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offline DeLtoiD from Ontario on 2005-12-19 11:21 [#01803191]
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is it/could it be over-rated?

there is the supposed connection that MISTAKES love for
monogamy. where did this idea manifest itself into the human
belief system?

completely twisted & sincerly yours,
D.

:F


 

offline redrum from the allman brothers band (Ireland) on 2005-12-19 11:33 [#01803196]
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how does a connection mistake something for something else?

a connection is something abstract. it's not a living,
breathing thing with a brain.

your post makes no sense.


 

offline xceque on 2005-12-19 11:35 [#01803200]
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I have too agree. Also I read the post title as "mahogany"
which made it even more confusing.


 

offline redrum from the allman brothers band (Ireland) on 2005-12-19 11:36 [#01803204]
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it's like he's out to confuse and frustrate. typical
trolling behaviour.


 

offline r40f from qrters tea party on 2005-12-19 11:43 [#01803211]
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mahogany is a type of tree motherfucker!


 

offline Oddioblender from Fort Worth, TX (United States) on 2005-12-19 11:44 [#01803215]
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i'm in a relationship with someone polyamorous right now.
it's odd having to share, but it's less stressful because of
less restrictions. simone de beauvoir once said the more
concretely we live our relationships, the less they are
idealized. so, it's possible to pull off polygamy, but it
requires balancing your time between people.

monogamy is easy...


 

offline redrum from the allman brothers band (Ireland) on 2005-12-19 11:50 [#01803224]
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right, well

i think this idea of monogamy was never made deeply
intrenched in the human belief system; it's part of the
human condition.. cavemen (and indeed, men for centuries
afterwards) would regard their women to be just that - their
women, their property.

however since that's an outdated view of things, i think the
reason people still stick to it is because devotion
is a very important and enriching element of love.


 

offline steve mcqueen from caerdydd (United Kingdom) on 2005-12-19 11:55 [#01803228]
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does polyamorous mean u can bang who u like ??


 

offline DeLtoiD from Ontario on 2005-12-19 12:01 [#01803234]
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are you not in love?


 

offline redrum from the allman brothers band (Ireland) on 2005-12-19 12:02 [#01803236]
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why do you ask that? what makes you think i'm not in love?


 

offline Dolleater from Afrika Bambaataa on 2005-12-19 12:05 [#01803242]
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it never will be, its a social construction, not a cultural
universal.


 

offline DeLtoiD from Ontario on 2005-12-19 12:08 [#01803244]
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connection = insinuation... think plz. it makes all the
sense in the world.


 

offline thecurbcreeper from United States on 2005-12-19 12:09 [#01803245]
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so recently i've been getting into astrology. it just sort
of happened one day, i began reading some books, i didn't
even plan it.


 

offline redrum from the allman brothers band (Ireland) on 2005-12-19 12:14 [#01803250]
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a connection isn't the same thing as an insinuation.

so, perhaps by "connection = insinuation" you mean to say
that you meant to write "insinuation" the first time
around?

that clears nothing up. how does an insinuation mistake
something? can an insinuation also walk down a street?

how's about instead of me trying to understand your first
nonsense post, you rewrite it, and you do the thinking
before writing, instead of leaving it up to us to decypher
your illformed drivel.


 

offline steve mcqueen from caerdydd (United Kingdom) on 2005-12-19 12:30 [#01803268]
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http://www.constipationadvice.co.uk/


 

offline bill_hicks from my city is amazing it is calle on 2005-12-19 12:32 [#01803272]
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Every evolved species of mammal apart from humans know how
to treat the bitches. Why is that?


 

offline xceque on 2005-12-19 12:37 [#01803279]
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Evolution?


 

offline scup_bucket from bloated exploding piss pockets on 2005-12-19 12:39 [#01803285]
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knowing other people well enough to know what they think is
tiresome, fatigue increases exponentially per person.

disco biscuit


 

offline bill_hicks from my city is amazing it is calle on 2005-12-19 12:53 [#01803310]
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bullshit, man. we are regressing. We are becoming like
seahorses or some shit. it's time to time the cum
recepticles by the scruff of their whining necks and say NO!



 

offline bill_hicks from my city is amazing it is calle on 2005-12-19 12:54 [#01803311]
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*time to take


 

offline Taxidermist from Black Grass on 2005-12-19 14:12 [#01803401]
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I have done the monogamous thing and the polyamourous thing.
My current relationship is a polyamourous turned monogamous
relationship. I find it much less stress, no jelousy, no
excuses needed to be in a polyamourous relationship, but my
girlfriend couldn't deal with it in a healthy manner (she
isn't ready for it), so it became exclusive. Funny, it was
her last boyfriend that convinced her to be in an open
relationship, but whenever she got close to sleeping with
someone else, he would flip. Thats when she got involved
with me.


 

offline ecnadniarb on 2005-12-19 15:43 [#01803486]
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blah blah blah blah blah long words in a post, randomly
ordered, in a vain attempt to appear intellectual.


 

offline swears from junk sleep on 2005-12-19 15:51 [#01803496]
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I could have a caring, monogamous relationship. If the girl
had big tits.


 

offline Quoth from Sweden on 2005-12-19 19:03 [#01803637]
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it's a fact, the male penis needs to fill the vagina with
its fluid.

why all this no boning talk?


 

offline steve mcqueen from caerdydd (United Kingdom) on 2005-12-19 19:52 [#01803649]
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what the fuck is polyamourous


 

offline steve mcqueen from caerdydd (United Kingdom) on 2005-12-19 19:54 [#01803650]
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is it like being a filfy slag


 

offline DeLtoiD from Ontario on 2005-12-19 20:09 [#01803655]
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ok thanks. just wanted to hear some opinions... apart from
the childish one-upmanships.



 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2005-12-20 07:34 [#01803796]
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I think it means she's a slapper?

Mating for life is a natural condition amongst some mammals
(not just humans as some people think/assume). It's tied to
the fact we look after our young for years after they're
born (even more so today), so it makes sense from a survival
aspect for both parents to be around to provide for/protect
the young.



 

offline thatne from United States on 2005-12-20 08:00 [#01803814]
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i cant really help loving every girl i meet.


 

offline Chri5py from my Solarbear (United Kingdom) on 2005-12-20 08:31 [#01803817]
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I hate it when people say that they don't believe in
marriage.

I can understand that peoples attitude towards marriage can
change if they've had bad experiences with it, parent
divorce for example, but commitment and marrage are
completely seperate things.

Marrage is a symbol, a gift, a party and a news broadcast,
all at the same time. It's not really something you can
believe in or not.

Commitment can end, with or without marriage.

I got married in May. A little bias perhaps.


 

offline Anus_Presley on 2005-12-20 09:59 [#01803856]
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once all that overr prrotective lust thing wearrs off I
can't see the prroblem in shagging varrious otherr people.


 

offline Quoth from Sweden on 2005-12-20 11:41 [#01803890]
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being monogamous in a marriage is impossible is it not? you
need to fill the inners of her with your stuff, am i correct
or just a sicko?


 


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