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I feel like my fucked immediate family and my personal problems caused by BPD are making it look and feel like I am gaslighting my girlfriend. I'm terrified because her Dad has been a real fucking example and an alcoholic for as long as she can remember. She's very sensitive to this gaslighting behavior and rejects me when the whole package of gaslighting seems to appear. |
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bit like mermaidman used to do here before i started taking care of him |
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what's BPD? big penis disorder? Is gaslighting a kinky thing? |
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It means taking it up the bum, I think. Which could causes issues if the Big Penis Disorder was an extreme case. |
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No wonder she's so sensitive to it and rejects it when his whole package appears. |
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you are not allowed to have hissy fits in others' threads. i made a thread specifically for this purpose you ungrateful bitch. |
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There should be more awareness raised about couples afflicted by both gaslighting and BDP. *Shudder*, I only hope they can get the help they need. |
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I have an image of gaslighting in my head, a dangerous yet erotic act involving a lit match in the japs eye and a partner with very active flatulence. |
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seems you have a healthy (regular) dose of impostor syndrome and anxiety. possibly unhealthy. or it's just your BPD speaking (i am not a psychiatrist disclaimer) |
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so grateful |
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The term has become quite popular lately. Of you really ae gaslighting her, then stop! Stop being an arsehole, borderline or not! A start would be telling her what you’re telling us. |
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I spelled out it when she got home. We had a great night. Showed her this thread and the imposter syndrome wiki a couple minutes ago. |
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That sounds positive! |
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oh, i read bipolar instead of borderline, but yeah. and what russel said: hurrah! |
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Why do you wanna gas your girlfriend, naziboi? |
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Hi Monoid!! |
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I spelled out it when she got home. We had a great night. Showed her this thread and the imposter syndrome wiki a couple minutes ago. glad to hear it! i've always believed that the best remedy for paranoia and such is actual, real information. talking and communication is the best way to handle these sort of fings |
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I deal with consistent neglect which is either self made or real. Mid 20's right now. I have a feeling that this is an age people do not give a fuck about. |
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Sorry, I don’t care. |
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Chin up, it’ll get better! Or not! |
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You are hilarious. Goodnight man. |
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Fuck me everything looks hostile |
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Man I wasn’t being serious. Sorry if you thought I was purposely being hostile! |
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Everyone gets teased here. I was trying to be humorous not nasty. I guess xlt isn’t he best place to come to for sympathy though. If I had one piece of advice for you it would be not to expect from others, and to be happy with yourself. It’s tough though. I’m only starting to get there and compared to you I’m old! We tend to expect from others, and of course we get disappointed. |
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he is not bothered by disrespect and endures cruel words, treats others with respect regardless of how others treat him; when confronted by an angry person he does not return anger, instead replies with soft and kind words; even if tortured, he speaks and trusts the truth; he does not crave for blessings or expect praise from others; he never injures or harms any life or being (ahimsa), he is intent in the welfare of all beings;[97] he is as comfortable being alone as in the presence of others; he is as comfortable with a bowl, at the foot of a tree in tattered robe without help, as when he is in a mithuna (union of mendicants), grama (village) and nagara (city); he doesn’t care about or wear ṣikha (tuft of hair on the back of head for religious reasons), nor the holy thread across his body. To him, knowledge is sikha, knowledge is the holy thread, knowledge alone is supreme. Outer appearances and rituals do not matter to him, only knowledge matters; for him there is no invocation nor dismissal of deities, no mantra nor non-mantra, no prostrations nor worship of gods, goddess or ancestors, nothing other than knowledge of Self; he is humble, high-spirited, of clear and steady mind, straightforward, compassionate, patient, indifferent, courageous, speaks firmly and with sweet words. |
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Was reading abou Moksha, and those words made a lot of sense to me. |
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you could always seek professional help, the role of the doctors today is to be at the forefront against the internet medical paranoia |
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not because RD has biten your ass right |
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mohamed, the lowercase advocate |
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I cracked up immediately after I remembered your tone. |
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our russelldust can be drier than a martini when yr all out of vermouth. or something like that. glad you seem to have sorted things out a bit, i had no idea what gaslighting was until this thread |
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i had no idea what gaslighting was until this thread same |
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(ampi max will be beating my ass) gasligting is an important concept to know about. it's something that happens in interpersonal relationships. but also you can view as gaslighting what big multinationals are doing to society and the environment while presenting the image that they're 'enlightened': a new religion or sense of community |
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you can be gaslighted and respond to that calling them crazy, i dont think you are the butcher in that case |
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like every British petroleum advert, they even had one with loads of pop stars in it |
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exactly i should have added that the gaslighting is completed by them blaming the consumers |
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so would u guys say moral gaslighting (opposed to epistemic gaslighting) is a thing ??? |
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when you say gaslighting do you mean when you fart and light it on fire |
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well put, guys |
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I think humans of the not so distant future are going to go through a very dark period in history where fact gets indistinguishable from fiction especially the way things can be manipulated from neural nets, makes you wonder how much of that is already being implemented |
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R u gaslamping us in to thinking the world isn't real? |
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Dark Ages 2: the return. |
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yes methane gas mains |
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nah dont worry what ur saying about corps isnt even wrong its just such a ball achingly obvious thing to say i would have hated it if you acted like you were really educating anyone. but u keep it humble, big. so no problem pal |
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^_^ i thought it'd be an Klein and Chomsky thing to say. but i guess it's not just them pointing this sort of stuff out |
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ampi max let me educate you here for a moment |
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would you be willing to share this moment with me ampi |
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https://www.additudemag.com/oppositional-defiant-disorder-o dd-and-adhd/ I'm in a full nelson with a porcupine |
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Same shit wrong link https://www.additudemag.com/oppositional-defiant-disorder-i n-adults/ |
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wtf the incomplete link sent me to a better different topic. |
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