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I am 24 and am told I am intelligent, pretty, loving and fun. I have a good job, a variety of interests and socialise with a diverse range of people, but I have never had a boyfriend. When I was 17, I became a Christian and I feel quite strongly that it is God's will that I marry a Christian, but no Christian man has ever asked me out. I am constantly asked out by non-Christians, several of whom I am attracted to and who would logically make good partners as they have compatible personalities and share common interests and goals. I don't believe in sex before marriage, but this does not mean I do not have sexual desires. I am finding it hard to wait, especially as all my non-Christian friends and even some Christian ones have not. I am lonely and feel torn. What should I do? |
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Think about the consequences of her behaviour. Everyone tiptoes around her, terrified of causing a fight. You spend lots of time comforting and placating her - no wonder she is "sensitive". She is manipulating you all, even if not consciously. She is making herself the centre of attention by having what amounts to tantrums. I urge you not to continue to try to reassure your mother. You will never give her a more "robust heart". By opting out, your siblings are treating her as an adult and you should do the same. |
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The turn of the seasons from summer to autumn means different things depending on where one lives. In the Midwest, the transition is from searing hot temperatures with life-sapping high humidity to a more temperate climate. In the South, it means cooler nights and fewer violent thunderstorms. On the Pacific Northwest coast, it means rain...copious amounts of rain. |
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I broke up from a relationship a year ago and feel pessimistic about my chances of finding the right person. I think one underlying issue is my ethnicity. I'm from an ethnic minority (south Asian), but I am fair-skinned, so people don't immediately realise where I'm from. I have had a liberal upbringing, whereby I can choose my own boyfriends. However, I only seem to attract men who fetishise exotic-looking women. I have been in a few mixed-race relationships, and I feel my ex saw me as something exotic, someone who'd be submissive rather than studious, independent and intelligent. As I am approaching the age when men seem to want to size me up in terms of long-term potential, I sense I score highly to start with, but when they learn about my ethnicity and values, they are put off. And men from my own ethnic group find me too anglicised. I'm studying in London, which I thought was meant to be the most diverse city in the world, but it seems that for some men being with a girl who is British but not ashamed of her background is taboo. |
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you never said how good looking you were. that might be why juuuuuuuuust kidddding |
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get to ann summers and lighten up. If you can type all of this stuff down then you already know which possible stance to take.... |
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that christian needs some serious atheist-cock-seeing-to |
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maybe you should "meet up" with this "female" |
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POST PICS PLZ |
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hmUQmp5tJEU |
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http://fr.youtube.com/watch?v=BGnqjZFdhkY i have no id what u r talking about you should base yr life on a book written 2000 years ago (& full of bullshit) & be more open minded |
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well, basicly you know what is wrong and how to fix it. christianity is for wuzzies. |
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ah i meant you should NOT base yr life on an old book... Poets, priests and politicians Have words to thank for their positions Words that scream for your submission And no-one's jamming their transmission 'Cos when their eloquence escapes you Their logic ties you up and rapes you http://fr.youtube.com/watch?v=6SojAZ0X1e0&feature=related |
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"I feel quite strongly that it is God's will that I marry a Christian" No you don't, you're doing what other people have TOLD you to feel. In fact, reading your post, you are fighting and resisting all your natural feelings, which is causing you untold grief, misery and confusion. Drop your ideological beliefs, based on nothing. Take life at face value, don't live it through books, mantras, culture and tradition, all of which is meaningless. Get away from those who insist on manipulating you to reinforce their own weaknesses and fears. Live a life based on choice and freedom, not personal psychological imprisonment, otherwise you will never be happy. |
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Well, someone told me yesterday That when you throw your love away You act as if you dont care You look as if youre going somewhere But I just cant convince myself I couldnt live with no one else And I can only play that part And sit and nurse my broken heart, so lonely So lonely, so lonely, so lonely So lonely, so lonely, so lonely So lonely, so lonely, so lonely So lonely, so lonely Now no-ones knocked upon my door For a thousand years, or more All made up and nowhere to go Welcome to this one man show Just take a seat, theyre always free No surprise, no mystery In this theatre that I call my soul I always play the starring role, so lonely So lonely, so lonely, so lonely So lonely, so lonely, so lonely So lonely, so lonely, so lonely So lonely, so lonely So lonely So lonely, so lonely, so lonely So lonely, so lonely, so lonely I feel lonely, Im so lonely, I feel so low I feel lonely, Im so lonely, I feel so low |
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haha i was waiting for the akon song gj ceri :) |
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and my feelings are pretty much summed up by this post too. |
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oh shit |
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Yes, it was a close call. ;) |
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exactly. |
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hawhawahwah you guys are thick those areblatantly 2 cut and pastries from a agony aunt thing lolol at the serious jesus bashing replies though good work |
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people are more important than religion. So, go out with whoever YOU WANT to go out with. Not swearing by some stupid myth you don't fully understand. |
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'I don't believe in sex before marriage' what applies to this statement the most? a) wtf b) lol c) wtf/lol |
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TYhis is some funny tshit |
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The spirit glanced at the circle of worshippers, hungry to dominate fresh flesh. They were chanting to a garishly coloured, multi-limbed, grinning idol. Some scratched furiously at the ground, yelping out His name like dogs, while others threw up out of pure elation, coating the ground in vomit. All around, dusty sick-smeared feet jabbed pools of vomit with increasing intensity as the atonal screams hit feverish pitches. The tribe’s excitement was growing to the point where it could no longer be ignored. He knew what was to be done; he had the legal right to perform a new miracle; the door had been opened for him to create a new god. |
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If a girl is always single and can't find a guy its usually a butter face situation. Why? Because every attractive woman I come across has a boy friend. Thats my theory. |
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and that leaves the butter faces for us types |
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indeed |
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A yo R. Kelly What's up man You been spending a lot of time with this girl man I don't know man She just got that vibe you know what I'm saying Aiight tell em the script Aiight bet Vibe, vibe, vibe You've got that vibe Vibe, vibe, vibe You've, you've, you've got that Vibe, vibe, vibe Girl you've got That vibe Ooh, stop the press Girl you turn me on And I wonder If I could take you home I must confess The tight mini-skirt you wear I just can't help it baby I can't help but stare So Tell the DJ To pump it up a little more Hey girl I gotta let you know That you've got that vibe [repeat chorus] It's one o'clock And the party's just beginning The place is jumping Ooh what a lovely scene Gotta let you know Let you know the deal I want you now baby And I'm for real So Tell the DJ To pump it up a little more Now baby I gotta let you know that You've got that vibe [repeat chorus] Yeah How would you like to get A piece of this pie - You could be my girl And I could be your guy Yeah cuddle me in your arms Like I'm your teddy bear There isn't that nice You'll have no fear yo - Kiss me you fool And make me melt like butter When it comes to sayin' I love you I won't st-st-st-stuttter I'll turn you on like a neon light Make everything alright Like in the middle of the night Yo when you need somebody to love you - Yeah Like flintstones we'll have a yabbadabbadoo Kiss and caress you and hold you And my word is born Yo P. A. - Wassup She's got that vibe huh Sing it with me baby Sing it with me baby She's got that vibe [8x] [repeat chorus] You're looking good Feels so nice Joann's got it Leonice has got it Theresa's got it Tonia's got it I tell ya Cheryl's got it Boy I tell you Betty's got it Chip has got it And Ann's got it Gail's got it Stephanie's got it And Sabrina's got it Rachelle has got it yeah Gladys got it Fontina's got it Little cute Aaliyah's got it (!) Ooh Stacy's got i |
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It’s not the way you look, It’s not the way that you smile. Although there’s something to them. It’s not the way you have your hair, It’s not that certain style; It could be that with you. If I had a photograph of you, It’s something to remind me. I wouldn’t spend my life just wishing. It’s not the make-up And it’s not the way that you dance, It’s not the evening sky. It’s more the way your eyes Are laughing as they glance Across the great divide. If I had a photograph of you, It’s something to remind me. I wouldn’t spend my life just wishing. It’s not the things you say It’s not the things you do It must be something more And if I feel this way for so long Tell me is it all for nothing Just don’t walk out the door. If I had a photograph of you, It’s something to remind me. I wouldn’t spend my life just wishing. |
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I am a Christian woman who married at 28, and would encourage you to reserve sex until marriage. Like many couples who do not have sex until marriage, we had a lot of trouble getting our sex life started. I felt cheated; we had acted according to biblical principles, taken stick from our families and friends, and ended up with a decade of naff sex. We set about turning our sex life around and it is now better than I could have imagined, improves with practice and is a very important part of our relationship. I have sympathy with your wanting a relationship now, but most Christians will testify that God's timing is his business not ours and that the path of righteousness can feel very lonely. |
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hallelujah! |
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While visiting my family for the holidays, my 72-year-old father informed me that a 29-year-old Russian woman was coming to America to be with him. He could hardly contain his excitement. Dad didn't want me to tell my brother and sister, because he knew they would be critical of him being with a 29-year-old Russian virgin. He's correct. They would judge him. But I couldn't care less who he fucks. I did ask if he had sent this woman any money. He insisted that he had not. Over the next couple days, I got my father to confess to sending this woman more than $3,000 (he won't give me the real number). A few days later, he went to the airport to meet his lovely Russian girlfriend. Obviously, no Russian woman got off the plane. I have since had some conversations with my dad about the likelihood that a legitimate 29-year-old woman—or even a 50-year-old woman—would want to be with a 72-year-old man in bad health. There is nothing exceptional about him. He is overweight, basically lives on Social Security with enough left in retirement savings for some luxury in life, has no special talents that would make a much younger woman attracted to him, i.e., he is not Jack Nicholson, etc. I encouraged him to think about more age-appropriate partners and did some Internet searches for him on legit dating websites. He's not interested in anyone close to his age. Those women are "old," he says. Dad says he's lonely without female companionship. I don't think this is about being lonely. He works on occasion for my brother, goes out with family and friends. I think it is about an old man who wants to recapture his youth by being with a younger woman. Which is fine. But as his son, I feel obligated to protect what little my father has. He has already been scammed once. We have always had a good relationship. But he confides in me less now because I "lectured" him about his Russian girlfriend and the age difference. |
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You did the right thing completely in looking out for him. If he refuses to accept reality and has the money to spend, he'd be better off with an asian bride, they have higher values and morals than the Russians. They would just be grateful to live in America adapting to that lifestyle. It would never be love, but as close as your dad's going to get to it if he wants a younger woman. |
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what a dumbass, it's your future money he spend, lock him up |
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I drink a good deal and make fun of people I don't even know. I can't eat any hard foods, which might be the reason that I have an abundance of gas. I don't have much ambition and live at home |
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I'm a 16-year-old gay boy. I grew up in an evangelical Christian home. Being the intelligent chap I am, I forgot to clear the history off the computer after looking at pornography one day last October. I got yelled at until I cried that night, and again the next morning, and every day for two weeks. I wasn't allowed to use the computer for a year, and I was forced to attend church nightly. The electronics embargo has ended, so I can watch porn again at least, but I've been forced into the closet by my parents. They both ask me every night whether or not I have a girlfriend, whether or not there are any cute girls in my grade, stuff like that. My mom tears up every time I say that I don't have a girlfriend. My dad sends me links to antigay articles that describe homosexuality as unnatural and an abomination. Once I made the mistake of sending an article back to him countering his points about homosexuality and he stormed into my room and broke both my cell phone and MP3 player in half. What the hell should I do about my parents? Will I ever be able to come out? Or will I have to lie to my parents and wait for them to die? |
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Now this is the story all about how My life got flipped-turned upside down And I'd like to take a minute to talk off-stage And tell you how I became the victim of a thing called roid-rage. In the pro wrestling industry, born and raised, Choking other men is how I spent most of my days. Headbuttin', cross-facin', as a technical king, All while shootin' some steroids outside of the ring. When I got an iPhone, I was up to no good. Skipped a match and flew back to my neighborhood. I took one too many roids, my wife gasped for breath, I said "Stop moving your little ass while I choke you to death!" I whistled for my son and when he came near, He still had "Fragile-X" and the physique of a queer. If anything I could say that this kid was rare, But I thought "Nah, forget it" and deprived him of air! I went down to the gym around 7 or 8, And I yelled to myself "Yo Chris, smell ya latah!" Hung myself to death, at a very young age, Now I'm burning in hell, all because of roid-rage. |
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I am a 19-year-old male with a 4.5-inch cock that has not grown since I was 12. My girlfriend says that it does not penetrate deeply enough. I have already lost two girlfriends because they said the sex wasn't sensational enough. My doctor says I could have surgery, but my girlfriend says I should take pills. I would go with my doctor, but I don't want to have them fuck up my cock. Cock Ain't Penetrating |
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why are we here ? i mean: humans on earth ? are we here ? can Orbital reunite and record a perfect album in about 20 years from now ? |
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fuck up my cock, brilliant |
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Are you lonely? Maybe it's already been posted, don't know, but this thread got me thinking of this BBC gawkumentary I recently watched. It's called and you will surely smile at some classic cases. Cack Dack! |
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it's good to know that there are some dudes out there even sadder than me! |
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Oh I thought this post was serious for a minute. |
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Awesome avatar... I loved Kids. He was such a little bastard. |
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GOD HATES FAGS |
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am an 18-year-old college student. It's been said that college is the time in your life when you can get the most ass. My question: WHERE'S MINE?!?! I'm not some 300-pound Dungeons & Dragons-playing dork. I'm your average 6'2", 135-pound recovering drug addict. There was an article about me in the school paper and my struggle to get clean and how I'm a better person because of it, but no dates came as a result. I don't know what the problem is with the bitches here at my university. Goddammit, I'm from Long Island where people are normal and not like these goddamn rich bitches on campus here in Buffalo. What the hell is in the water in places like Levittown and Great Neck that makes the women into tube-top-wearing snobs? |
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that sucks, cause if i had a chance to fuck the red headed chick in six feet under....i'd do it in a heart beat. |
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