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On one end of the spectrum, you have the social chameleon, which has a different personality according to who he's talking with. This person is often conceived as being superficial, with no true personality. On the other side, you have the almost autistic person with no empathy or ability to see things from other people's perspective. This person will often seem cold and arrogant. What do you think is the normal amount of personality adjustment? |
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there is no "normal", really. i'd prefer it if people were civil most of the time, but i hate it when they act like they're interested when they're just trying to be accepted. most of the time it's ridiculously transparent. |
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Just be yourself and don't be an asshole. |
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if my english was better i can do a better explication,so... good afternoon all* |
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30%, sometimes 32%. but yeah, be yourself because it just looks bad otherwise. |
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i sometimes worry that i change too much when im with different people, but hey what can you do, if i tried more to 'be myself' I'd probably tell everyone to fuck off and then come home and watch tv |
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6.7 out of 11.67 |
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I don't think about it at all, I just act according to the situation. |
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you just adjusted yourself to this thread to say that, you fucking hyena! |
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when me and my current girlfriend had our first date everyone told me beforehand: whatever you do, don't be yourself |
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are you that terrible? |
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there is no real me: only an entity, something illusory. And though I can hide my cold gaze, and you can shake my hand and feel flesh gripping yours and maybe you can even sense our lifestyles are probably comparable... I simply am not there. |
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about 20 to 70 PA units is the average any more or less you're definately a freak |
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i got it.)merci horsefact posting on batemans skin. *i like when people live like film directors,and make cool films not like when people live like actors. ..but some actors are very good. |
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let me just get my perrsonality adjustment charrt out... yes, the 'norrmal' amount of perrsonality adjustment is 5.26. |
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he was, but he's shook off the XLT geek mindset. |
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hear, hear |
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i dont really change, although i talk about different things around different people obviously. |
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when you say "don't be an asshole" together with "be yourself," I'm assuming you're saying you shouldn't try to be an asshole, but what if you're yourself and people percieve you as an asshole? |
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I only adjust according to respect for the people I'm with, btw, and that means being truthful and considerate over being polite or civil. |
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this 'be yourself' catchphrase is horrible, and i don't think it applies to anything. if you have to tell people.... fugedabowdit |
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DM: If you're yourself and people perceive you as an asshole, then I suppose you are an inherent asshole. Which is too bad. Tact is the key, really. |
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I don't think it's unusual to change a bit, particularly when dealing with people in a professional capacity. If I tell a friend, "Well, basically it's fucked." they appreciate the honesty. If I told a client that that, I'd be out of a job. I don't think I change my behaviour much amongst my friends/family though. Even among different circles of friends with different interests I behave pretty much the same, even if we talk about different things. BTW Good adverts. Beyond The Wall of Autism Life on the autism spectrum. Find out more. The Springs Community Specialist services for Autism and Aspergers Syndrome |
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I never speak nor socialize in my job. |
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A lot of people that can undergo uncanny transformations depending on who they're with and where, it brings them success. I've never been able to do this and it sucks for me... I can't seem to adjust my sense of humor or project the right demeanor for the occasion. When I'm ''trying to be nice to people'', I think my body language and minute facial expressions give me away that I'm very uncomfortable. My only mode is ''aloof'', which I think people perceive as some sort of rudeness for some reason. |
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truth > politeness being polite is the stupidest form of relieving yourself of responsibility and people should be prepared to hear the truth. conditioning is required. |
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DRUGS! |
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DRUGS ARE REQUIRED |
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Find out your autism quotient (msnbc test) |
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But right now I'm planin' to kill a co-worker. She's been playin the shittiest music ever through the shittiest computer speakers ever for two hours. I'm close to nervous breakdown. Very close. People doesn't seem to care about anything but themfuckinselves. I REALLY wish she dies. Right now. |
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Truth is relative. |
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in this case truth is what you think |
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31 !!!! |
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