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           tolstoyed
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 what kind of lifesytle are you looking to/for?
  i got a visit from a guy i used to work with today. he  decided to quit job some years ago and has been living in a  cabin in the woods since then. he occassionally helps his  wife who is a college proffesor with some work, but appart  from that he's mostly just walking in the woods, doing work  around the house and such and he doesn't miss the city one  bit apperantly. he appears to be real happy and he's a  really positive person...unlike most of the city folk..
 
  anyway, i always wanted to move out of the city, at least  for a few days per week..just to calm my mind a bit.
 
 
 
  
         
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           neetta
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i just want to be an ecological, ethical, but still trendy  city person with a good taste in 'marginal' music and  design. written down it sounds so shallow and pretentious. 
 
  
         
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           Opto
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well, i think that moving into woods is not a good idea for  a longer period. i presume he will be back to city in next  few years.
 
  as for me, i just want to stay calm, have a house with  garden, little bit of free time to do nothing at evenings,  good job, and a fresh mind. nothing more, really. and i  started to make it real in some parts so yay for me.
 
 
 
  
         
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           Raz0rBlade_uk
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I'd love to live in a cabin the woods. lead a simpler life. However, I don't live in a city but a small village. This  means that I'd rather live in a city as country life is dull  as fuck. I guess it depends on what kind of person you are.
  Or, you always want what you don't have. In your mind things  seem better than they actually would be. 
 
  
         
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           Opto
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it does, but what could you expect ? taste in design. jeez,  i though that desing is what you want things to look like,  not to follow others. 
 
  
         
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           Exaph
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ideally; live off a tropical beach somewhere or travel  fround the world taking photos and selling them to pay my  way. 
 
  
         
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           tolstoyed
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well, i spent most of my holidays when i was a kid at my  grandparents farm and i loved it..it's a very small country  we have here so even if i'd move to the countryside i can be  in the city in half an hour so that's ok :)
 
  btw, i don't think that guy will come back to the city..he  even sold his appartment here. 
 
  
         
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           tolstoyed
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that sounds really good!  i definitely look forward to travelling a lot more.
 
  
         
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           neetta
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by design here i meant all the things around me, i meant  that i want them to look nice (to me and others. everyone  wants to please others on some level. you can't deny that.) 
 
  
         
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           Opto
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i just want to please myself without paying attention on  others, really. 
 
  
         
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           Matvey
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i'd like to be confident that tomorrow will be at least a  little bit less dull than the present day, and to be calm,  or safe - without everyday thinking about time and money,  and do something good and not useless. And yes I like  nature. Preferrably a place near a big river - it soothes  me. 
 
  
         
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           neetta
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do you have a sex life? :o
  shit i am bad with expressing myself with words. i really  have to start working on that. 
 
  
         
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           tolstoyed
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how come you offered to send out those albums then? :)
 
 
  
         
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           tolstoyed
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sounds nice, but what do you mean by dull? there are so many  things you can do today.. 
 
  
         
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           Matvey
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yes, there are lots of things and I'm trying to use my time  on these things but not always successfully, shame.  Sometimes i get too tired at work to do something except  staring into some movie on PC or just sleep. Sometimes it's  just because of the laziness (i must admit). Sometimes it's  bad mood, maybe 'small depression'. 
  I'd like to spend more time with my friends but it's almost  impossible due to the loss of common interests, aging and  different job schedules.
  This would be excellent - to see friends. Maybe the most  wanted thing for me now. 
 
  
         
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           neetta
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friends are the best thing (with art and music as the  second) 
 
  
         
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           Opto
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thats a conversation on level of 5 year old child.
 
  
         
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           i_x_ten
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i want to be free 
 
  
         
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           neetta
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           Ceri JC
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So long as I have a studio, motorbike and mates, and time to  see/do those things, I'm not fussed. Work etc. just falls  around that and is a means to funding it all. 
 
  
         
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           neetta
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i actually meant that as a serious question. how can you  have any friends or love life or anything if don't pay  attention to other people. that's the really close to the  definition of a sociopath :o i might be on the level of a 5  year old but at least i'm compassionate. 
 
  
         
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           i_x_ten
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i want to uproot and never settle
 
  
         
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           tolstoyed
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i don't know what friends are anymore..well, there are a few  people i like a lot, but we don't have much in common so we  don't hang out a lot. appart from that i only know people  who are around when they get something out of it for  them..ahh 
 
  
         
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           Matvey
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when they get something out of it for them
  yes, this takes place here, too. Maybe this feature is  gained by people as they grow up, cause they were not like  this before. 
 
  
         
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           Opto
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i spit on this type of pathetic pretentious mambling about  how life with friends is enjoayble. i have as many friends  as many condoms i used in my life, and i dont need this  stupid discussions about "sense of life", or at least, not  on a fuckin XCLENT ELECTRONIC MB . if i woul dlike to have  this shit i would go to shrink to cry on his soft cozy sofa.  pleasin anyone ? sheesh, and who lately pleased you  ? seems  you must be pretty bored to chat about pleasin others, but  ive got work to do, bye. 
 
  
         
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           Opto
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oh yeah, and be as much pleased as you want, ive just  pleased you with my sweet opinion about whole issue, and  NO  im not angry, i have a GOOD day, im not SAD or anything, im  just FUCKIN TIRED of this "sense of life discussions" based  on a pressumptions that whole worlds loks like your own room   and everyone thinks the same as you do.simple as that. 
 
  
         
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           Opto
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hahahahahahaahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
 
  
         
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           Ophecks
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I don't know what would best suit me or what I want, which  is why I'm in such a mess right now. I can't figure it out,  too many variables and things. Something solitary-ish, I  assume, I just don't have much interest in being part of  society. Cabin in the woods sounds nice, but there's so many  other things to consider. 
 
  
         
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           Ceri JC
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"but there's so many other things to consider." 
  Like no power for the xbox 360 and PS3. :)
 
 
  
         
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           tolstoyed
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why do you even bother coming in these threads? :) we're not all as lucky as you are with our lifes perhaps, so  instead of going to shrinks we can talk about it here..  ofcourse there are always people like you who only make us  feel even worse about ourselfs..if you can honestly say  you're a happy person, well, then im happy for you! :)
 
  matvey, dunno really, i don't have any contact with my old  mates so i don't know what they are like now..they were  alright few years ago, but we didn't have much common  interests and i was real busy at that time so i lost touch  with them.. 
 
  
         
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           tolstoyed
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haha :)
  the only thing i'd really miss would be internet i think..  although i wouldn't go to a place without it in the first  place. i wouldn't want to lose contact with the world.. 
 
  
         
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           Chihiro
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Living in a megalopolis doesn't trouble me all that much... The traffic, pollution, mass people, etc... is indeed  annoying.
  But you can somehow avoid it all most of the time. 
  But when i reach my 40's... i'd like to move out on top of a  mountain, in a chalet in the nature...  im very comfortable  with my own company. 
  And i think it would suit my charachter.   but anywhere i  might end up living.  Im always comfy...   every place has  it's pros and cons.   
 
  
         
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           Ceri JC
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I agree that as people get older, they are more inclined to  'drop' friends who they get nothing from. Seems reasonable  enough, why should you spend time with people you don't  like/who use you? 
 
  
         
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           Opto
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of course there are always people like you who only make  us
  feel even worse about ourselfs
  oh come on Goran, youre overreacting  i think.
 
 
  
         
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           -crazone
             from smashing acid over and over on 2005-05-18 07:03 [#01603376]
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I'd like to have the life style of a multi millonaire and do  nothing all day long unless i want to do something.. 
 
  
         
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           tolstoyed
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why do you always seem to take me seriously? im usually not  when i put smilies at the end see :) 
 
  
         
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           tolstoyed
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yes, but they you soon stay without friends..i used to have  A LOT, and now there are like two :) i expect to lose those  two in next two years haha. 
 
  
         
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           tolstoyed
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that sounds like a perfect plan to me! 
 
  
         
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           Ophecks
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Modern cabininthewoods' have power and internets! And  actually I don't want a literal cabin, I just don't want a  house out there in plain view of all the other houses. A guy  across my street literally has a sort of fancy bungalow  surrounded by trees, I've always coveted that house. Broke  into it with my cousins when we were like 10 and nobody  lived there, ha.
 
  I want something like that, within a stones throw of  everything I need from the modern world, but I'd still be  able to take out my garbage wearing nothing but a beret.  That would rock. Whenever I go out to visit family in the  country, I see lots of hidden houses like this, but  unfortunately I'm too wired to want to live out there. 
 
  
         
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           neetta
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why post hostile comments on a mb if you don't care about  the issue? or are you just one of those people who needs to  feel superior by being mean in the internet? 
 
  you've made me very sad btw. just laugh away.
 
  
         
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           epohs
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i live in a cabin in the woods.
 
  
         
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           epohs
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i've got a couch and a lot of extra blankets, tolst.
  i'll make you a 'mercan if it's the last thing i do!
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           tolstoyed
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           tolstoyed
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           epohs
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Sweet!
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           Opto
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bwahaha, i knew this will make you sad, coz ive seen you  before, little princess. seriously, idea of beeing sad coz  of mb posts is so funny that i couldnt resist, sorry. 
 
  
         
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           neetta
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maybe i should come too. it seems my current life is  fundamentaly wrong. 
 
  
         
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           tolstoyed
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haha, didn't you do it two days ago? anyway, perhaps you  could just leave it that way so it will feel like home. 
 
  
         
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           neetta
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sheesh. i wonder who is being pathetic.
 
  
         
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           epohs
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Sure, I've got a camping air matress that i could spread out  on the livingroom floor.
 
  Just gotta be careful that tolstoyed doesn't step on you in  the middle of the night. 
 
  
         
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