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TokyoJo
from London now, not Tokyo anymore on 2002-12-06 08:13 [#00470903]
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I am quite drunk now and will no doubt regret posting this tomorrow but I just wanted to share this with you all....
I had a date tonight with a girl who I think is really cool - Takae. She even loves the same kind of music as me and we went out for dinner and a few drinks then came back to my place to chill and drink some wine and listen to some tunes....
We had a really nice time and shared a nice kiss but then she said she had to go home.. I totally respect that and everything but you cant help but be left with this amazing sense of bitter sweet frustration - we really connected and had a great time and everything - but I really wanted her to stay over and "get freaky" if you know what i mean....
It was still a great time but I cant help feeling just a little bit 'cheated'.. if that makes sense..? Not like I deserve a game of 'hide t he sausage' or anything, but when you really think you have made a connetction and then somebody seems to be running away like that... what does that mean?
And I am going to London to visit my family for Christmas in 10 days and I cant see her before then and I am not coming back to Tokyo until 15th January by which time the momentum will have been lost... shit... sometimes if you meet someone just before you are going to leave somwhere you need to make that kind of physical commitment to show that you like them and will be thinking about them while you are away....
I feel I am going to lose this whole thing.. Anyone know what I am talking about?
Drunk and needing advice. TJ
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C738
from Outer Space on 2002-12-06 08:18 [#00470908]
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Get sober and give her a call in the morning. Its just hormones + alcohol that are causing this. Relax man... There's more than sex (xltronic.com/mb)!!! Just keep in contact with her, take her out etc... When its meant to be, it will continue after 15th januari. dont worry.
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Junktion
from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2002-12-06 08:24 [#00470915]
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burn her some good IDM tunes while your at it...she can listen to that while your away ;)
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bill_hicks
from my city is amazing it is calle on 2002-12-06 08:26 [#00470921]
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Who cares about the bitch? From your description of her I think I've had her and let me tell you she wasn't up to much - plus she gave me a dose. I haven't itched so much in ages.
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Junktion
from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2002-12-06 08:28 [#00470925]
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she's probly just a bit afread cuz she really likes you ;D
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Junktion
from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2002-12-06 08:28 [#00470927]
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stop it Bill...let the boy date ;)
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TokyoJo
from London now, not Tokyo anymore on 2002-12-06 08:30 [#00470930]
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Hey, good idea Junktion...!
I will stick a few sleazy tunes on there as well - (sex machine, german porno music circa 1975 etc etc).... NICE..
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TokyoJo
from London now, not Tokyo anymore on 2002-12-06 08:32 [#00470934]
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Bill_Hicks
Yeah I think she mentioned she got an evil rash on her inner thighs from that wicked facial hair thing you have going on... dont do it again you bastard.
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Junktion
from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2002-12-06 08:33 [#00470935]
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put really sick Squarepusher on it, and some of the more melodic Aphex (like Flim and Cow Cud Is a Twin)...Chris Clark also... ;)
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JAroen
from the pineal gland on 2002-12-06 08:34 [#00470937]
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VENETIAN SNARES!!!
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Junktion
from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2002-12-06 08:36 [#00470941]
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some Vsnares will proply make her pee in her panties...
Autechre and BoC are more girlish me think
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Junktion
from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2002-12-06 08:37 [#00470944]
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put some soul into the collection. Take something you really feel is special...
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C738
from Outer Space on 2002-12-06 08:38 [#00470946]
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better dont add ' come to daddy ' to the compilation..
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TokyoJo
from London now, not Tokyo anymore on 2002-12-06 08:40 [#00470947]
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I will put on some tracks from this cd I have of "Cambodian Rock Music 1970-1976" THAT IS SO RIDICULOUSLY FUNKY it caused my ex girlfriend to lose her rocks every time she heard it...
You perverted bastards look what you have made me done - this thread started so innocently and with such romantic intentions...
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Spikee Dragon
from Newcastle (United Kingdom) on 2002-12-06 08:42 [#00470951]
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"lose her rocks"
I love those words. They are perfect every time.
o/~Get cha rocks off, get cha rocks off honey..o/~
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TokyoJo
from London now, not Tokyo anymore on 2002-12-06 08:45 [#00470954]
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Agree that is a fine expression..
Vinegar Strokes - an expression that seems to be used most often by Viz editors or by people who are "gannin doon the toon th'neet"
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Spikee Dragon
from Newcastle (United Kingdom) on 2002-12-06 08:46 [#00470956]
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I pass the Viz HQ loads of times in town.
I live close to Newcastle. Going there tonight!!! Yay!
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TokyoJo
from London now, not Tokyo anymore on 2002-12-06 08:48 [#00470961]
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Stay clear of the Bigg Market ( I am sure you knew this already though ) - I got duffed up there once...
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Spikee Dragon
from Newcastle (United Kingdom) on 2002-12-06 08:51 [#00470968]
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*nods* Too many monkeys around here thinking with their fists. I hang around the pink triangle where i'm nice and safe, everyone is tame there. or go to private partys.
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Spikee Dragon
from Newcastle (United Kingdom) on 2002-12-06 08:51 [#00470970]
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I like alternative so I don't go where the main clones go.
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TokyoJo
from London now, not Tokyo anymore on 2002-12-06 08:55 [#00470975]
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Just wanted to pick up on something Junktion said before - do you really think girls go all weird and aloof when they like you...?
Not that I claim to really understand women at all (and definitely not Japanese women) but when I like someone I do my best to let them know..
I always though the " they are just playing hard to get because they like you" argument was just a way to make yourself feel better when it doesnt work.... But.. well feck it I dont know..
Opinions?
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TokyoJo
from London now, not Tokyo anymore on 2002-12-06 08:56 [#00470980]
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Spikee - Pink Triangle? What is that??? Sounds like a house of ill repute to me, or is that just my latent sexual frustration coming out..?
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Junktion
from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2002-12-06 09:02 [#00470989]
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Japanese woman = culture questions
Yes some girls (especially the not-so-freeminded types) can go really wierd when they feel "dangerious" types are getting to them. Theyre are afread of a broken heart.
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Refund
from Melbourne (Australia) on 2002-12-06 09:03 [#00470991]
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just make sure you contact her, then things will be fine,.. keep talking to her, it's only when the two of you are alone that your minds can dwell on these thoughts,.. analysing every little incident that happens will only lead you to beleive what you want, not what is true,. just talk about it to her
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TokyoJo
from London now, not Tokyo anymore on 2002-12-06 09:08 [#00470998]
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Junktion - Japanese females are the most enigmatic creatures on gods earth... (and amongst the most beautiful too_)
I have lived in Britain and the US and I think it is not so hard to work out what makes the women tick in those countries... Not so in Japan...
But who isnt afraid of a broken heart? I think most guys who are into IDM mucis are usually pretty sensitive (under the cool exterior) - exactly the kind of guys who got their hearts royally shat on by some incrediblly amazing but aloof girl...
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Refund
from Melbourne (Australia) on 2002-12-06 09:10 [#00471003]
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that's so true
(in most cases)
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Junktion
from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2002-12-06 09:11 [#00471005]
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under the cool exterior..*Hehe*...good one..
yeah, I also think japanese girls are really cute
soften her a bit...show her youre her friend...you can do that if you think of something else than getting her panties.. ;)
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TokyoJo
from London now, not Tokyo anymore on 2002-12-06 09:12 [#00471006]
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Refund - wise words and I like your avatar by the way - from some Japanese manga comic, right? That is what the ladies here try to look like....
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Refund
from Melbourne (Australia) on 2002-12-06 09:14 [#00471009]
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really,...
I wish moving to japan was a viable option for me,. but I'd never get let in,. I've heard that realisticly only engrish teachers and baseball stars are allowed to move into the country
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Junktion
from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2002-12-06 09:15 [#00471011]
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dude... click on the number in the corner of a post to make a reply ;)
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Spikee Dragon
from Newcastle (United Kingdom) on 2002-12-06 09:16 [#00471012]
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Gay zone. I have lots of gay friends and there is no trouble around there. good music too.
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Refund
from Melbourne (Australia) on 2002-12-06 09:18 [#00471016]
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like this?
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Refund
from Melbourne (Australia) on 2002-12-06 09:19 [#00471018]
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"gay" people are usually very accepting about music,. but mostly listen to various forms of pop (at least in australia)
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C738
from Outer Space on 2002-12-06 10:38 [#00471076]
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Heh.. A lot of people think I'm gay. But I guess I just dont have the 'macho-gen'.
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LeCoeur
from the outer edge of the universe (United States) on 2002-12-06 10:40 [#00471078]
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Damn having sex with a girl on the FIRST date.......i'd say thats asking for a BIT much.
i mean really, if you really LIKE and RESPECT the girl you should be happy that she didn't just hop in the sack with you, means she doesn't do that with OTHER guys.
you need to re-evaluate what you consider a successful date. IMO
sheeeeeesh
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C738
from Outer Space on 2002-12-06 10:44 [#00471083]
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True leCoeur...
I wouldnt like it when I would be grabbed by a girl. At least... ... ...unless she's a real hottie.
I'm only human you know...
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LeCoeur
from the outer edge of the universe (United States) on 2002-12-06 10:49 [#00471090]
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thing is this.....and think about this for a moment.
while in fantasy life .....maybe something like this SEEMS like fun, hot, etc....
HOWEVER in real life.....do you think a person (guys and girls) who PUTS out at the drop of a hat....is gonna stick around for ANY length of time, when the going gets tough do you think they'll be there for you......NO F#@king way.....
so while it may be a nice lil fantasy....this is a DEAD end road...
i know some people aren't in IT for the relationship, thats fine....but if you are....think twice about what you want from someone....
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C738
from Outer Space on 2002-12-06 10:52 [#00471093]
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I'm just talking one night stand here. seems fun and I know those things allmost never work out.
I've been inactive for 5 months now, so you know... hormone trouble ;)
To fall in love I need to know and trust a girl. That takes a while.
I know, leCoeur, I know...
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