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i am enamoring of my cousin, i was his toy when she was a little girl and i was a baby, now we worked together and i see her all the days, she is 35 years old and i am 24, there are moments at which we are so closely together i dont want commit an error (error perhaps) or perhaps would have to speak to her?, needs some help, i desire so much her, and i'm tired to retain my passion towards her, i need it... |
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change: "i was his toy", no, is "i was her toy" |
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well, became an atheist ( if youre not ), then you wont have a problem with marrying her. |
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hey why do you have my nick in your profile ??? |
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i not want to marry with her, that does not matter at this moment, and i am not surely if is in question of "love", i believe that in this case it is full desire, my fantasy is to go to the airport and to get two tickets to France, to take her far. ps: i like Opto word, greetings! |
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cousin? why eat where you shit? |
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ah argh ah! agree! |
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I don't know. Genetically, you aren't close enough together to really cause any bad mutations... so making babies shouldn't be a problem. Are you close as family members or as friends. I hate to be a devils advocate, but this will either get stronger or fade away. If it doesn't look like its about to fade away soon, ask to get transfered to a different department, or try to start something with her. The latter is the worst of the two options. If she asks you why, just say that you love her as family and friend, but you don't feel comfortable working so close to a family member, which is the truth. If you stay so close all the time, the most likely thing to happen will be a big mistake one way or another. |
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only in canada |
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What? I suggested that he transfer departments??? |
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my cousin has always been a sister to me. eww.. |
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no i was joking - only in canada would you reason out the notion of forking your cousin - well in america too but not in the 'good' states. |
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Heh... americans have bubba's in every state!!! I can rationalize everything. I didn't really reason it though... I gave him some options, and said "this ones a bad idea, and this ones a good one" Methinks you are acting too aggressively decided on this matter. Overcompensating for somthing, maybe? Maybe, some cousin love that you may have experienced!!! |
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move to the south. |
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I thought the whole american nation was formed from two people. |
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if aggression is coming through my text, i apologize :) - and no there has never been nor ever will be cousin love :( - this thread is hilarious btw. i wish imdex all of the luck in gettin lucky with his cousin. |
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hehe, yeah adam and eve - its in the bible. |
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imdex please see that it is wrong to want to bang your cousin? unless by love you meaning cousin love - no sexual meaning - oh gawd the agony |
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I always said you can't control who you fall in love with. Although this could be a standard freudian oedipus complex... she did take care of him as a baby, and now she is about what his mothers age probly was when he started to lay the groundworks for what a sexual relationship is in his head (people usually do that around the age of 9 to 12). |
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yeah, clear your thoughts man!! that is just wrong! |
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Actually, things like this are quite common, but he should request a transfer of departments, before he ruins his career, and makes things fucked up in his family. |
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why ?because romanians wrote bible where they say that you cant love someone from your family in other than "family love"way ? thats stupid, really. love doesnt choose. |
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what kind of family were you raised in?? but sure, everyone is free to do what they like.. |
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Unless dog_belch is around... |
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right! maybe he could visit imdex, they aren't that far appart. |
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If he presses his real life B7 button, does that stop someone from talking? Maybe he could just B7 imdex untill he gets over his little complex... |
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christians, but as i have free will, and i was teached to think i see stupidities in religions. what has family to do with it ? i asked you why and you know theres no strict answer, and only one comes from the christanic believes that are somehow stupid. see ? guys fells in love with his woman cousin. what now ? will he go to hell ? even i fyoure strongly religious, you should know that some things are just simply happening, and saying "that is wrong" without any particular reason, is even more wrong that doing this wrong thing, really. just gimme 1 reason why its wrong. |
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I say socioligical conditioning. As much as many people hate to believe, its very important. If something is so inherantly against sociological conditioning to be rooted in many many different cultures, then there is probly a reason for that. The only situations where incest is common are ones where there is a lack in suitable mates, so the instinct kicks in, and they find the closest possible breeding partner. |
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well, sociology is a piece of shit to be honest, cos it was invented by humans, therefore it has flaws and lacks of understanding. people just took those little parts of life and theyve said "this is wrong and this is good". i agree ( maybe ) majority has some reasons, which weve lost over centuries, but really - all you need is good reason, which you just dont have in here. what is so bad in loving someone ? apparently ppl will say "its wrong" but if you ask them "why" they wil kept saying "because". thats stupid. |
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i suppose those things can happen yes..but imagine what it would look like if they decided to live together - for their families, friends..also if so happened they had a kid - what it would be like for him/her if/when he/she'd find out about it..not to mention any possible genetic disfigures..but yes, the main reason being society. |
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why is a pretty stupid question which doesn't deserve a better answer than because :) |
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Hey, I did say you can't control who you fall in love with... But then again, as much as sociology has flaws, that doesn't invalidate it. Windows operating systems have flaws, and they still function perfectly well for a multitude of tasks. I find I usually am able to analyze people properly, because I have a fairly good understanding of how the human brain works, both in groups and individuals. Anyways. There is more to this game than feeling. There is intelect, conditioning, and instinct throwing eachother all over the place. If you let one dominate, it misballances everything and then you get little psychos running around causing stupid shit. |
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well, genetic disabilities - that might be a danger, but again - the danger exists allways. as for the society - if you decide to follow the things that society treats as "shit" and "candies", you wil be gray as alien poop.free will, plus the fact, that really, i fuck what others think of me, coz i have my own path, im not a fuckin sheep waiting for a dog to guide me. |
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oh no, its the simplest question that never get proper answer. |
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yes, i don't like to follow society path when it's only about me..when there are other involved i think of them as well though. |
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Never said you were. Unfortunately, you are subject to the same sociological conditioning as most everyone. I don't suppose you notice that rampant individuality has become a big part of that program as of late, have you? Everyones got a hate on for being a sheep. All the sheep are like that |
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Everyones got a sexy cousin or two.... i know i have! *rubs pants* If you act on it though, it'd proably cause a lot more hassle than getting out there and chattiing up non-relatives. |
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haha, well, if thats the case, then we shoul djust sit down and wait for others. i dont want to do this, therefore i will stand by myself and go in my own direction. |
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hey opto, you didn't end up going to a family reunion one day and getting it on with a cousin, did you? You get bonus points if it turns out to be your sister... |
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bwahaha, nah. ive got my own non-cousin squaw. |
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incest surely? first cousins can't marry... |
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hey hey hey! i don want a "baby" with my cousin, the cousins cannot marry between here, but nobody goes to kick in prison to have relations between family, is not bad sight here, some bother themselves and are in against, but at the moment i know many cases this type, and i do not see anything of bad, it seems to me special much more that any other relation and we never chose that we will like, only happens and that is well, greetings! |
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what if she reads this? |
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psst >dude, he's talking like its already happened< |
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lol maybe he is seeking some sort of approval after the fact. i need it... lolo one of the better threads ever |
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les cousins dangereux |
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Heh... I suggested against, but if he is going to contemplate it over and over and over, I say he just go for it. Hit that shit like that shits gonna run!!!! |
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Ugh. That sounded so much funnier in my head... |
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post pics! |
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yeah, pics would really help with this...... if she's a looker, then it all makes sense, but if she's not, then it speaks about a deeper issue with Mr. Imdex.............. ;) |
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