HERE?? Why was I with her? Cuz I thought it would be cool before, it wasn't, and honestly, I stuck around becuase I needed someone to make me feel special. I needed someone to praise me. I put up with so much shit that no one in their right mind would, and becuase I did that, she thought I was so great, and I fed off that. Now I've learned to like myself, and get on with myself. I have found a crazy weird but so much better psuedo g/f, and we are going along just fine. GET OUT, BAIL OUT, ROLL OUT..........please man, you have to, things will work out with money, get out and don't look back, you will be 10000 times better off. |
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I hate:her:too! . 5$:pleasse! |
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i can make it look like an accident |
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well....i'll figure something out....thanks for support yall |
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i'm tired of my gf.. the problem is that she's in love with me... and i still care a lot about her... tight situation huh? |
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Wow we all hate your girlfriend, it seems! |
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mine is really controling |
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I'm like that =o\ Jar is always having a go at me for it, but I always cook and I pay the bills =op It's realy hard where we live too, it's a tiny little bedsit, so all you have to do is put something on the floor and the room is a tip !! *pOgO apologises to Jar for being a messy bitch with a big sloppy kiss and a surprise tomorrow !!* |
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mine goes through my stuff |
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Jar does smelly poo's lol I don't cause I'm a girl so all my poo smells like roses |
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I can't stand untidy women... Does she have bad personal hygiene? |
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I'm sure she hates you too, so don't feel so bad. |
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