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...my life is fucked up right now. I moved to Sweden with my girlfriend 2 months ago. It all was going great. She got a job here too. Anyway - We broke up this monday, and now i'm in a pretty weird mood. I have been with her for 1 year and a couple of months. I'm really feeling free now, but in this small time I live in, a little talk with someboy about my ex-g/f has evolved in to bad rumors. I don't like spreading rumors. And now my ex is pissed because she thinks that I have spread the rumors to fuck her up. She is ready to spread some rumors about me. And theres a lot to spread. I'm not at all a good boy. Have done drugs, have hit my ex, have fucked up again and again etc. What do I do now? I'm sitting with some new friends, and they do not know who and how I am. There's weed here, and I havent smoked for 4 months. I'm kinda depressed, cuz the couple living here, has a kid. And the father is here smoking weed. My father smoked weed while I was a kid. Fuck it. Maybe I should turn towards isolating myself, and getting rid of all this bad karma. ...I don't know |
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i really need a response guys... :| |
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seriously...to expect that anyone can talk with me about this, was too much to expect or what? |
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I don't know what to say, but don't smoke weed... stay off it, lay off it... Forget her, forget the rumors, they're just that... rumors. Don't associate yourself with her or anyone close to her, just totally ignore it. Assuming you don't have feelings for her now, of course... if you do, well, that just complicates things... |
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yeah. but still this is a VERY small town...and we both work in a place with 1500 people |
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rumors are disgusting... make me feel sick =( |
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Oh, apparently they're NOT rumors, but actually truths... oh well, in the past. Move on, fuck what people think. There's billions of people in the world, who cares what some insignifigant people think/know. |
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Me personally, I'm used to being the guy that people talk about behind their backs and stuff. So I really don't know what you can do... cuz it happens to me and I accept it and don't give a shit what they think. They won't matter in the future. |
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yeah...youre right...but the weed is so tempting. It will help me with the rumors |
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I think a lot of the guys here are "that guy" ;) |
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it doesn't matter much if rumors are true or false... makes you (or is it just me?) feel as sick when it's true as when it's false... |
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When people do drugs to escape their problems, I can't help but think ''weakling''... but if that helps, do it, I guess... though in the long run it's not helping at all. |
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Heh! I wouldn't be surprised. :-) |
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i don't know everything that people say about me when i'm not there, and i don't want to know it i'm already enough paranoid like that...!! |
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might be an idea to move back home to clear up your head for a while..if you moved into this town solely because of your girlfriend that is..in a town that size with gossip and everything going on..might not be the best place to be aound these constant reminders...some space and time should do you good...I agree with Ophecks..weed is the last thing you need..if you do it while you are down...might end up with an unshakable bummer...even depression.. |
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If she starts spreading rumors n stuff , act real cold about it and as you couldn't care less (even if you do) That will make her feel like she is being the baby in the situation. Of course i don't know all the details but thats what i do in similar situations. Get the psychological upper hand by not revealing one bit of emotion , it annoys and make people insecure. You win! |
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Good advice! Be an indifferent motherfucker, it's SOOO annoying to your opponent when they're trying to bother you, but AREN'T. |
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