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How do you deal with self hate. I hate that im not the person I want to be, that there are some fragments missing. So I need to channel my self hatred to someone/something else. I really hate capitalists, they are trying to suppress me. But the materialist dialect gives me hope, that i can change for the better. |
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just go and shag someone. it doesn't matter if they're fat or ugly, it would probably just do you some good. |
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did you try drugs yet? |
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you would only hate yourself if you've convinced yourself you don't have the means to change for the better. if you love yourself you'll encourage yourself to work on aspects you'd like to improve and you'll be patient with what is infallibly a long, careful process. |
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You're not alone. I hate you too. |
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I secretly believe in my negative self image...thats the problem...so i reproduce the same behaviour over and over again. It is an infinite psychotic regression |
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my parents hate me but NetNannyâ„¢ is alright once she's uninstalled. Self hate is not a problem, self harm however... |
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if only i knew... maybe lower your expectations towards yourself? |
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uhh self hate is usually an effect of depression and low self esteem, which can lead to other more serious mental health problems such as self harm. also if you hate yourself you get more depressed. you don't get out of bed, you don't wash you don't eat or sleep, you don't communicate, you smoke and drink and then you hate yourself for it. its a viscious cycle. so i would say self hatred is somewhat something of a problem |
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then it sounds like you have to find the deep reasons why you engage in your negative behavior, and work on understanding those. |
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Raise them towards yourself!! Dont accept authority, dont believe anyone anymore |
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i try using NLP techniques (which is essentially about dealing with/reframing the self-limiting beliefs which led to the self-hate) |
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Is that the same as logotherapy? |
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Rationality thrown out the window! |
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i blabber on messageboards to take my mind off it. |
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i'm not familiar with logotherapy, but if the logo stands for logic it could be similar yes. self-limiting beliefs are often the product of bad logic (often over-generalising). |
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You mean manichaic logic of the tertium non datur....? |
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AHAHAH Click here Monoid! |
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Self Esteem for Women Everything a Woman needs to build self-esteem & confidence fast! Higher consciousness I need a woman that builds my self-esteem & confidence fast!! Build it up real hard |
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You might find the right girl for you, if you just go out from your house. |
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Yes, a nice whore |
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My advice is: fuck it. As Paul Weller said: "Boy it's a tough world and you've gotta be tough with it." (In his Jam days before he became a retro-soul muppet.) |
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kick out the style, bring back the jam |
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monoid,me and you should just go at it one to one,ring gloves ref,id like to beat you and take pics,make a nice thread. |
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are you capable of talking about anything other than yourself? |
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if you dig far enough back, like two or three years, monoid actually made a few posts about music. |
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that's 99.9% percent of what anybody talks about, isn't it? "what music do I like, what music do i" hate, what do I think about monoid..." |
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from wish to will to decision. whats missing monoid? |
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"what music do I like, what music do i" hate, what do I think about monoid..." so you're saying if i give my opinion on something, whatever it might be, i am talking about myself? that doesn't sound right now does it? |
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Monoid Monoid... sigh...i have run out of insults. Whinyest fucker on earth. You should be in Guiness. Nope one left. =) |
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monoid has at least achieved something. he seems to be the only person who can provoke hanal into saying anything even a bit offensive about someone :) |
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so, monoid, any cool techno parties this weekend? |
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hitler achieved genocide. bravo for him! :) |
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not surprisingly, a telegraphic messageboard style makes it difficult to communicate some ideas. but i do mean that when you type on a messageboard you're essentially taking the opportunity to talk about yourself. after all, you're not going to talk about anything you're not interested in, are you? and the fact is, you're most interested in yourself, and the evidence is your compulsion to share what *you* think. when you talk about an "object" and provide what you think, you may believe that you are talking about the "object," but you are talking about yourself, eg your reactions, your impressions, your associations, your feelings. when you talk about an "object", you're talking about "albertobalsalm and an object." there are of course extensive social rules about how frequently one can talk about "albertobalsalm" without also incorporating some ostensibly external object or subject before "genericxltronicuser#1" steps in to slap you on the wrist and wants to talk about an "object and genericxltronicuser#1." i'm not excluding myself from these observations, btw. it just seems hypocritical to chide someone on a message board for talking about themselves too much. we're all playing the same game, but in the end there's only one game, and only one player. |
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I like music. Have you heard about the band autechre? I like them, because I like electronic music. DO you like eectronic music as much as I do? |
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Welcome on the board |
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I like you, and I like this board |
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A sentence is always constructed like this Subject Object Verb. |
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that reminds me of an amusing anecdote that i found amusing. |
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ok |
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I'd say making thread after thread focusing on yourself is a different matter to simply sharing your opinions on music. ;-) Monoid-simple solution: don't focus on yourself. Try helping other people. Trust me; all these things will dissappear once a crisis turns up where you really need to be there for someone else. You'll lack back on these "issues" and see them as smoke and mirrors-as a result of constant negative thoughts that can often be destroyed through distractions and actually doing something to make a positive difference to those around you. That's just talking through personal experience, and may not apply to anyone else. Also, you may just be taking the piss/having a laugh...(if you are not, i apoligize.) |
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