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offline exsub from United Kingdom on 2006-06-15 17:14 [#01920772]
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I'm 19, I look 14.

Perhaps I'm like that dude who's 50 (has that rare
condition) where his body doesn't grow, and he looks like a
child still, yet an adults mind.

My looks really ruin my life... Girls my age will turn off
on me a split second from looking at me cos' I look 14,
which is totally understandable, but I have no way to combat
that.

So, the result is... Loner, No girlfriend, No sex, No social
acceptance with females my own age.

And even if i *think* of going out with a younger girl, I'll
get called a "pedophile" and all that shit.

Yeah, what a shit situation I'm in.

sorry to ramble.


 

offline staz on 2006-06-15 17:16 [#01920773]
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if you can buy beer, it's all good


 

offline exsub from United Kingdom on 2006-06-15 17:21 [#01920774]
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I cant buy beer without ID, I look 14/15 years old.


 

offline Raz0rBlade_uk on 2006-06-15 17:21 [#01920775]
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date rape


 

offline Raz0rBlade_uk on 2006-06-15 17:22 [#01920776]
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what? who said that?


 

offline exsub from United Kingdom on 2006-06-15 17:22 [#01920777]
Points: 524 Status: Lurker



I think I might have a condition. When I was younger I had
loads of tests and stuff.. I can't remember much, but it was
really shit cos I kept having to go to the doctor and taking
pills.


 

offline staz on 2006-06-15 17:23 [#01920778]
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just use an ID then, what's the problem?


 

offline Combo from Sex on 2006-06-15 17:25 [#01920779]
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I am 21, look 21 and don't have sex, and I guess I'm OK.

Anyway could u post a pic of you for us to judge what age
you look like ?


 

offline exsub from United Kingdom on 2006-06-15 17:26 [#01920780]
Points: 524 Status: Lurker



Because they think in their minds that I'm 14 REALLY.

I went to college a year ago, and this girl who ws 16, just
did not believe that I was 18, and treated me as I looked,
which was 14, and still is 14.


 

offline exsub from United Kingdom on 2006-06-15 17:27 [#01920781]
Points: 524 Status: Lurker



I look a bit like my avatar, without the pony tails and the
big eyes.

Joking.. I'll see if I can find one.


 

offline Ophecks from Nova Scotia (Canada) on 2006-06-15 17:34 [#01920782]
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How big are you, physically?

I feel for you. Nobody believes I'm 23, but you've got it
really bad.


 

offline Drunken Mastah from OPPERKLASSESVIN!!! (Norway) on 2006-06-15 17:36 [#01920783]
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pics plz

and if you put on a schoolboy uniform and pose a bit me and
Goran will send some money your way


 

offline i_x_ten from arsemuncher on 2006-06-15 17:36 [#01920784]
Points: 10031 Status: Regular



hey thats a bit of a bummer. i know its easy to say but try
not to get too down about it. i used to know a kid the same
age as me and at 18 he still looked 13 but he seemed to cope
with it ok. but then i didnt know him that well. i guess. oh
i dunno. cheer up chuck :)


 

offline exsub from United Kingdom on 2006-06-15 17:42 [#01920788]
Points: 524 Status: Lurker



I have had a bit of a shit life really, bullied, no friend
in middle school// infact all my friends hates me cos they
were the ones to actully bully me, so i had to find new
ones.

Anyway, I have never had a girlfriend, and I only had my
first kiss up til I was 18 where I met this girl (16) and i
had sex with her 3 times, fri,sat,sunday, then broke up with
her on monday.

I never came once, and I didn't even like the sex.

She turned on me anyway, and had (what it seemed) a split
personality.

Since then i've been pretty put off on sex, although I need
some.

I also have this really wierd chest thing, and it's really
not attractive... I think something is seriously wrong with
my growth genes.

Anyway.. thanks for the replies... just wanted to type it
out.


 

offline exsub from United Kingdom on 2006-06-15 17:44 [#01920791]
Points: 524 Status: Lurker



I'm 5'8.. I started puberty really late, and i have a slight
mistache now with some hair on my chin... guess puberty
really fucked up on me eh.


 

offline hobbes from age on 2006-06-15 17:46 [#01920792]
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you'll be a sexy old man. grannies will love you.

on a sidenote: not all women are the cliché ridden things
you have to put up with in your age group. i honestly
wouldn't let it put you down or the dogs will be able to
sense it.


 

offline Raz0rBlade_uk on 2006-06-15 17:47 [#01920794]
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i thought you were gonna say like 5'

5'8 is fine!

all i can suggest is to imagine how you want to look and
become that person in your mind. people respond well to
confidence; especially when they're not expecting it.


 

offline cygnus from nowhere and everyplace on 2006-06-15 17:48 [#01920795]
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sounds like a personal problem to me


 

offline i_x_ten from arsemuncher on 2006-06-15 17:49 [#01920796]
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if you've just got bum fluffy facial hair, get rid of it.
it really will make you look like someone younger trying to
look older.


 

offline Combo from Sex on 2006-06-15 17:51 [#01920798]
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I you wanna talk to a man that never had a girlfriend, never
had sex and never even kiss a girl, I am your man.


 

offline exsub from United Kingdom on 2006-06-15 17:51 [#01920799]
Points: 524 Status: Lurker



Yeah you're right.. you only portray what you want.

Anyway, thanks again for your comments.

I think that I didn't cum was because the situation was
really fucking akwad, and I only met the girl the night
before..

I got really confused though, it was such a long time after
that I had sex, and the same messages kept running through
my head like "Oh Dude, when you have sex for the first time,
you ejaculate straight away".. I swear, most of the shit out
there is just wrong.


 

offline exsub from United Kingdom on 2006-06-15 17:55 [#01920801]
Points: 524 Status: Lurker



It also pisses mee of the fact that people constantly say
"oh wait, wait wait.. it'll be so much more special".. They
are the ones who fucking had sex earlier, and believe that
if they chose a different decision then it would have been
better, but i say bollucks to that... I wish I had fucked my
teacher in school way way back.


 

offline Raz0rBlade_uk on 2006-06-15 17:56 [#01920803]
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the promise never lives up

life lesson 118


 

offline Drunken Mastah from OPPERKLASSESVIN!!! (Norway) on 2006-06-15 17:58 [#01920806]
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pics pics pics


 

offline Combo from Sex on 2006-06-15 17:59 [#01920809]
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pics, please


 

offline Raz0rBlade_uk on 2006-06-15 18:00 [#01920812]
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yeah pics


 

offline Raz0rBlade_uk on 2006-06-15 18:01 [#01920813]
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i need to go to bed. i won't wait long!


 

offline Combo from Sex on 2006-06-15 18:02 [#01920815]
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me too, it's 2am here


 

offline elusive from detroit (United States) on 2006-06-15 18:02 [#01920816]
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im 23 and i cant even grow a full thick beard yet

and im losing my hair

wtf that's like, 2 complete polar opposites

double you tee eff, m8!!!



 

offline Drunken Mastah from OPPERKLASSESVIN!!! (Norway) on 2006-06-15 18:03 [#01920817]
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beards seem to be disappearing from the human race


 

offline Drunken Mastah from OPPERKLASSESVIN!!! (Norway) on 2006-06-15 18:03 [#01920818]
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people with beards are also fat

they die first if we crash into an island out in the sea and
polar bears attack


 

offline Combo from Sex on 2006-06-15 18:04 [#01920819]
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even for muslims ?


 

offline Raz0rBlade_uk on 2006-06-15 18:06 [#01920820]
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i'll wait 4 more minutes


 

offline Drunken Mastah from OPPERKLASSESVIN!!! (Norway) on 2006-06-15 18:09 [#01920822]
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yes
and
italians


 

offline Raz0rBlade_uk on 2006-06-15 18:11 [#01920823]
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ok i'm off. can't wait any longer. time is money!


 

offline exsub from United Kingdom on 2006-06-15 18:13 [#01920826]
Points: 524 Status: Lurker



sorry, my ftp is being shit, and i got work tommrow, ill
take a pic of me tommrow, cos' the only pics i have of me
were a year ago, and they were blury.


 

offline bogala from NYC (United States) on 2006-06-15 18:17 [#01920834]
Points: 5125 Status: Regular



IF I could not cum that wold be great. Not cumming is hard
for some people. Count your blessings.


 

offline exsub from United Kingdom on 2006-06-15 18:23 [#01920835]
Points: 524 Status: Lurker



Not cumming is shit, because I couldn't cum.. I did not have
an orgasm.


 

offline elusive from detroit (United States) on 2006-06-16 01:34 [#01920888]
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i've been there before, m8.
relax


 

offline Falito from Balenciaga on 2006-06-16 01:45 [#01920892]
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the beauty is inside,belive in you and woman comes and fuck


 

offline LuminousAphid from home (United States) on 2006-06-16 01:54 [#01920896]
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even if you think it will work better for you, don't go for
younger girls. most of them really act like it, i've
found... i met a couple of high-school aged girls through
work (i'm 19, they're both 17), hung out with them for a
couple weeks on and off, and then realized that i hate
hanging out with them. i just can't handle all the teenage
drama and "look at me i have so many friends" attitude
that's encouraged in that age group.

that's my small piece of advice. not that i should be giving
any, i'm still in big V status like combo there. although i
have had a girlfriend...


 

offline J198 from Maastricht (Netherlands, The) on 2006-06-16 01:59 [#01920898]
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i'm 25 and look 17ish i suppose. I really fucking hate it as
well.

No beard either.

'ONE DAY THIS WILL TURN OUT TO BE A MAJOR ADVANTAGE' is what
people always say, regarding the 'looking young' thing.


 

offline welt on 2006-06-16 03:12 [#01920922]
Points: 2036 Status: Lurker



maybe work on your STYLE. clothing style etc. if u dont
dress (and act) like a 14 year old, people wont think you
are. plus girls like stylish persons. not exagerrated,
forced stylish of course. get help from a girl whos
intelligent and into fashion.


 

offline WooferAttack from Milano (Italy) on 2006-06-16 03:20 [#01920924]
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I'm 33, I look 21, and I'm very very HAPPY


 

offline Exaph from United Kingdom on 2006-06-16 04:02 [#01920936]
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this will work out for you as u get older anyway.


 

offline Toejam from Perth (Australia) on 2006-06-16 04:22 [#01920947]
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finally! someone who is in the exact same situation as me
:D

trust me, exsub, i know exactly how you feel. i turned 18 in
january this year, and (yes its true) people think i look
13-14 as well :(

I'm the same as you, haven't really had much of a 'social'
life, i keep to myself really, never really hit puberty as
much as normal people do either.

i was always really depressed and i wasn't an active kid - i
could never play sports, got tired quickly and stuff.

so eventually i realised something must be wrong with my
genes/DNA whatever. and then early 2006 (yep, just this
year), i had some blood tests done. after being hospitalised
for 5 days, they finally diagnosed me as having coeliac
disease (or 'celiac' as alternative spelling). it basically
means that because i'm hugely allergic to wheat products -
man's staple food, especially these days - a reaction
occurred from the toxic 'gluten' component and resulted in
my body being SEVERLY MALNOURISHED!

That's why i've always been really thin/pale/short etc. Even
in 6 months life has improved both physically and
psychologically - i'm not so depressed anymore, have more
confidence, and i'm 'developing' a bit faster now (though
i'm still WAY behind either 18 year olds).

So yeah man, YOU'RE NOT THE ONLY ONE! And its fucking
difficult. It really is. People give me shit about it all
the time, sometimes I've been close to suicidal.....

But yeah, get some blood tests done for sure. Or at least I
would if i were you - in my case, this could've been fixed
years ago, if i knew about it :(



 

offline Ezkerraldean from the lowest common denominator (United Kingdom) on 2006-06-16 04:26 [#01920950]
Points: 5733 Status: Addict



im 18, people say i look 30. scary.


 

offline Raz0rBlade_uk on 2006-06-16 04:27 [#01920952]
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jesus.

i think i look my age


 

offline Ezkerraldean from the lowest common denominator (United Kingdom) on 2006-06-16 04:30 [#01920956]
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no, i dont look like jesus, although i am white and most
trashy american films show him as white


 

offline Toejam from Perth (Australia) on 2006-06-16 04:36 [#01920964]
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haha

:)


 


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