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supreme
from Antwerp (Belgium) on 2002-05-05 21:55 [#00206995]
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My grandma just died, I'm not sad or so,she was on intensive care for two weeks. we saw it coming,
I already said goodbye. but I feel very weird... I'm 20 years old,and in those 20 years,no one close to me(family/friends)died.
It's the first time such a thing happens to me...
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REFLEX
from Edmonton, Alberta (Canada) on 2002-05-05 21:56 [#00207000]
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Yeah. I know the feeling.... nothing to do but let it pass I guess..... sorry for the loss anyway.
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corngrower
from the fertile grounds of Iowa, w (United States) on 2002-05-05 21:58 [#00207013]
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I know that feeling, when my granpa died a couple months ago, it just didn't seem real for the first few days untill I saw him at the funeral. My condolences.
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LeCoeur
from the outer edge of the universe (United States) on 2002-05-05 22:03 [#00207027]
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sorry to hear about that. a friend of mine recently lost his grandfather and he too was expecting it. but a few days later it really hit him. you never know which direction grief will take you in, sometimes you don't feel it right away.
take care! =(
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Ceri JC
from Jefferson City (United States) on 2002-05-05 22:03 [#00207028]
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My nan died about a year ago, we weren't particularly close -she was losing it upstairs, she didn't know who I was half the time...- but it was the first time any of my relatives died.
As morbid as it sounds, I would have liked them to of had an open coffin at the funeral, so I could SEE that she had died. It was quite hard to really accept it when I hadn't seen her body.
My condolences to you and your family.
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uzim
on 2002-05-05 22:08 [#00207044]
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i remember sometimes i didn't really felt sad/moved... or didn't really thought i felt though, cause my face turned white, i looked bewildered and all that... weird... it's like i was lying to myself, or like some part of me was moved but not another...
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B3n
from Manchester (United Kingdom) on 2002-05-05 22:15 [#00207068]
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Yes, my great aunt, who I was pretty close to developed alzheimers and died about as year later, it was pretty sad, especially with such a debilitating disease :/
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steve
from chicago on 2002-05-05 22:21 [#00207087]
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My grandmother died when I was around 22 or so. I hadn't had much contact with her since '89, so it didn't affect me too much. Plus my outlook on things prevents me from getting weepy eyed over things like that.
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plugexpert
from Nijmegen (Netherlands, The) on 2002-05-05 22:22 [#00207091]
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My condolences
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supreme
from Antwerp (Belgium) on 2002-05-05 22:56 [#00207180]
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thank you
:'(
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