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so, check it out best friend, female, says she will cut off all contact with you if you are friends with an enemy of hers said enemy of hers is really cool. really fun chick to talk to. has remarkable (and unusual, almost odd) taste in music, greek-italian, beautiful body, laughs and smiles all of the fucking time, loyal. you want to measure the compatability factor w/ her. if you do that , your best female friend will not speak to you or invite you to parties or go on fun little dinners with you anymore. what do you do. just want to see others views/opinions on this situation... you may/may not factor in a convo you had with the best friend where you said, "youre just keeping it real and all that cause you secretly like me" and she got all pissed off, hasnt spoken with you since. does that mean she likes you? (YOU DO NOT WANT TO DATE BEST-FEMALE-FRIEND) |
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fuck her |
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an old buddhist and/or spam email wisdom said you should not judge people by their friends, so in this case you should be 'allowed' to see that other girl otherwise it does sound like girl crap with best friends/ worst enemies stuff, or marlowe |
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if you are not married, fuck it. |
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I'd explain to said friend that I'm a big boy and can fuck whom I wish. But I wouldn't be so blunt, I'd try to talk some sense into said friend. If I can't talk some sense into her, I'd probably ditch her because I'm callous and can't deal with girl shit. Why would they/are they enemies, anyway? |
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best f e m a l e friend, or just a best friend? |
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Hard to say, I've never been in a situation like this so I cant give any advice. Good luck. |
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Usually that means she didnt know how to interpret your comment, or she was terrible offended by your assumption that she liked you. Girls usually take that pretty weird. Shameful, but I have....it doesnt make you an asshole, and I'm sure you meant it sincerly...but girls gotta deal with guys assuming they want the cock all the time (especially if your lezbo) and she herself assumed you were being a prat. HOWEVER, I think the first rings true, and if she stormed off in that manner as you speak of it, she's just marinating on it, Its on you to go talk to her. --poke-- By the way, Hello and whats up! |
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To Quote Ophecks,"I'd probably ditch her because I'm callous and can't deal with girl shit." As I get older, I am less and less inclined to tolerate or waste time on childish, interpersonal grudge matches like this (AKA 'girl shit'). |
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I say sit down with the girl and chat about it in a civilised fashion amigos. then fuck her. |
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i've been in a situation that may be a little close to this one once; a girl who wouldn't want to talk to me again because i was friends with another guy she had problems with. she blew a fuse somewhat and i didn't know what to do. i let it all be, kept talking to the other guy (even though i questioned him about it - it really bothered me)... eventually she calmed down and even them got along well again in the end. now of course i have no idea whether it will be the same way in your case or not. probably not. : / |
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HAhahahahahahaha! You pwn me Weasle. |
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If she really is your best friend she would be happy for you if you are happy. If not, then she isn't worth it. Go and date this girl. |
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to respond to 80% of replies: i am not gonna fuck this girl. i am the type to get attached and i aint wanting that right now. now that thats out of the way aesthetics you hit the nail on the head; why is she all keeping it real and shit, if she is supposed to be my best friend? maybe she isn't i guess. all good things come to an end sooner or later. physt; i think she was pissed @ that comment because she does infact like me. you dont know her at all or me for that matter all that much really but given the situation, what's the likelyhood that she's just jealous? judging from past experience too ophecks; they are not really enemies, one is just completely intolerant of the other for one or more reasons i dont know. figured its a girl thing right off, but its more than that i think. |
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It sounds like 'Enemy' girl is more charming than the 'Best Friends' girl. Don't worry about impressing someone. Hang out with whomever provides more enjoyable company. One of my favourite Lao Zi quotes is "Care about other's approval and you will be their prisoner." Hell, you can just be friends with 'Enemy' girl, and of 'Best Friend' girl doesn't like that then, well...that's her fackin' problem, you seee. |
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thanks for all the awesome stories/advice so far |
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Hmm a rule of thumb that I usually work by... If somebody asks you to chose between them and another person you should choose the other person because they're not asking you to choose. Why does your best friend not like the greek-italian girl? Maybe she has her reasons and is worried for your happiness or something and knows something you don't? In either case it isn't fair to make you choose, the best thing for her to have done would have been to have warned you or told you why she didn't like her and leave it for you to judge for yourself. I think you should talk to your friend and say that just because you are friends with greeky girl that it doesn't change the way you feel about her. They don't have to have any relations with each other just because you are friends with them both. It doesn't say very much about this girl if she's willing to lose your friendship over another girl. She's got some insecurities about you being friends with this other girl, maybe she's scared she'll tell you something about said best friend that she doesn't want you to know? |
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call your friend a drama-queen and sign her up to some reality-tv where you can watch her on television. If she quickly becomes the head "scheme-behind-your-back" bitch, you can be sure she's like that in real-life (although milder.. television has editors and most of those shows are competitions). |
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Hmm a rule of thumb that I usually work by Hahaha, does this happen to you a lot? It's neverr happened to me, everr. |
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I'd say in this instance... is yourr rrelationship with yourr bestfrriend tirred and filled with morre arrguments than happy moments? If it is choose the otherr girrl. |
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I wish my best frriend who's a girrl liked me. I'd be happy. But she doesn't sadly. |
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Most of the time girls look at me and think i am really weird. Nothing else happens after that. So i have no good advice to give. |
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does girl shit smell like boy shit? |
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Haha no, I guess I phrased that wrong! I meant, "what I believe is..." |
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You've changed. I always remembered you as being so on-topic... Maybe I'm wrong. |
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you are right |
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Totalitarian logic |
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fuck all this fucking advice and tip-toeing around your two fucking "friends" listen here boiiiiiiiiiiii if prat #1 has a problem with the other one, tell her you'll work it so that they don't have to be in the same room/place ever. if she starts whinging that that doesn't solve the problem, then tell her to fucking get real. people thinking they can dictate to others who their friends can be? what the fuck is this shit. seriously. girl needs a fucking slap. |
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hurray! btw: is your best friend that blonde, kinda chubby, one, i bet it is |
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Yeah fuck it. Don't bother having a chat to figure out the ins and outs of it. Just slap her like a bitch and then fuck her. Solves everything. |
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Err :/ I didn't mean that. All I mean is that surely someone who wants to dictate to her friends who they can and cannot be friends with isn't worth considering a friend. There must be some history between the two but her demand is dispicable. |
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and for the record, redrum doesn't slap girlies :( |
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That's pretty much what I said! Jeez...:p But I think it's important to find out what her problem is to see if it can save cygnus any hurt. |
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"As I get older, I am less and less inclined to tolerate or waste time on childish, interpersonal grudge matches like this (AKA 'girl shit'). " I agree and, (I don't have many friends now.) would someone tell me how to italic text? would make replying to quotes better. |
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hi howya doin |
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You should! |
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fuckssake. it came up in the preview with the tags. i even spent time typing out all the < and > crap. it's < i > text in here < / i > without the spaces |
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nah i gave it up for lent one year and it kinda stuck. lolllz |
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hehe I agree (and I don't have many friends now.), |
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hehe hehe |
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the title of this topic makes me think of scatophilia. : / |
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does the same for nacmat by the looks of things... :S |
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it's how i innitially read it, it's also kinda true you have to stomach a certain amount of shit from people as they are part shit, like you |
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maybe because we're not native english speakers. |
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no, you are filthy |
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Its obvious your 'best friend' is a jealous insecure bitch. Tell her I said so and she can even email me if she thinks I'm wrong. |
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it did really |
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someone should've posted that movie of that "girl taking the worlds largest dump ever" thing a loong time ago in this thread. |
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Sometimes phrases interpreted literally can be distasterous. I mean, dis-taste-erous. Distastefullous? |
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you're quite right |
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