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nanu
from neverland (Switzerland) on 2002-11-28 10:15 [#00459970]
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i'm so sad and depressed, a very close friend from my family died yesterday.i try to not remember on that. don^t say time heals wounds, i know it....actually it seems like never ending... omg....
damn!!!è
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roygbivcore
from Joyrex.com, of course! on 2002-11-28 10:15 [#00459973]
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i'm sorry. i don't really know you well, but it always hurts when some one dies.
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Iroel
from Pisa (Italy) on 2002-11-28 10:17 [#00459978]
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When I'm depressed I usually try to sleep alot...
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Ceri JC
from Jefferson City (United States) on 2002-11-28 10:18 [#00459979]
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Sorry to hear that nanu. Try talking about how you feel about it to someone who was close to them as well. That's the best way to deal with it in my experience.
You have my sympathy.
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nanu
from neverland (Switzerland) on 2002-11-28 10:21 [#00459985]
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thanks a lot! (i dont try to make me popular here) to sleept doesn't really work....i should try to divert me
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Ceri JC
from Jefferson City (United States) on 2002-11-28 10:23 [#00459987]
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Stay busy- If you like doing art/making music do that as much as possible- try to get your feelings out. Spend as much time as possible with friends. Don't sit around the house alone...
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nanu
from neverland (Switzerland) on 2002-11-28 10:26 [#00459992]
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i don't make music.... hm heh. have to go to my training in a few minutes...stay busy can be also difficult :(
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glass_eater
from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-28 10:27 [#00459993]
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im sorry nanu...it happened to me recently and on the board to another xltronic mate...
life is not fair... :(
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uzim
on 2002-11-28 10:29 [#00459996]
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nothing is ever fair. everything just happens, and we have to cope with it, as cruel as it can be sometimes...
condoleances nanu, to you and your family and all the relatives =(
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Elastic
from Zidum (Kiribati) on 2002-11-28 10:30 [#00459997]
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in Mexico death is seen as a good thing
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nanu
from neverland (Switzerland) on 2002-11-28 10:30 [#00459998]
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life is hard :( i'm also sorry for you.....
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roygbivcore
from Joyrex.com, of course! on 2002-11-28 10:38 [#00460009]
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a friend of mine got shot in the head once... it was pretty traumatic
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roygbivcore
from Joyrex.com, of course! on 2002-11-28 10:42 [#00460016]
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and my uncle's girlfriend died of 3 heart attacks in 2 days. she was burried in a tweety bird sweat shirt, bib overalls. half the people there were wearing overalls.
i felt so akward.
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nanu
from neverland (Switzerland) on 2002-11-28 10:48 [#00460039]
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our friend died in an airplane.. on a businesstrip to florida..at least fallen asleep...stopped breathing.. they tried to take him back.
so impossible, there were no signs for heart problems or stress (<- do you understand this word?)
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roygbivcore
from Joyrex.com, of course! on 2002-11-28 10:51 [#00460045]
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yeah, we understand
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nanu
from neverland (Switzerland) on 2002-11-28 10:54 [#00460055]
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i thank you so much for writing to me, it helps ever a bit. have to go to training now..... see ya.....have a great evening..
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Mickey Mouse
from The Moon on 2002-11-28 13:15 [#00460210]
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Life is pain
when you enter into this world you feel pain
when you die, you feel pain
and in between that time there is always pain
When I'm depressed I usually try to sleep alot too
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DJ Xammax
from not America on 2002-11-28 13:20 [#00460219]
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The people around me don't understand why I like sleep so much. They can't see that with sleep, you feel less pain? Trouble is you fucking live longer. Oh well *shoots self repeatedly*
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chambre noire
from Iceland on 2002-11-28 15:17 [#00460315]
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i almost always dream shitty dreams though. so for me it makes no difference. : |
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Mickey Mouse
from The Moon on 2002-11-28 15:18 [#00460319]
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"never give up on the good times, gotta believe in the love you find......." - spice girls
thought I should throw that in here to make it a less morbid thread....
:^/
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nanu
from neverland (Switzerland) on 2002-11-28 15:35 [#00460334]
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:PPPPPP
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Ophecks
from Nova Scotia (Canada) on 2002-11-28 16:01 [#00460364]
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Sorry, it's hard and there's no way getting around it. I've never lost anyone close, so I don't know what you're feeling, really... but I can imagine there's a few people that if I lost them, I'd lose my mind and destroy the earth.
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nanu
from neverland (Switzerland) on 2002-11-28 16:16 [#00460379]
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oh...should i really destroy the world?;)
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nanu
from neverland (Switzerland) on 2002-11-28 16:17 [#00460380]
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i'm so stupid i really try to be funny bbaahh
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Mickey Mouse
from The Moon on 2002-11-28 17:36 [#00460477]
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"all ways look at the bright sii-ide of life"
nanu you gotta look on the bright side of life, because being bi-polar I learned that sleeping and thinking about it too much can make it worse. Being depressed sux's, talking it out is the best way to deal with it IMO
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earthleakage
from tell the world you're winning on 2002-11-28 17:41 [#00460481]
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funerals should be a celebration of one's life, not the other way around. i never understood that :o/
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surrounded
from it won't be hard anymore to li on 2002-11-28 17:43 [#00460484]
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i'm sorry to hear that nanu :-( Don't really know what else to say. Life can be so unfair.
It always amazes me how life goes on anyway... like nothing had happened. When something like this happens i mean. The next day the sun still comes up and people still go to work etc. I know that's only normal, but still... in those sad times, things like that feel so ridiculous and unimportant to me
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nanu
from neverland (Switzerland) on 2002-11-28 17:49 [#00460494]
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yes mickey mouse, i also think that talking about things wich are nit right is the best. bus not ever possible, because of people who don't really understand you
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nanu
from neverland (Switzerland) on 2002-11-28 17:54 [#00460502]
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everybody have to go through it, so I, i'm not special
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Mickey Mouse
from The Moon on 2002-11-28 17:57 [#00460506]
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everyone is special in his/her own way you know
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nanu
from neverland (Switzerland) on 2002-11-28 17:59 [#00460507]
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yes i do of course. thx a lot for remember me of that ;)
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nanu
from neverland (Switzerland) on 2002-11-28 18:00 [#00460509]
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gn8 mickey mouse, sleep well/have a great day.... what time's ever there
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Mickey Mouse
from The Moon on 2002-11-28 18:01 [#00460510]
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indeed peace out!
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