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offline supreme from Antwerp (Belgium) on 2002-05-05 21:55 [#00206995]
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My grandma just died,
I'm not sad or so,she was on intensive care for two weeks.
we saw it coming,
I already said goodbye.
but I feel very weird...
I'm 20 years old,and in those 20 years,no one close to
me(family/friends)died.
It's the first time such a thing happens to me...


 

offline REFLEX from Edmonton, Alberta (Canada) on 2002-05-05 21:56 [#00207000]
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Yeah. I know the feeling.... nothing to do but let it pass I
guess..... sorry for the loss anyway.


 

offline corngrower from the fertile grounds of Iowa, w (United States) on 2002-05-05 21:58 [#00207013]
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I know that feeling, when my granpa died a couple months
ago, it just didn't seem real for the first few days untill
I saw him at the funeral. My condolences.


 

offline LeCoeur from the outer edge of the universe (United States) on 2002-05-05 22:03 [#00207027]
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sorry to hear about that. a friend of mine recently lost his
grandfather and he too was expecting it. but a few days
later it really hit him. you never know which direction
grief will take you in, sometimes you don't feel it right
away.

take care! =(


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2002-05-05 22:03 [#00207028]
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My nan died about a year ago, we weren't particularly close
-she was losing it upstairs, she didn't know who I was half
the time...- but it was the first time any of my relatives
died.

As morbid as it sounds, I would have liked them to of had an
open coffin at the funeral, so I could SEE that she had
died. It was quite hard to really accept it when I hadn't
seen her body.

My condolences to you and your family.


 

offline uzim on 2002-05-05 22:08 [#00207044]
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i remember sometimes i didn't really felt sad/moved... or
didn't really thought i felt though, cause my face turned
white, i looked bewildered and all that... weird... it's
like i was lying to myself, or like some part of me was
moved but not another...


 

offline B3n from Manchester (United Kingdom) on 2002-05-05 22:15 [#00207068]
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Yes, my great aunt, who I was pretty close to developed
alzheimers and died about as year later, it was pretty sad,
especially with such a debilitating disease :/


 

offline steve from chicago on 2002-05-05 22:21 [#00207087]
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My grandmother died when I was around 22 or so. I hadn't had
much contact with her since '89, so it didn't affect me too
much. Plus my outlook on things prevents me from getting
weepy eyed over things like that.


 

offline plugexpert from Nijmegen (Netherlands, The) on 2002-05-05 22:22 [#00207091]
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My condolences


 

offline supreme from Antwerp (Belgium) on 2002-05-05 22:56 [#00207180]
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thank you

:'(


 


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