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offline Monoid from one source all things depend on 2013-11-02 10:16 [#02463909]
Points: 11005 Status: Regular



I care about what other people think of me. I value good
human relationsships
Yet i try to speak my mind whenever i get in contact with
another human being. This is very uncomfortable for me and
produces constant anxiety.
But i have to endure this, because i care and i love the
truth and my personal and emotional freedom.



 

offline drill rods from 6AM-8PM NO PARKING (Canada) on 2013-11-02 13:11 [#02463912]
Points: 1171 Status: Regular



It shouldn't be uncomfortable. Unless you are speaking to a
total spazztard, and unfortunately spazztards make up 90% of
the human population. You just need to learn to avoid them.
This is usually not that difficult as they have distinctive
traits e.g. reading the Toronto Sun, being really obese, and
feeding McDonalds fries to their two-month-old babies.


 

offline horsefactory from 💠 (United Kingdom) on 2013-11-02 14:02 [#02463913]
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There you go Monoid, the cure is to be a condescending prick


 

offline drill rods from 6AM-8PM NO PARKING (Canada) on 2013-11-02 14:06 [#02463915]
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lol


 

offline Steinvordhosbn from London (United Kingdom) on 2013-11-02 15:02 [#02463918]
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VOTE UKIP


 

offline Monoid from one source all things depend on 2013-11-02 16:11 [#02463920]
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I don't think so..


 

offline EpicMegatrax from Greatest Hits on 2013-11-02 16:43 [#02463922]
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therefore, perhaps you should.... ?


 

offline Monoid from one source all things depend on 2013-11-02 17:10 [#02463925]
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Doesn't work


 

offline EpicMegatrax from Greatest Hits on 2013-11-02 17:19 [#02463927]
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so i gather you make these threads simply to reject any and
all possible solutions? what a life you have, sir


 

offline Jaser from Castle Greyskull (United Kingdom) on 2013-11-02 17:55 [#02463930]
Points: 2101 Status: Regular



I think you need some pschyological help if you refer to
everyone else as "human". Isolating yourself is no good.
Seriously phone up the Samaritans and get it sorted. Sooner
you conquer your issues the sooner you can get on with the
rest of your life. It can be good. They have heard it all
before, but they will listen. this will help you. Stop
worrying about what you should be doing and get on with it.
I am a 40 year old man and have had plenty of friends who
have had breakdowns/suicide attempts/depression/anxiety
don't worry yourself sick act on your feelings/worries it is
the only way to get back on track :)


 

offline EpicMegatrax from Greatest Hits on 2013-11-02 18:07 [#02463932]
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i think there's value in letting your emotions run the
course -- let it out, you know? -- but there becomes a
certain point where you need to say "alright, that's enough"
and get up off the couch; do something about it.

the constant lying in society bothers me too on some levels,
as i have the same sort of no-bullshit attitude. however,
it's also rather selfish to be a truth stickler. some lying
is actually a form of caring. it means the person cares
enough about you that they'd rather lie than tell the truth,
because they feel the truth might be hurtful to you, while a
lie would make you feel good. like, i'll tell my old aunties
"you look nice" at family gatherings even when they don't,
because it makes them smile, and saying "i can tell you use
hair dye" would just cause an incident.

really, i think you need to focus on trying to see things
through the eyes of these "people" you have so much trouble
with.

amazing how much content these troll threads generate....


 

offline gniox on 2013-11-02 19:12 [#02463934]
Points: 55 Status: Addict



He iz obviously mentally ill.

Perhaps a straight jacket is what he needs.


 

offline gniox on 2013-11-02 19:20 [#02463936]
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The monoid iz police office in lethal weapon movie

How black partner it iz



 

offline Monoid from one source all things depend on 2013-11-02 21:11 [#02463939]
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I don't wanna be a liar. I mean i have values and shit.
Maybe it would be better to adopt a civilized form of
criticism. How to tell someone he is a fat piece of shit in
a polite manner?
Well, i don't know. But not calling him a fat piece of shit
would be the first step.


 

offline EpicMegatrax from Greatest Hits on 2013-11-03 00:08 [#02463977]
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monoid, people harbor all sorts of delusions, and many are
necessary in order for a person to remain sane, balanced,
and functional. besides, who are you to disrupt the reality
they've assembled? there's nothing gentle about ontological
rape, no matter how it goes down... especially if it's
regarding a sensitive topic like body image.

take balding guys with superbad combovers, for example --
you'd think someone would tell them, right? but no, no one
does. deep down, these guys probably know exactly how it
looks, but they comb it just right so it looks ok from a
single angle in the mirror. then they go out, and no one
mentions it, because this guy is clearly upset enough about
his hair situation that he's allowed himself to deny it
exists. that denial is a long and gradual thing; not
something someone he's just met should tackle. none of your
biz, not your responsibility, etc.... it's best left for a
friend or family member to gently bring up at a good moment.
if none of them do, then it's probably for the best.
meanwhile, the hair situation no longer stresses him out,
and he feels happier. why ruin that? it's cruel.


 

offline EpicMegatrax from Greatest Hits on 2013-11-03 00:17 [#02463979]
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p.s. fat people know they're fat already. no need to waste
conversational bandwidth on the issue.


 

offline hedphukkerr from mathbotton (United States) on 2013-11-03 03:34 [#02463985]
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There's a big difference between lying and just not telling
someone they suck. Who the Fuck made you judge of the
universe, anyway?


 

offline Monoid from one source all things depend on 2013-11-03 13:33 [#02463995]
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It is a white lie.


 

offline Monoid from one source all things depend on 2013-11-03 13:36 [#02463996]
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IT SEEMS you are all liars! But behind that thin mask of
civilization lurks an evil truth. Maybe you are all madmen?


 

offline Indeksical from Phobiazero Damage Control (United Kingdom) on 2013-11-03 16:42 [#02463997]
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Hello monoid I Didn't read the thread because it was too
long but I hope you get over your shyness. In some
situations it may be beneficial to be a little hesitant or
'shy'.

Sam


 

offline larn from PLANET E (United Kingdom) on 2013-11-03 19:36 [#02464007]
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You're the only person that actually exists in the universe,
all of the people you know are not real, you have been lied
to your whole life as the reality you face each day is a
program designed by a deity called Zebra. Monoid please
listen to me, you are a God that has been stripped of it's
faculties a process called pluriform of fall and exile, you
inhabit the Monoid character and now you have to cross over
with the lower and upper realm which will join into one
allowing you to regain your anamnesis, until that time you
must unify with a woman to complete the yin and yang
interface so that light can once again be separated from
dark and that time can be introduced once again.


 

offline -crazone from smashing acid over and over on 2013-11-03 22:24 [#02464012]
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Hi monoid, nice to see you again, I thought you were in
mental hospital again but good to see you're not!


 

offline Monoid from one source all things depend on 2013-11-03 23:05 [#02464013]
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Ive never been to a mental hospital.


 

offline gniox on 2013-11-03 23:50 [#02464014]
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sorority sister he iz


 

offline betamaxheadroom on 2013-11-04 00:53 [#02464015]
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i guess the irony is that the guy who has created
approximately 25-30 new accounts recently probably needs to
be.


 

offline -crazone from smashing acid over and over on 2013-11-04 07:47 [#02464033]
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Really? Then you are a liar, you once wrote you were in
therapy in a clinic for several weeks/months and you we're
not allowed to use a PC.


 

offline hashian on 2013-11-04 08:15 [#02464034]
Points: 115 Status: Regular



kill someone.

you will feel like a god eternally.


 

offline Monoid from one source all things depend on 2013-11-04 11:24 [#02464044]
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That wasn't a mental hospital and i did post from there.


 

offline hedphukkerr from mathbotton (United States) on 2013-11-04 14:01 [#02464051]
Points: 8833 Status: Regular



No mental hospital would take Monoid - he's not crazy, just
pathetic and whiney.


 

offline -crazone from smashing acid over and over on 2013-11-04 14:42 [#02464052]
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therapy in a clinic sounds pretty much like a mental
hospital to me.


 

offline belb from mmmmmmhhhhzzzz!!! on 2013-11-04 14:46 [#02464053]
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yr a good lad monoid, don't let the bastards grind u down


 

offline gniox on 2013-11-04 17:20 [#02464057]
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Monoid is frosty moving to Almanya ?


 

offline EpicMegatrax from Greatest Hits on 2013-11-04 21:29 [#02464068]
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monoid is frothy movements of misasma


 

offline EpicMegatrax from Greatest Hits on 2013-11-04 21:30 [#02464069]
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*miasma


 

offline Monoid from one source all things depend on 2013-11-04 22:41 [#02464071]
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Yeah well, i am not cured, so i guess the therapy wasn't
very effective.
Like i said, it wasn't a mental hospital and i am too lazy
to google the correct english term. So, lets just call it a
love hotel.


 

offline EpicMegatrax from Greatest Hits on 2013-11-04 22:51 [#02464072]
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negro, please. that shit be an "inpatient clinic"

and u mad inpatient


 

offline betamaxheadroom on 2013-11-05 00:45 [#02464075]
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james, your self satisfying enoch powell internet
masturbation crescendo is a definate diminuendo


 

offline -crazone from smashing acid over and over on 2013-11-05 18:30 [#02464085]
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You can't be cured, you can only deal with it.


 

offline EpicMegatrax from Greatest Hits on 2013-11-05 23:55 [#02464128]
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equilibrium is death. monoid is reality. pain, pain


 

offline gniox on 2013-11-06 00:28 [#02464130]
Points: 55 Status: Addict



he wants the change


 

offline Monoid from one source all things depend on 2013-11-06 00:58 [#02464131]
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Yeah, by killing loud mouthed extroverted assholes. This
will cure my angry soul.


 

offline gniox on 2013-11-06 01:47 [#02464133]
Points: 55 Status: Addict | Followup to Monoid: #02464131



What carzone is asking you do is kill snowden

Do you live near the baltic coast?


 

offline Raz0rBlade_uk on 2013-11-06 02:28 [#02464136]
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the cure is to be a wittier than thou internet persona, like
horsefactory


 

offline Raz0rBlade_uk on 2013-11-06 02:30 [#02464137]
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btw, the key is accepting the irrational parts of yourself,
then (and whilst) creating new rational ones. the new voices
become more powerful the more you act in line with them.


 

offline Monoid from one source all things depend on 2013-11-07 01:06 [#02464183]
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My strategy always was to keep my irrational parts in check.
I am a very irrational person, and i am afraid of these
irrational impulses.
I don't wanna be a clown.


 

offline -crazone from smashing acid over and over on 2013-11-07 18:06 [#02464204]
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Killing will not cure your angry soul it will feed your
angry soul.


 

offline EpicMegatrax from Greatest Hits on 2013-11-07 18:14 [#02464207]
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have you ever played with a wounded mouse just like a cat
would?


 

offline RussellDust on 2013-11-07 18:17 [#02464210]
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I love to torture mice before i feed them to my python. That
and the shrink really keep me in check.


 


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