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thought i never would have broken up with her. after how she treated me when she came home, (she goes to school in baltimore, md...) she only talked to me for like 2 minutes! hah! what a fucking pathetic relationship, right? 2 and a half years we had been going out! how insane! then the mother fucking bitch goes and doesn't even answer the door when i was going to give her ONE last chance! she doesn't even answer the door then! she left me outside for 3 and a half fucking hours... not even caring... oh yeah... it was about 10 degrees outside! then her dad comes out and says "she's under a lot of stress... it's best you just leave her alone, and if there's anything left, it will be there in 12 years, because that's how long she'll be gone. pat, it's best to just go with the flow"... so in short, her fucking pathetic ass soul, couldn't even come out to the fucking door, just because she was too chicken-shit! FUCKING BITCH! |
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healthy, ex-relationship, huh? she hurt me ALWAYS, so i finally gave her a call, said "FUCK OFF" and then slammed the phone down... long distance = death to ALL relationships. i doubt she'll ever talk to me again. wouldn't be surprised after the shit i put her through, those pathetic little 2 minutes. |
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People can be such cowards when a relationship is ending. It leaves things ambiguous which is worse than a nice clean break. I always preferred to end things with a bang! Lets you know they're really over. |
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nice clean words, such as "FUCK OFF!" hah! what is funny, is that she had never heard those words from me before, i "didn't do anything wrong" her dad told me... which is soooooooooo fucking true... i was a nice guy, never hit her, told her she was dumb/too fucking skinny (she is an anorexic... self indulged... selfish bitch)/lives with the most psychotic parents/and that she left me with the most ambiguous feeling after she flew back to maryland. |
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i just broke up today... oh well, she was a bitch and and she avoided me alot |
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grumble, some people are such cowards |
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who? me? or my ex? i think my actions gave her a taste of her own medicine... now i hope she cries a lot and ends up hating me... i told her a long time ago... being "friends" after you date someone so long, is devastating... it would have fucked me up even more, and that's not what i want... she obviously payed no attention to that & just thought that we'd still be friends after all of this hurt. |
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man, I think breaks ups should be easier you want to do different things, so you go seperate ways no disrespect, even if one of you started hating the other, just keep all emotions away and go off your seperate ways Man, sorry about dealing with that crap, cheer up m8, there are other girls in the sea. |
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I was referring to your ex, quoth. I can't stand when people don't have the guts to talk about things to you, if she did in the first place things might have been resolved already, if you see her in public again,. stare straight at her, MAKE her deal with it. |
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i've got certain girls that i'm interested in... so i'm set... my ex has 12 years of school down her road! i hope she gets burned out & actually took the time to face the people who actually cared about her once in her lifetime... no regrets from me... it's just that yeah, if she needed out, she shouldn't have had her daddy come out and talk to me... that was the last person i needed to talk to once i knew she didn't want me anymore |
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i would have been like "hey pops, your daughter sucks pretty good dick, you should have her go down on you sometime.... go fuck yourself" then walked away all cool man, that would be good |
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wow... ouch! but true! hehehehehahahahaha! |
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OMFG that's funny |
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tell her od say that she is a self absorbed teen ansgty whiny bitch and should grow the fuck up before she find my bukkake on her face |
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Pffft,.. that's plenty funny too,.. |
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please define "bukkake"/?? |
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on second thought: it sounds like a word that I don't really want to know........ |
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I"VE NEVER MET A WOMAN WHO WASN"T FUCKED IN THE HEAD SOMEHOW |
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bukkakke = a fem with her face covered in ermm,... nevermind,.. |
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OI WEATHEREDSTONERS, WATCH OUT FOR THEMS CAPSLOCKS |
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oh dear, I wouldn't wish that on anyone! *hides as he convulses* |
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yeh, it's strange what turns some people on, I've got some pretty fucked up friends,. so very little shocks me anymore |
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Yeah hey didn't mean to ofend, it's kind of an in joke from ano0ther board that I keep forgetting not to use on other boards. You kinda have to know the story. |
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nonono,. it's all good,.. we need more circulation of funny awesome vulgar stuff JUST LIKE THAT |
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It's just funny how you seem to be totally sarcastic. I don't know. This is off topic anyways |
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if you are able to say those things about someone, then you never really loved them. |
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well ..... hummmmm i wasn't gonna say anything but i figured since you posted it on a public MB i am gonna type some words. i feel something has to be said ...... i don't know the whole story......just your side so it's safe to say there are things that no one but you two know.....so knowing that.....i'm gonna say this. you sitting outside someone's house for 3+ hours in the cold sounds a bit 'stalkerish' to me and i have to ask myself why you would bother doing that knowing how cruel she is? this leads me to believe that you are a bit obsessed with her, and while i don't condone her sending her father to do her dirty work.....YOUR actions woulda scared me! i also find it hard to believe that after 2 yrs you find you could NEVER be friends with her, i mean relationships start out as friendships.....there should be some feeling for that left. your actions are bitter and hateful......how sad. and everyone jumping on the bandwagon against someone you don't know.......its kinda shocking. we should be here for friends and whatnot, but not condone actions that appear from my point of view to be hateful..... sorry to but honesty is my policy! |
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LeCouer has a good point, as always |
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LeCoeur speaks from a girl's point of view, and should be given a good thinking about. However I would imagine that Quoth did the sitting outside for 3 hours thing due partially to a reluctance to go back, and partially due to wanting to give every possible chance to a girl he obviously cares for in some way (he said it's a 2 and a half year relationship and it was a long distance thing so maybe going home without giving her some sort of chance to sort things out maturely one way or the other seemed to soon) Plus it's very easy (for a man at least) to find love turns to hate. Once you've reached that point where you feel more than just friendship for someone, it's completely impossible to go back to just being friends, unless you make a conscious effort to like someone, *and* have someone else to love. And even then it takes great effort and willpower. Mostly you go from love to nothing. And something needs to fill the gap, and hate is easier than love, it's sad to say. Of course, nobody here knows what's going through the girls mind. Maybe she has valid reason for her stress. Who knows. The best thing to do would be to accept that it's over (which Quoth seems to have done with the 'fuck you' comment!) and just be polite and cordial with her in any future contact, just as you might be with any stranger. Being bitter and rude will only make you feel worse in the long run, believe me. It's over, accept it, be nice. At least you're now in a position to ease her stress by being mature about the situation. If you have nothing tying you to her, you have nothing to lose by being nice. ------ Now watch as this thread vanishes, untouched by any other person, as do all the threads I reply to. I don't need to be a mod to close topics. I just need to reply to them. *becomes grumpy* *wishes he could sleep* |
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i agree completely |
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well just so you don't feel like a thread killah.....i'll respond. =0) yes, i am speaking from a girls point of view, a view few people on here share which is unfortunate. i just find it interesting how everyone just assumes it's the GIRLS fault. it takes TWO to start a relationship and TWO to bust it, it's nice to be supportive, however flaming someone's EX is not something i would do.....hate begets hate....period. some guys on here have the wrong attitude about women in general.....and i was trying to show that with my comments about how I SAW things. this comment..... "If you have nothing tying you to her, you have nothing to lose by being nice. " is perfect......being nice is being the better person in this relationship, maybe in the future she'd call you up and apologize for her actions....if you take the higher road. is it an easier road.......NO way......but it's the better one. i have EX's and i made it a point to be friends with them.....one was one of my best friends from childhood.....and i would never wanna lose that. he called me the other day to tell me he was engaged ( i was the second person he told) imagine my joy for him, it made me feel great that he could share that with me and i was genuinely happy. i hope this story proves that it is possible to remain friends. but when you say things in anger.....they are never forgotten.....try to remember that. |
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hey, i want to ease her stress by me never talking to her again. i don't need a pscho like that... besides she said in an email, that i "deserve the perfect girl"... i don't want a perfect anything... all i was expecting from her, when we both said & commited ourselves to a long relationship that we'd both put a positive effort towards it... i really did think that it would work, as long as the communication was there... obviously she physically needed me there... i really don't know & i never will... i really didn't like being treated like that, after all of the time we'd spent together (i flew out over my break, just one month before... completely in love) then... getting this email & the silent treatment, saying that "she wants a break"... what kind of person would do that? -------------------- i am not a stalker, i explained to her that why i waited out there, was because i needed answers, answers, obviously she wasn't ready to say to my face! go figure, because everything she did was indirect. sorry if this topic offended the females on the board... no intention of that... just best to talk about it. |
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it's giving her, her own medecine... you really don't know how harsh that was... sorry to be a little whiny boy, but come on... if you were my girlfriend, would you do that to me? let me stay outside, in the freezing cold, so i wouldn't know what to think? |
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no i woulda faced things with the person, but not everyone can, and apparently she couldn't. the reasons you stayed are your own, but your actions belie the hateful words you are saying. you wanted to give her one LAST chance, in her mind it was already over before she came home. you can't fault someone for wanting to move on before you were ready to. sometimes people need space to think things out, and someone sitting outside my door for hours is NOT giving space. you said what you thought would make you feel better to her "fuck you" but does it really make you feel better? |
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Why thank you kind lady :D I didn't kill a thread! (Although I'm replying now, so this could be the killer :o eep!) I didn't mean to imply that either Quoth or the girl was in error, I wasn't assigning any blame at all, and I wasn't being dictatorial either. Sorry if I seemd like it (my lack of sleep is the problem). In almost any relationship I'd be more inclined to believe that it's the guy's fault that it ends, cos guys have a fantastic, and almost supernatural talent for being complete and utter wankers :) It's part of our charm you know ;) And your comment: ...one was one of my best friends from childhood.....and i would never wanna lose that. he called me the other day to tell me he was engaged ( i was the second person he told) imagine my joy for him, it made me feel great that he could share that with me and i was genuinely happy." ...isn't contrary to what I said about love turning to hate. I didn't say it was impossible to go back to "just friends" in all situations. It just needs a more mature outlook on it all, and a willingness to swallow your pride. Pride is responsible for a lot of the worlds troubles, we'd all be better off with less of it. :) |
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hey i dont even think its a 'girl thing' theres been some pretty nasty sentiments on this thread. ive been locked out of the house before. but yknow in retrospect i think i deserved it. i was quite insensitve at the time. nowadays theres no hard feelings. im an adult now. theres no point in holding grudges |
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I have had some bad relationships in the past... but I am currently in a relationship now that seems to be going great! So here are my wonderful words of advise for you Quoth: I see a bitch........ I slap a bitch if the sailor can still salute, he should be able to go to the parade I think that sums it all up eh? ;*) |
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ehehhee you're making me laugh out loud.....yes i suppose it is part of your charm. =0) and i think you nailed it.....PRIDE....didn't shakespeare say something about that....and that old saying 'pride cometh before the fall' yes.....it is a hard thing to swallow, and yes it takes time. considering my ex who's getting married.....wanted to marry me (and i didnt) i'd say he's a great guy to have gotten over the rejection (of the romantic relationship) and know in his heart that i loved him another way. i can't tell you how it makes me feel inside, good, squishy, warm.....the thing is.....he never said horrible things to me, so i never had something i WOULD have to forget to be friends. thats the hard part...... and i think Quoth you should talk about it, it's healthy! i'm not offended, i just had to add my thoughts. i just couldn't be a 'back slapper' and say i think what you did was alright, cos IMO it wasn't. |
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Its never good to end any relationship on a bad note...... and I should know. Treat others how you would want to be treated. I think its simple as that really. |
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i dont think anyone here can really pass judgement, because none of us where there. it was a 2 1/2 year relationship. Thats very complex. I have nothing to say about your actions, because perhaps they COULD have been justified. Or not. I dont know. Alls I can say is, Im sorry that you are hurting. and that time heals all wounds. |
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thats right mickey |
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thats all you can do |
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It's crazy, my ex went to my gig on the weekend :) I still think she's pretty hot. Dude, peple have problems, you can't avoid it, we don't live in fukkin candyland, just do your best to avoid it, but like don't let ppl tread on you, man. |
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eh, i'm happy with my girlfriend and the sex is good to boot. |
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"i just find it interesting how everyone just assumes it's the GIRLS fault." Well, I think the reason everyone does this is because the person, whoever it is, who mentions a breakup usually says it was the girls fault... so we just try to make him feel a little better, by backing up his decision... it's not that we think all girls are idiots, it's just that the person would give us a brief description of the situation, and would say the girl is in the wrong... but yeah, we shouldn't get too hateful, because none of us but Quoth know's the situation, however I can still say to Quoth that you're probably better off without her... just from what he mentioned there... it doesn't mean I'm hateful, just that it sounds pretty strange... plus, if I was in a relationship for two years, and my girlfriend came home from school and wouldn't even see me? And would only talk for 2 minutes? Hell, I wouldn't know what to think... I'd be freaking out... if you're together with someone for 2 years, and the other person can't even face you, well there's definitely something wrong... and it's not right to just leave the other person hanging, wondering what the hell is going on... at least find the fucking courage to face the person you've been with for two years... but it's also probably not right to over react and say "FUCK OFF!!"... but again, no one knows the true situation but Quoth and the girl... |
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"and i was trying to show that with my comments about how I SAW things." you were trying to show with your comments how you selected ambient works things? Hmmm, that doesn't make sense!!! ;) |
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LeCoeur made some great points about friendship and everything... I've been in relationships that have ended badly, and years after I find myself wanting the friendship back... relationships are based on friendship, at least they should be... and yes, when one is ending, whoever is dumbed or whatever is full of hateful emotions... but still, there is no need to be super hateful... because you might regret it... I spoke with a girl last night who told me one time that she never wanted to see me ever again... goodness, I laid into her when she broke up with me... I told her where to fucking go so bad, it wasn't funny... I treated her like shit, because I felt like shit... and I felt good for maybe a few weeks or months, but then I felt REALLY bad... I'm glad we talked, and maybe we can be friends again... but goodness, there was no need for all this time between us speaking... I should've delt with the situation better... so yeah, there is no need to be hateful!!! :) |
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