|
|
Oddioblender
from Fort Worth, TX (United States) on 2006-03-17 11:44 [#01861980]
Points: 9601 Status: Lurker
|
|
is it a bad idea? i seem cursed by doing it, whenever i write a song for a girl, it seems to curse us about 70% of the time. i'm pretty sure i could compile an album worth of music i have written for girls.
i just finished a 40-minute cd today of music i wrote for a female friend of mine who is going through drama and personal strife, that i have dubbed "Catharsis." it is all synths, no drums or timbre, just four tracks, each hovering around ten minutes a piece, just pure ambient.
anyways, i'm thinking it's a bad idea to write music for people you care about, but maybe i'm wrong. people tend to inspire me though. in fact, soon i will write a song for my favorite listener, mr. lee schulster! :D
|
|
Anus_Presley
on 2006-03-17 11:45 [#01861982]
Points: 23472 Status: Lurker
|
|
of courrse it's a bad idea
|
|
Oddioblender
from Fort Worth, TX (United States) on 2006-03-17 11:46 [#01861984]
Points: 9601 Status: Lurker | Followup to Anus_Presley: #01861982
|
|
music for girls = bad idea. discuss.
|
|
Anus_Presley
on 2006-03-17 11:47 [#01861986]
Points: 23472 Status: Lurker
|
|
it just seems like a waste of time
|
|
earthleakage
from tell the world you're winning on 2006-03-17 11:49 [#01861989]
Points: 27795 Status: Regular
|
|
seems to work for james blunt
|
|
_gvarek_
from next to you (Poland) on 2006-03-17 11:49 [#01861990]
Points: 4882 Status: Lurker
|
|
well, it's better than not writing music
|
|
Anus_Presley
on 2006-03-17 11:50 [#01861991]
Points: 23472 Status: Lurker
|
|
james cunt. lol. :D :D
|
|
Anus_Presley
on 2006-03-17 11:50 [#01861992]
Points: 23472 Status: Lurker | Followup to _gvarek_: #01861990
|
|
is it
|
|
_gvarek_
from next to you (Poland) on 2006-03-17 11:51 [#01861993]
Points: 4882 Status: Lurker | Followup to Anus_Presley: #01861992
|
|
if you're sure you have nothing to say, it not. right.
|
|
r40f
from qrters tea party on 2006-03-17 11:51 [#01861994]
Points: 14210 Status: Regular
|
|
it's a good idea to make the music, but it's not necessarily appropriate to actually give it to the person or tell them about it.
|
|
obara
from Utrecht on 2006-03-17 11:54 [#01861996]
Points: 19377 Status: Regular
|
|
anyways, i'm thinking it's a bad idea to write music for people you care about, but maybe i'm wrong.
no, you're right. when you write music "for" anyone or anything - you usually compromise, don't you. well, the more writers - the more approaches to writing. right.
|
|
Anus_Presley
on 2006-03-17 11:55 [#01861997]
Points: 23472 Status: Lurker
|
|
i just don't know anymorre
|
|
obara
from Utrecht on 2006-03-17 12:00 [#01862003]
Points: 19377 Status: Regular
|
|
I just don't know what to do with myself I don't know what to do with myself movies only make me sad parties make me feel as bad cause I'm not with you I just don't know what to do
|
|
anon
from ^_^ (United Kingdom) on 2006-03-17 12:08 [#01862008]
Points: 1828 Status: Lurker
|
|
Murray promised me he'd make an album for me and never did....I was mean of him not to ,i was a little hurt,But if u didn't promise...and she's not that kind of girl.dont do it.
-A-
|
|
ecnadniarb
on 2006-03-17 12:12 [#01862011]
Points: 24805 Status: Lurker | Show recordbag
|
|
I once wrote a track for qrter but I never gave it to her.
|
|
tridenti
from Milano (Italy) on 2006-03-17 12:29 [#01862020]
Points: 14653 Status: Lurker | Followup to ecnadniarb: #01862011
|
|
Aw.
|
|
Taxidermist
from Black Grass on 2006-03-17 12:32 [#01862022]
Points: 9958 Status: Lurker | Followup to Oddioblender: #01861980
|
|
Its I nice idea to write music for people. It can make them uncomfortable, because that is quite a thing to do for someone. Usually its best to let them hear it, and have a copy of it, without telling them its for them. Then the pressure and encroaching uncomfortableness is gone.
|
|
obara
from Utrecht on 2006-03-17 12:32 [#01862023]
Points: 19377 Status: Regular | Followup to anon: #01862008
|
|
he does his radio show every week and each track he plays is introduced "for -A-". true story.
|
|
Dannn_
from United Kingdom on 2006-03-17 12:39 [#01862027]
Points: 7877 Status: Lurker
|
|
I always regret it later, and look back on it and feel like a cock. Ive given a girl music who thought it was for her when really I was just showing off my best tracks. eep
|
|
ecnadniarb
on 2006-03-17 12:39 [#01862028]
Points: 24805 Status: Lurker | Followup to Taxidermist: #01862022 | Show recordbag
|
|
Unless they say it's shit and then tell you they have got a rude joke and proceed to say "How many niggers does it take to take out a lightbulb."
|
|
DirtyPriest
from Copenhagen (Denmark) on 2006-03-17 12:43 [#01862032]
Points: 5499 Status: Lurker
|
|
Generally a bad idea. But writing music about girls in general seems to be a good idea.
|
|
Oddioblender
from Fort Worth, TX (United States) on 2006-03-17 12:46 [#01862033]
Points: 9601 Status: Lurker | Followup to Taxidermist: #01862022
|
|
that sounds logical.
|
|
big
from lsg on 2006-03-17 12:47 [#01862035]
Points: 23730 Status: Lurker | Show recordbag
|
|
it's alright but you can be so emo
|
|
obara
from Utrecht on 2006-03-17 12:47 [#01862036]
Points: 19377 Status: Regular
|
|
i couldn't make one of my fucked up electronic shit tracks thinking "it's for my sylwia". i sure can make her some mix cds of some cool tracks every few months, .....but experimenting with some shit mad beats and in the meantime thinking "she will like it" ?? it's too much i think.
|
|
Taxidermist
from Black Grass on 2006-03-17 12:49 [#01862038]
Points: 9958 Status: Lurker | Followup to ecnadniarb: #01862028
|
|
People are never going to let me live that down. :(
|
|
big
from lsg on 2006-03-17 12:51 [#01862043]
Points: 23730 Status: Lurker | Show recordbag
|
|
you know you made the good song when your gf brakes up over it :)
|
|
Oddioblender
from Fort Worth, TX (United States) on 2006-03-17 12:53 [#01862049]
Points: 9601 Status: Lurker | Followup to big: #01862043
|
|
haha yeah that's true - though i've written decent stuff after breakups too.
|
|
Drunken Mastah
from OPPERKLASSESVIN!!! (Norway) on 2006-03-17 13:14 [#01862074]
Points: 35867 Status: Lurker | Show recordbag
|
|
it's worked ok till now, just don't make the track a full symphony with a 17minute overture
|
|
anon
from ^_^ (United Kingdom) on 2006-03-17 13:16 [#01862078]
Points: 1828 Status: Lurker | Followup to obara: #01862023
|
|
Lies...I show my support and listen to his on-air shindig!
-A-
|
|
Oddioblender
from Fort Worth, TX (United States) on 2006-03-17 21:31 [#01862352]
Points: 9601 Status: Lurker | Followup to Drunken Mastah: #01862074
|
|
well, it's not like i wrote a "i love you and marry me" track. just ambient music for her to relax to.
|
|
redrum
from the allman brothers band (Ireland) on 2006-03-17 22:05 [#01862365]
Points: 12878 Status: Addict
|
|
emo
|
|
pigster
from melbs on 2006-03-17 22:13 [#01862367]
Points: 4480 Status: Lurker | Followup to Oddioblender: #01862352
|
|
relax too?.. surely theres more you're not telling us.
|
|
pigster
from melbs on 2006-03-17 22:14 [#01862368]
Points: 4480 Status: Lurker | Followup to Oddioblender: #01862352
|
|
to*
|
|
bogala
from NYC (United States) on 2006-03-17 23:35 [#01862373]
Points: 5125 Status: Regular
|
|
make a mix tape. Of bad emo. She'll love it. Put some strokes in there.
|
|
i_x_ten
from arsemuncher on 2006-03-18 04:01 [#01862514]
Points: 10031 Status: Regular
|
|
sing about shopping and hair. that will go down well.
|
|
Oddioblender
from Fort Worth, TX (United States) on 2006-03-19 15:12 [#01863501]
Points: 9601 Status: Lurker | Followup to redrum: #01862365
|
|
yeah, just ambient. what is wrong with that?
|
|
uviol
from United States on 2006-03-19 20:04 [#01863610]
Points: 2496 Status: Lurker
|
|
I wrote an entire EP about a girl I was infatuated with in high school (she was in junior high though). I never told her about it, although I gave copies to some of my friends. Sometimes certain people can be very inspiring, although I find it's usually times and places that are most inspirational.
|
|
Aphexisatwin
from your mom's room (United States) on 2006-03-19 21:34 [#01863621]
Points: 2777 Status: Regular
|
|
I so agree with r40f in this situation.... you can write about people, but does anyone need to know who what song is about ?
|
|
core
from London (United Kingdom) on 2006-03-20 09:10 [#01863849]
Points: 1536 Status: Lurker
|
|
girls find it very flattering
|
|
oxygenfad
from www.oxygenfad.com (Canada) on 2006-03-21 11:32 [#01864551]
Points: 4442 Status: Regular
|
|
Do what you want cause you can't if you don't
|
|
staz
on 2006-03-21 12:39 [#01864576]
Points: 9844 Status: Regular
|
|
GET HER OUT OF THE TRUCK GET HER OUT OF THE TRUCK GET HER OUT OF THE TRUCK GET HER OUT OF THE TRUCK
GET HER OUT OF THE TRUCK GET HER OUT OF THE TRUCK GET HER OUT OF THE TRUCK GET HER OUT OF THE TRUCK
|
|
rarndaraki
from from from from (United States) on 2006-03-21 12:57 [#01864580]
Points: 1833 Status: Regular
|
|
i feel like writing music "for" girls is a scummy thing to do. i mean, it's a bit narcistic isn't it? you're giving her this song, expecting that she loves music and that music means the world to her like it does to you, and maybe she would rather be treated like a full on human with thoughts and the need for regular human to human talking and feedback. writing songs for someone is totally impersonal and doesn't address them as a human. it's fine to write songs "about" people and inspired by people, but your target audience has to be more then one person. if someone came to me claiming that they wrote this one song JUST for me and that I should appreciate it, my initial reaction would be like, "fuck off i'll listen to the music I want to listen to." what i'm saying is just because you two click and all that doesn't mean they're gonna dig you're songs and stuff, songs aren't personal like that... what the fuck am i saying? i guess writing a song "for" someone is just a silly romanticized idea. if it works for you and her then great, though i would never see it working for me.
|
|
Messageboard index
|