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Oh right, I know what those books are. I think unless you go through something dramatic I don't think your personality will change drastically, you may improve in some aspects depending on the situation or person. |
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What do you mean when you say "success"? |
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Did you go out more? Did you engage in a few interesting conversations? Maybe found love or sex? |
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True, there are also short women who will only go out with tall guys, quite a few women have weird complexes about something and there's no saying how that'll go and if you want to deal with that. There's a reason people write so many books on women, it's a rich subject. |
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Its more about learning a new behaviour. However i don't know if i want to be the protagonist in a cartoon world, created by social retards from the internet |
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You're already are. |
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Hmmm no, i take myself seriously |
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I have found love (am engaged now :D) but it wasn't through pickup. It was through doing self-knowledge/therapy and reading properly researched psychology books; not the pseudo psychology that is spouted by the average pickup "guru". I think that once you accept yourself, you'll likely not even want to talk to the average woman. |
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But what did you do in your 2 pua years? |
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Maybe you are, you're still a character even down to your username. |
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For example, I "gamed" a lot of different women when I was working at a hotel. I was actually pretty good at it. When things got close to intimacy though I just folded because of all my insecurities that I hadn't resolved. I definitely got a high out of appearing "cool" but really it was no substitute for a relationship in which I could actually be myself. |
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You know that sounds good to me. It would be huge improvement to even get to that point. Why couldn't you be yourself when things got |
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close to intimacy? |
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Because I didn't trust them! I thought my my "cool guy" persona would keep me protected but I just wasn't ready for that kind of thing. Of course sex doesn't always have to be about love or whatever, but I had some serious intimacy issues that I hadn't dealt with at all. To be intimate with a woman who I didn't trust was fucking triggering, so I just didn't want to go there. I have to say though, the flirting was pretty fun. |
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you boring bastard |
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Strange. Maybe your cool guy persona needed some modification |
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Hello Crazone, since you work in a mental hospital, do you think that PU Stuff does have any mental health risks? Maybe like that positive thinking stuff etc? I dunno what to think about it. It seems like cognitive behavioural theraphy and Nlp for teenagers mixed with reactionary political ideology. |
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dunno I've never read it..but mental health risk is a big word I guess for reading some stuff on how to pick up a girl. |
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insult them whilst they have a drink in their hand eg - 'when you fell from heaven sweetheart, did you land on your face?' make sure you open your mouth wide, chances are you'll get that drink thrown in there when its aimed for your face. not very nice if the drink is non alchoholic (eg, bovril or a cup-o-soup). |
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Dude, why do you think folks get crazy about stories of a guy who wrote on a donkey to the moon or the son of god. And you think getting ill over a human being of the other sex is not possible....? |
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I need help. |
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